Do you find penises aesthetically sexy?

Question

I like men but can’t find penises attractive somehow

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Size and grooming might make for a pretty penis, but people are more than the sum of their body parts. And good partners have far more important qualities than a good length or hefty girth.

Big penis is not always more attractive, but a mid-size model is. Penises must be more practical than pretty, but it can be puzzling to figure out what kind of penis women prefer and what makes a pretty penis. Grooming? Upkeep? Shape? Smoothness? Vascularity? The “X” factor? The long and the short of it is that when it comes to what makes a pretty penis beautiful, dimensions do not matter. There is no clear “Golden Penis Ratio.” Women are more flexible and forgiving when it comes to what makes a penis attractive than men are. Women usually rate overall genital appearance and manicured pubic hair as the most important factors in determining what makes a pretty penis. Women rank characteristics as trustworthiness and overall attractiveness as more important than penis size.

Men are visual creatures (and women are not) is old idea wheeled out to explain everything from the popularity of strip clubs. The men vs women difference is not so simple. Both men and women tend to go for people who are visually out of their league, women, like men, base part of their attraction in someone’s physical appearance. So yes, women are visual too, penises visually attract them.

But female nudity is considered automatically sexy, while a dick pictures all too often feels embarrassing, awkward, gross, or funny. This is the difference between how the male and female brain perceive bodies, it is complicated.

An erect penis of her husband / life partner is really sexy for most girls, they never find it ugly, but that does not mean they want dick pictures constantly. They usually get really turned on seeing their partner’s penis get harder and harder and knowing it is going to be inside them or in their mouth.

Clean, kept bush and hard penis look nice to them. The way the blood rushing to that area gets them really red and a very obvious vein or two is such a turn on. They find it attractive in terms of size too. Most girls have opinion of an attractive penis (in our culture and society) is - uncircumcised, clean, nice to look, smooth, nice skin, trimmed pubic hair, not too veiny and not too big.

Surprisingly most girls need not to find penises visually attractive to be attracted to men. Mainly because they know that all men have penises and there is 99% of the rest of the body that they have a thing for. They barely go to see it before marriage or – before sex with them. They do not need to find a penis attractive to find men attractive, if they found intellectually stimulating and not just what is down there.

Twix005 · Accepted Answer

The penis is not so bad looking I actually seen shiny ones... it's the balls for me. I seen some very long disturbing ones. Especially in porn.

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Not particularly. Ditto with feet.
Both are designed with a certain set of functions to do, and both do them well, in keeping with that design. But being "aesthetic" is not really one of them. in my opinion, a chest of either sex is more attractive to view.

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

I've heard a lot of women say that, even described as "ugly" lol. Doesn't do much for our self esteem. Imagine if we thought your body was "ugly"? LOL ;) But I do get it. I often wonder why women are attracted to us at all honestly lol, physically I mean.

PenkWing · Answer

All Cocks Are Beautiful

Red_Arrow · Answer

You sound normal, but expect that when the right guy comes along you will think very highly of his penis, and eventually many penises will seem attractie to you. Just the way being more sexually involved can develop you.