Quit having sex with him. I wouldn't put up with it I'd cut them off. I don't understand how this happens to us girls and why allow get this sort of situation if you ain't happy with the sex and don't do it. Don't put up with his crap put your foot down
worse case seneario would be to finish after he left.
to me it doesn't make any difference in how she is able to cum, just so long as she has at least 1 or more happy endings.
not sure if it is a blow to his ego if he can't make you cum, some women just have a harder time having an orgasm than others.
Why won't he let you speak on the issue meet a compromise I can see why he would be insecure in the matter but if u are not being sexualy satisfied then its completely unfair
Tell him to sod off! It is your body and you will do what you like. If he can't handle that, he is a control freak. Better without him!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That is unfair of him. You deserve just as much pleasure as he. And, if that is what it takes, that is your right to use it.
Very selfish he is.
Maybe he feels like less of a man cause of it? Before you do anything, I think you gotta find out why he won't let you use one
Why do we need his name?
"he won't allow me"
Sounds like male ego.
You're 38...
Cut out his tongue and make him beg for the vibrator to be his tongue 😡
cum before he arrives...
Buy a hitachi magic wand with penis sleeve attachment and out it on him. He will then appreciate it.
Do it secretly
Two things:
1 - If you can cum in seconds with a clit vib and it is difficult when he goes down on you, perhaps his technique needs adjustment?
2 - Explain that you are more inclined to have sex more often with the vib than without it. Maybe that will help him get over his ego, which is what this is really about.
You want it, you buy it. He's not thinking about your pleasure at all, and I sense some pride in his actions, like HE is supposed to make you orgasm, not a toy... You should talk to him about your needs, and your rights.
It's your body to do with as you please. If he wants to control a woman in that manner he should find someone else.
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