How far do you go on the first date?

[LemiaOfChampions]

[Anonymous]

I've had dates where i've been fucked and fingered without even knowing where i stand.

[loves2learn]

That sounds non-consensual.

[InventorofWarp]

@loves2learn Unless "without even knowing where I stand" is referring to "I don't know if I like him" in which case, consensual just kinda hollow.

[loves2learn]

Fair enough.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Kissing

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thanks 😊

[kyleelyn199723]

Depends on how the feel is going of the date

[chrissykerdock]

i'll give a blowjob on a 1st date but he'd have to kiss me for one of those.

[BlueWalker]

Depends on how far away the restaurant is. 😂😋 But seriously, generally just a hug or a kiss. lol

[DizzyDesii]

A kiss at the end of the date if we’re into eachother

[Little_Bumblebee]

So far not further than hand-holding and a goodbye hug.

That's just what I've been comfortable with

[loves2learn]

However far feels right. What is “snog”?

[menina]

I've never been on date, but I could kiss depending on how the date was going.

[InventorofWarp]

I don't even know wtf half of these are.

[Bobsyoruncle]

Because it’s true?

I wasn’t *always* able to get between a girl’s legs on the first date, but if I failed it wasn’t for lack of effort.

[spookiebxch]

Getting fingered is kinda a guarantee for me, sometimes even sex.

[stargazerx]

Not very far. Maybe a goodnight kiss. Especially if I was really interested in the guy and wanted him to call me again. Let’s be real here, it may be 2021, but most guys still don’t take a girl seriously if she has sex too soon with them. They just think you’re easy and do it with everyone else. And if he’s looking for a life long partner, he certainly doesn’t want an easy woman. This all works well in the movies and books. But NOT in the real world. And if the guy calls the girl again, it’s usually just for sex. Many girls cannot get their guy to commit marriage because he’s getting all he wants.

[Bamababe03]

Hand hold 🥴 no kiss or anything

[BlondeGoneWild]

Almost always at least a blowjob

[t-8900]

Kiss if it's while going with the flow. I dont go on dates with expectations, it's wrong to do so for both parties. I'm not entitled to anything more than that and frankly I worry about an STD or getting an early pregnancy pushed on me.

[helva]

Kissing.

[exitseven]

I guess I was always a little slow and not as aggressive.

[Grownlady8]

It depends. 1st time meeting up and talking? Or 1st time going on an official date after interacting and seeing one another several times?

[worldscolide]

Kiss and hug. That was usually at least the first two dates.

[girlygirl2034]

Funny I never am the one wanting sex but somehow I always end up naked having sex

[poneglyphs]

Uh none of that? I never kiised anyone yet, I feel to shy kissing on first dates let alone having sex or getting a bj. 😖😖😖