I want to be having more sex?

[Anonymous]

Ok. Here's the thing. I am not bad looking. However, I am a short dude. I make up for that with humor and style. I am still not getting laid. I have been told that I am good in bed. So whats the problem?

[DonkeyDan]

It has to be the way you're selling yourself or coming across on first impressions. I'm in a similar age group to you and I wouldn't consider myself a looker but I have a toned body and I'm fit, I'm also very laid back, friendly and funny and I can hold an intelligent conversation. But I don't come across as desperate or creepy, I'm just a whatever kind of person if it happens then great if not, oh well. I don't have an issue with getting laid much, yeah sure I get knock backs now and then, but I'm also not actually asking for anything specific either, just friendship normally. I keep it casual and see where it takes us and quite often it's to the bedroom. I'm quite clear with women that I'm not looking for a serious relationship though and I'm just having fun right now. It's possible my profession is a draw, and my nice house but I have nothing to base that on.

[Asker]

I agree. I make women laugh. I have that cheesy swag. But I think they don't see me as a serious option. Maybe a waste of their time. I don't know

[DonkeyDan]

What's your physical appearance, like build and height?

[Asker]

I'm fit. I am very short. I have been told that they forget how short I am. often. I hold myself tall. If that makes sense. I don't think I'm awful looking. I am the same height as prince but I don't wear sillettoes. Lol. In other words I'm 5'3. I was born premature. With that being said. I'm fit but small.

[Asker]

There is no way to post a pic, is there

[DonkeyDan]

Was just wondering if height was an issue, o do t know how women see height in men, I'm 6'1" so I don't know if it makes a difference.

[Asker]

I am more than positive that if I was 6'1, I would be solid. Man that sucks.

[DonkeyDan]

It is stupid really, personally I like short girls but I'm not going to not be interested in a girl just because she it tall. Maybe heights just means more to women.

[ChrisMaster69]

You really need to get out shopping.

[Asker]

Lmfao. Boufahahahahahaha

[boggboss]

Clearly getting them to bed is the issue then mate lol

[Asker]

I think I suck at the art of flirting.

[Hangry06]

Maybe it's your age

[Asker]

I am getting up there but I truly do not look my age. I look like I'm still in my mid 20s.

[karaspara]

Don't we all

[Asker]

Indeed. May I ask you a question, pertaining to my post

[karaspara]

Sure go for it

[Asker]

If you met a guy who was good looking. Fit, funny and had style. But short would you go to bed with him

[karaspara]

Yes probably

[Asker]

Then what is the deal. Lmfao.

[karaspara]

You put to much on height seems to be the problem

[Asker]

I'm not sure if thats it. It does seem to make sense but it doesn't have to be the reason. I can't seem to pin point it. My ex told me that I am just oblivious when women are interested. I don't know.

[Anonymous]

Are you currently on a long dry spell? If so, how long?

[Asker]

God yes. About 6 months or longer.

[Opinion Owner]

My guess is you have been sexually active since your teens

[Asker]

Yes I have but I have never really had this issue either. I think I'm just to focused on it.

[Opinion Owner]

My guess is you lost your virginity in high school