My (22F) LDR boyfriend (24M) asks for new nudes everyday. What should I do?

I met this guy online and we've been friends for year before dating. So it feels comfortable to send each other nudes. My problem is I have sent new nudes everyday. He asked and I also wanted to.(They do not have my face in them, but he has sent me some with his face.) But now he comes up with new ideas for pictures everyday and keeps asking me multiple times If I would take them. I've been very clear and told him, "You don't have to ask. I only send nudes when I want to." He apologizes every time, but he's super horny for me and ends up asking all over again. Truthfully, I'm not really a picture person and I'm starting to get a little bit pissed. I'd be fine sending pictures, if he didn't ask every single day for new one after new one. He seems genuine otherwise when he's not horny. So I don't doubt his love for me.
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I called him and he apologized. He promised to keep himself under control because he respects and loves me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A LDR boyfriend. Ok. I mean, you both have a sexual life, that's good, but I honestly think is disrespectful to beg for nudes. I rather receive them with no questions asked. He should cool down. What if you didn't like the idea at all? I am sure he would feel misserable.

    You both seem to be comfortable with sending nudes to each other; that's a good sign. Although, consider carefully the relationship. Online relations are deceiving by nature. I was in one for 3 years. We never met. I also know about an online friend who met her LD boyfriend, after a couple of years, or 3. The guy turned out to be violent, and she ran back to her hometown.

  • Take your stand and make it a habit. Sending nudes daily will make him more greedy. Send it only when you feel so. If he keeps asking, ignore his message.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Do what is comfortable for you. He is calling the hot shots and you don't need it. I had a fiance (Today we split) who I didn't wish to do cam with but just do the phone. He was okay with it. YOU are your own woman. It appears he is just looking for your sexy body and now your face.

    • Thanks. x

  • Stand. Your. Ground. Only send when you want to, like you said.

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  • Up to you but I say don’t. Been there, done that and regret it to this day. Tough lesson to learn.

  • Tell him, if he respects you than he should stop asking.

    • He needs to know you feel, and if he's so horny than he has more than enough pics to jerk off too.

    • *how

  • I don't know. I’ve had some very frequent nude exchanges. I enjoyed it and it seems like she did to tease or turn on or whatever. Why not? Just have to have trust. I’ve never violated trust with nudes.

  • Please sent me too...

  • I recommend not sending any more. And if he doesn't respect that you will know how genuine he really is.

  • Stop sending... never a good idea

  • He should be more relaxed about nudes and try to show respect and interest about you and not you body, sex is great (real or virtual) but being real is way better, woman always need to be respected

  • He needs to be more respectful of you.

  • Probably masturbating to the new ones each time, start sending them of other naked women and see if he notices it’s not you

  • Maybe have a talk with him about it. It seems a little odd to me for him to be asking so much (makes me wonder if he's posting them online or something?). I can understand liking them, but like most guys will just keep looking at the ones you've already sent, why so anxious for more? You know him better than I do, but seems suspicious to me.