Why would my daughter be at a hotel?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

Should I give you my phone number so I can ask her or maybe you can ask her LOL yeah I would be curious on the same thing look the bottom line is you have a beautiful daughter she's at that age where she wants to explore and experience you need to be ahead of the game and have communication with her and get her on the pill or something because you want to be safe and not sorry but you need to communicate with her so she will always communicate with you and trust you and like talking to you about things

[Asker]

No :/

[ohshee]

So did you mean duh or did you mean no

[ChrisMaster69]

Well she’s a pretty girl, she’s in a hotel without you knowing why?

In the UK, you need to be 16 to book a hotel room, under 15 is turned away.

I would guess this is the same or similar for US?

This likely means she’s with someone that is able to book a hotel room.

I would have a chat to her, not necessarily about this but sex in general.

if she’s not on birth control put her on it and have a good factual chat about everything.

of course there could be a totally innocent reason for it all.

I would also include with your chat on why your daughter is not able to talk to you about this stuff openly.

She should feel comfortable enough to be very open with you.

Is she normally sneaky like this?

[Asker]

Yes she sneaks around. She never posted a pic of her and tag a hotel. before.

[ChrisMaster69]

There are a couple of things to think about. I’ve always taught girl friends and daughter etc to take a photo of where they are and ideally who with, then auto load it to Facebook or similar. This means there is a hard record of who they are with, where and when. It’s a good safety thing to do. Have you discussed sex etc with her?

[Asker]

No :\

[ChrisMaster69]

Do you know what to talk about with her?

[Asker]

No :/ She doesn't talk to ke

[ChrisMaster69]

@ pink asker this is obviously part of the problem. My daughters 14 and we are able to talk about most shit. A parent should be able to talk about anything with their kids. Happy to cover this in a DM if you want,

[Asker]

Im a single mom i work two jobs so im rarely home

[ChrisMaster69]

Well I’m a single dad so yeah things suck at times

[Asker]

I don't know where I went wrong ;/

[ChrisMaster69]

Communication. Listen twice as much as you talk It’s really about giving young adults factual real world information. Warts and all.

[ChrisMaster69]

@ pink asker, any update?

[Asker]

A lot of guys have fck her

[ChrisMaster69]

She give you the details?

[Asker]

She posted it on snap.

[ChrisMaster69]

Did you have a chat to her about everything?

[Asker]

Tired to she said if I tell her what to do again she ran away.

[ChrisMaster69]

I think you need to take a firmer stance with her.

[Asker]

How? She ran away i dont want her being homeless.

[ChrisMaster69]

Well she will come back, as doubtless she does not want to be homeless.

[Asker]

I don't know :/

[ChrisMaster69]

I would say as a Single Mum, you need to be quite direct with her. You are potentially looking at being a GILF

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pink Anon Asker thank you for MHG most appreciated

[Paige90]

If she is 18 or her boyfriend is it is extremely common to go to a hotel for sex.

[doe9de]

Why don't you just ask her your self. She's your daughter after all. How would we know there are thousands of reasons one might stay at a hotel. There on vacation, there visiting someone, they want to get away for awhile. There house is under renovation. The possibilities are endless.

[doe9de]

In response to your update can you get arrested. How old is she is she under age. If so you could face certain neglect charges. If she is having sex underage it's considered rape.

[Lliam]

She's not dressed for quiet meditation.
She could simply be there partying with friends.
Or... she's making money and getting experience with having all her holes thoroughly exercised.

[OlderAndWiser]

How old is your daughter? What, if anything, have you done to stop her from engaging in this behavior?

[Asker]

She 15 and Nothing im always at work.

[OlderAndWiser]

That sounds like a case of inadequate supervision and your department of children and family services COULD use that as a basis to remove custody from you. Where is her father?

[Asker]

Jail :/

[OlderAndWiser]

Any grandparents who can help?

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you have her on an oral contraceptive?

[Red_Arrow]

Apparently a dozen guys decided to get a hotel room to party. Then they invited or paid four loose women to come and have sex with them. Likely she has fucked most of them. You should have been communicating with her as she grew up.

[Asker]

She probably is.

[Red_Arrow]

About your update. It is sad that you are more worried about getting arrested than what has become of your daughter. Obviously a lot you have not told us.

[ZackBan]

I read a few answers before writing this:
If she's with multiple guys including her boyfriend there can be 2 reasons.
Either they decided try something crazy like a gang bang which seems to be more common than one might think.
Or they were partying and stayed there for logistics reasons, she probably still had sex with her boyfriend but not necessarily everyone else too

[abc3643]

That's definitely a hotel, alright.
Take it from someone who has lived in hotels about half my life these past 16 years.

[zaharuh]

You have never been in a hotel before?

[Asker]

Yah for sex..

[zaharuh]

Okay same but it could be that she's out with friends or something how will you know? and why do you care to know? Would you want your mom to be like that?

[Asker]

I don't know :/ Because she my daughyer and she 15

[zaharuh]

I guess that's more understandable but like I just hope you won't disown your daughter like mine did when they found out I had sex 🤷‍♀️

[zaharuh]

Mine found out when I was 15 too

[Asker]

I wouldn't but ill be upset.

[zaharuh]

I understand but the way I see it is that like she will have sex eventually. Would I want my daughter having sex at 15? Of course not, I'd prefer if she waited but it's not the end of the world and I've been in that position. I hope you'll be okay though, I wouldn't ask her about it because she's probably going to lie.

[Asker]

I know but i would want her to wait until she 18.

[zaharuh]

I would too but it's not your life, you can only control your kids so much

[Asker]

I know..

[Rixon]

Same reason as to why you used to be in a hotel when you were of her age!!

[Miristheiss]

How old is your daughter?
Does she live with you or is she moved out?

[Asker]

15 and lives with me

[Miristheiss]

Well, that is a minor. How is it that she left your house and went to a hotel? Did she just up and walk out the door and jump into someone's car? Did you know about this or did she just take off? Some one of age had to have rented the hotel room. A guy? As is they are going to have sex... or another older girl and they are having a party or traveling out of town. I cannot picture how the parent doesn't know where their 15 year old is at all time and allow her only to go out with approved of friends that the parents know and know the other parents. I'd be down at that hotel picking her up.

[Asker]

There like 18 kids there

[ItsTheNephilim]

Troll 🖕.

[DarkWinterNights]

If she’s hanging out with anybody in a hotel I have bad news for you.

[Not_Average]

Ask her

[Angelo75]

I'd say:
1. She has a nice date who wants to give her a very romantic date/sex
2. There is some very old guy (who can afford an hotel) that's trying to get in her pants.

[Nik1hil]

😂🤣 Chill X.
Why would you get arrested

[Danny_dan92]

She’s with a dude

[Asker]

Multiple dudes.

[Danny_dan92]

Wow.

[Paige90]

At the same time?

[Asker]

Yah she posted more pics and some videos.

[Danny_dan92]

She really loves to get dicked up I guess

[Asker]

11 guys

[Danny_dan92]

Wow. Reminds me of my ex

[Roah_Boat]

She is probably being a hoe.

[Asker]

She was :'(

[es20490446e]

For free or for money? :D

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Or she's on dope. Either answer you come up with isn't good.

[Ironic_Method]

You should ask your daughter.

[Asker]

Ok :\

[FýrdracaDócincel]

She can clearly afford to be there off your credit card LMAO.

[Asker]

No? I dont have a credit card.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Mhm.. okaayyy