Do guys ever get disappointed when they discover your naked boobs are actually smaller than they appear when clothed?

I’m chubby and curvy but with barely-there tits and I wear padded bras to help fill out my figure.

However I’ve never been intimate with someone (lived a fairly sheltered life, now in college and kinda want to get wild).

So, would it be a huge letdown for a guy to discover they’re actually pretty small, once I took my bra off
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If a guy likes big breasts, then yes, that would be a disappointment, but he wouldn't get dressed, walk out, and go home or anything like that. I compare it to penis size. Only I've personally known several women who would (and have) noped out of the bedroom if the penis was too small. Men are more forgiving in this regard (probably because we know women visually lie about themselves all the time; from heels to makeup to padded bras).

    How is a plus-sized or overweight woman flat-chested anyway? Like physically, how is that even possible? Chubby/heavyset women should at least be a C cup by the physics, and even those are small. When women gain weight, the first place it goes is to their boobs and ass.

  • No completely the opposite, I absolutely love small boobs anyway. Would you mind if I ask what size yours are just to put it into context? If somebody is a bit chubby and her boobs are smaller than I was expecting that is even more of a turn on for me.

    • Small A cup

    • Perfect. I'm not just saying this but I honestly love an A cup

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Absolutely. But there's more to someone that her body. The guys worth your time won't voice or admit disappointment over it cause they know your more than your tits and won't want to upset or offend.

  • I’ve not had any complaints so far and I’ve worn push up bras before. Guys like any naked boobs.

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  • Let me count the times I got disappointed when I’ve seen a girl getting naked for me… mmm, let me think hard… well, the answer is never. It’s usually a pleasure to get naked and enjoy each other’s bodies. Of course, you are allowed your discomfort and you can keep your bra on if you don’t want to be exposed to someone. That’s always true, and you shouldn’t think only about pleasing the other person’s expectations. But in case you do want to bare your chest, I bet it’s always going to be welcome.

  • Judge not lest ye be judged. I would hope most people would say no cuz we all have our shortcomings. If they are disappointed they don’t deserve you

  • If they have been disappointed they have never let on. I would hope getting me naked and getting to have his way with me would distract from it.

    • This right here... " getting to have his way with me".. Men care about this shit more than we care about the boob size... Congratulations queen you figured it out!..

  • If they were disappointed they never told me.

  • I prefer smaller boobs and have it the other way, I’ve assumed the girl is wearing padded bra etc and found out larger than expected.

    thing is though you go with someone because you like them, it’s not just about height, size of boobs, etc, there is more to it.

    I also need to have an emotional, mental connection or it’s pointless.

  • Definitely a little bit dissapointing but there's more to you than just boobs lol

  • Okay you need to stop before you even get started lol do not allow things like that to bug you because it takes away from you when a guy is going to be with you he's not with you because of your boob size he's with you because he likes you he likes the person who you are on the inside that is the most beautiful person the one on the inside the outside of you is an extra bonus if a guy likes you just because of the size of your breast then you don't need to be with him you want a guy that likes you for you and that's it if you like you because of your body parts it's just not right so find your confidence I can hear it in your words that it's there that you're curious for me I've never ever been disappointed and I've been with girls that are totally flat just about because it's not about their breast size it's about who they are and how I'm going to make them feel I make it all about the girl not about me and any guy that's going to be with you you better be making it all about you

  • We all know the padded bra bit.

  • Not at all, I prefer a smaller breast anyway so it wouldn't disappoint me at all, I might even be a little relieved they aren't as big as they looked in clothing.

  • Smaller size breasts are on trend right now. Your body is fine and you needn't worry.

  • It depends on the guy.

    I find small breasts attractive. I'm more into a nice round shape and perkiness. I'd take some perky A or B cups over some weirdly shaped, saggy DDs any day.

    Disappointed in her breasts? I'd be disappointed if she took her clothes off and had piercings through her nipples. Deal breaker or if she had tattoos hidden somewhere or her breasts were really saggy... etc.

  • I just hope my date isn’t disappointed with how I look

    • He was not disappointed

  • I grew up nudist and see everyone as beautiful our bodies are all different yet all the same

  • I do not have high expectations of boobs. She just has to have them.

  • No, smaller ones tend to be more sensitive and it's hot!

  • I prefer small boobs. A cup or less is perfect.

  • She should've had a t-shirt that says, "Objects in bra may appear larger than they are"..

  • It don’t matter to me I enjoy what she has and is willing to give me to enjoy that really doesn’t matter about size just she is willing to give herself to me

  • Well if a guys is interested in you because of your nature and all or in serious way, then I don't think he care for your boob size whether it's small or big after u removes your bra. And if guys is interested in you, just because of your boobs or vagina, then he will be disappointed (if he doesn't like small boobs). Don't care for anyone's opinion on your body structure.

  • No, not at all. I've never been disappointed by any boobs I've seen.

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