How can you tell if a guy ONLY wants to have sex with you?

[writestrong]

[MrOracle]

There's really only one way: to look at his behavior over time. And even this isn't 100% foolproof, but it's probably 95% accurate, and is also by far the most effective way to tell.

Most guys who only want you for sex will avoid spending time with you when sex isn't going to be likely. They won't want to come spend the day with you if you live with your parents, or if your roommate is around, or if you want to go to the mall or whatever. They're mostly only going to want to spend time with you when it's very likely that they're going to get laid. And then, once they've gotten laid, they're typically going to want to leave.

A guy who actually wants a relationship with you is going to want to spend time with you often, even when he knows sex is unlikely. Yes, of course, he wants sex too, and will want to have sex as often as he can, but this guy will usually come over for the family BBQ, or will go with you to visit your friends, or will take you out on a day date, even if here's no pussy in it for him that day. And he'll be much more likely to want to cuddle or talk or watch a movie with you afterwards - he's much less likely to bounce 2 minutes after he cums.

I will mention that, yes, there's 3-5% of guys who know the game, and will play the role of the relationship guy just to get some sex, and girls DO take a risk that they'll come across those guys sometimes, but no system is perfect.

Finally, women need to understand that if they're going after the Top 10% guys - the handsome, tall, confident, successful guys that all the other girls want too - that THOSE guys specifically are almost NEVER going to be looking for a relationship, and in the rare instance they make an exception, that girl has to be a 10/10 in his eyes - and not just in looks, but in attitude and personality as well. If you're a 6 or 7, and you're going after those guys, you WILL be used for sex EVERY TIME - and you can take that to the bank. Those guys have WAY too many options, and a replacement girl is a mere phone call away, so if you choose to chase those guys, know that they have no intention of being in a relationship with you - they're simply trading some attention and maybe a little bit of his lifestyle for some sex - and the minute you are a hassle for him for any reason, you'll be gone.

[HighValue]

He agrees with just about everything you say and won't give any of his opinions first. he is trying to please you too much and is being fake so he can use you.
Also if he has done hook ups in his past he likely only wants sex, or if in a relationship will eventually cheat. It is the same for women.
Plus if someone wants sex too early on they don't value it as a special bond in a relationship so they likely do hook ups and use people.

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't jump into bed with a guy on the first or second date. Wait until you feel confident that there are real feelings between you two. If he wants more than a quick fuck, he will wait. If not, you got your answer.

[slatyb]

You can't, because you can't read anyone's mind. You can't trade sex for commitment. Have sex if you want to have sex. Then when you do have sex, you will be getting what you want.

[Wise4myage]

Sex is all he ever thinks about and he's persistent.

[noohair]

That is the motivation of most men.

[In_Trance]

Kee your clothes on and see if he stays around

[B4852]

When sex is the only thing that he pays attention to.

[DscottG]

If he has a penis the odds are pretty good that he's looking for sex!

[Anonymous]

If he wants sex before marriage.