How did you handle sex after birth? Did you wait the “6 weeks with nothing in the vagina” as the doctor ordered?

We did. Therefore one time, when I still wasn’t cleared for sex we were in the shower. He was hugging me and he ended up rubbing on my back and my crack after I rinsed out my conditioner (smooth and slippery). Not really on purpose, but it had been a few months and he came on my back from that.

Anyone else?
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  • My wife and I had sex while she was still in the hospital after she had my first child

    • Noooooooo. Why? For real? I need deets.

    • you are my hero.

    • @loves2learn it was her idea. She had a private room. We went in the bathroom and had sex. @exitseven why? I just gave my wife what she wanted.

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  • We may have cheated by a day or two but were pretty much by the book.

    • We were by the book. Only when cleared by doc. 😇

    • Miss Goody Two Shoes! 😂

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  • They say this is to prevent infection. I'm so Germaphobic the 6 weeks doesn't bug me. Except for me it's 8 weeks cuz Of a c section. My second child was more difficult because my fiance at that time hadn't had sex with me since we conceived our son. In fact he didn't attempt to sleep with me until new years and my son was born in Oct 🙄oh by the way by new years would make it just about a year without sex because the child was conceived mid Jan... After that poor excuse for sex that new years evening I went nearly 3 years in celibacy because I broke up with him and was so hurt emotionally I refused to date anyone.

  • I have every intention of waiting the full 6 weeks after i give birth. He’ll just have to survive off head and handjobs for 2 months 🤣

    • @dizzydesii He should do just fine... 😂

    • @ArrowheadSW haha

    • handjobs are soooooo underrated lol. We need to bring them back

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  • I don't recall being told to wait six weeks but it was definitely 2 or 3 weeks.

  • I don't think I'd be able to wait that long to fuck the woman who had my kid.
    I'm one of those weird kinds of guys who's turned on by a fertile woman so as soon as her stomach gets big I'd be getting regularly horny like a rabbid dog and that'd probably stick until a little while after.

  • Well before and after birth I didn't know what sex was I did I wait six weeks no I waited 15 and 1/2 years I didn't even know we could have sex after birth

  • My ex best friend got his wife preggers 6 week after she gave birth to the first 😂

    • He couldnt wait to bust 🤣

    • "My mind's telling me no, but my body... My body is telling me yes" 😂

    • Ohhhh shit. Irish twins.

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  • My doctors never gave me this 6 week rule. Or any rules on sex after birth. (possibly cause I didn't have stitches and had easy births) We had sex at 2 weeks after my first and 4 weeks after my second. During those weeks we waited we still did blow job's and had sexy time but avoided actually having sex.

    • Message me I gotta tell you something Apple.

    • That doesn’t sound sus at all 🙄

    • @TruePapito what do you want?

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  • We waited 4 weeks both times.

  • Never gave birth

  • With my current wife we waited, but continued to do other things.

  • I don't remember exactly but a) I do not remember a 6 week rule and b) If we did have a six week rule we probably did it anyway.
    What I do remember was doing it in the hospital parking lot before we went in the have my first son. The baby class we took said that it would help things along. That's why we did it (hhaha)

    • 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love it. Glad the birth went well.

    • It was a trip and a half. 😀😀😀😀

    • Having sex the night before she gave birth to my first child was what put her in labor. My daughter was passed her due date so my wife's doctor told us to have wild sex so she could go in labor. It worked.

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  • I literally know nothing about this. Like nothing at all. Completely ignorant on how that is supposed to work post birth lol.

  • I don't know, never got a pregnant. Yet, alone a girlfriend so don't know yet

  • Haha, miss loves to learn you made me feel like i'm watching a porn clip on pornhub 🤣🤣
    That's so naughty but i see it as something normal between a husband and his wife 😊

    Now about your question well the man should follow the doctor's advice for the sake of his wife's well being and ofc the wife can pleasure her man in other ways until they are clear again for having real sex...

    • Lol! I seem to lack a filter. I apologize in advance. 😂

    • No worries your an awesome lady, wife and mother 😊 I admire your honesty and i surely appreciate the way you think and work hard to keep your marriage and family happy and lasts forever...

    • Thank you for that. :)

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  • I was just a baby, I don't think sex was an option

    • Touché 😒

    • This is actually funny 🤣🤣

    • I am always funny

  • My partner had a c section so no hanky panky for a fair while after - also we were too tired haha

    • Same to all of the above!

  • we did lots of oral ;)

  • We waited But we did all the other options 😏

    • @charliefretz329, what other option, tell me please

    • He means she blew him, gave him hand jobs. Possibly anal sex, but cannot confirm that.

    • Oral, digital, no anal

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  • Yes, wait the 6 weeks

    • I did. I am a rule follower. Waited till my doc gave me the all clear. 😇

    • very good

  • Yeah and we had an apple 🍎 everyday lol

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