Are the courses on how to seduce women helpful or it's just another scam?

[Srij23]

I came accross many books , videos and even a masterclass with a certificate 😃 on how to seduce a girl and be a panty dropper.
and they are charging a premium on it. Do these stuff really work? What is the best way
to get a girl like me? But surely it's way of making quick money 💰💰.

[Woke51]

The thing with pick-up artistry is that they focus on how to act without focusing on changing who you are.

Our actions and who we are as a whole manifests like this:
Belief ==> Feeling ==> Action

So you might have something like this:
"I'm not good with women" ==> Timid/Insecure ==> Weird action or inaction

The pick-up artists then will say, "Oh dude, occupy space! Speak louder! Be a leader of the group!" And you try to do that while feeling timid and insecure, and everybody is weirded out because your actions do not align with who you are and how you feel about yourself.

Now, what if you change your self-concept to "I'm a boyfriend material." How would a boyfriend feel? Stable, secure, comforting, safe. You feel that. It will manifest into actions that correspond with those feelings, and women will be like, "Damn, that's a boyfriend material."

You can use this concept to become whatever you want.

[jshm2]

Depends on you, I suppose. Most of these books and courses are just easy answers.

All are based on the works of one book and one man who started the genre "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, by Neil Strauss"

If you want to read the original then that's the best place to start.

But I'll give you a tip for free. Not everyone has it in them to charm the other sex, so know when to quit and quit wasting time. This doesn't mean you're a chump or chumpette that will never be loved if you cannot get a date. It just means not everyone gets the quality relationships you dream about.

[purplepoppy]

They're a scam and worse still girls will see right through them and humiliate you. The worst are those that promise to teach you magic phrases that will have us ripping our wet panties off. My favourite is the advice to use the word "come" a lot and we're supposed to think "cum" at a subconscious level. Or the classic one where you keep telling us "to give ourselves permission" so we think "wow I wouldn't normally fuck a random guy but I think its ok to treat myself since it's Friday"

The big problem is these techniques always look forced and unnatural like your just quoting from a manual.

[maddie2003]

Your best bet is to ask women what they want. I speak for most of us when I say that we want confident, assertive gentlemen with good hygiene.

[Effably]

I am sure it works to an extent. That extent being that you get something mostly sensible to say and get pushed to actually try.

For some I am sure a workshop or alike is very rewarding. Seduction is a skill. Not unthinkable you get better by practicing. So sure, a course that has you talking to women who react normally. Giving you repeated experience with feedback etc seems like it would work.

Some "be the X!" pdf online? No more useful than a gag question.

[MCheetah]

It depends on the person. Most of them are scams. But the legit ones are mainly just confidence boosters that help build your self esteem, with about 10% of it teaching you how to talk to women and not fear rejection. Most of it you can gain from other methods, so its worth it if you really need help, but you can also learn most of that on your own.

This sounds like something you might want to ask @coachtanthony.

[coachTanthony]

Hey thanks man. Never heard of that dude in the photo LOL LOL

[Mango-man]

Mostly scams, similarly to "How to get rich" books, where the author gets rich by selling books about getting rich. :-D

[TheUniqueOne96]

I wouldn't trust those kinds of ads, they probably take 100 years to get to the point and try to sell you some BS.

Just be yourself, focus on yourself and it will happen when the time will come and it most, just watch some YouTube videos and apply advice that you think will work for you.

[Tomsta]

Its preying on the gullible and the desperate

Also those methods only work on one type of women

[Luckycharms12]

Lol you don't need that it's all bs. Just be comfortable and confident in yourself and you be fine you get girl and not get others just way things go good to make mistakes to do can learn and do better. Like everything in life practice makes perfect

[Zygum]

There are many sex coaches, who guide people about sex and relationships, I am exp

[Anonymous]

They might help a little, but probably a bit of a scam. You could find out free stuff on the internet

[Srij23]

Can you suggest some sites which actually work?