I don’t get it. If you are both clean and have good sexual chemistry, why does it matter how many partners? I understand maybe asking how many long term relationships or how many times they cheated. But to me # partners really isn’t relevant unless one is a virgin.
Just to clarify my statement about virginity being relevant. I mean if a female is a virgin he’a gonna want to take it slow and be gentle and check in on her. If the male is a virgin they can talk about it but if she is not he might be more comfortable with her taking the reigns the first time. I mean for comfort reasons.