Would a guy be okay to simply let a female friend explore his penis?

I’m a virgin, and I’ve never seen one in person before. I’d like to just explore with my hands and get familiar with one before getting too sexual.

Do you think a guy friend would be open to this idea?
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  • Most guys would say yes, but they would quickly get aroused, both by you handling it, and by the thoughts they would get of having sex with you. Since you are learning how it feels, maybe you can include learning how it feels in your mouth. If you would do that a guy would be happy to let you explore as much as you want and the oral sex wold relieve his arousal and he would let your body alone. Once you want to expose your body and/or have him explore it, you both will be happy and satisfying each other.

    • Could he just masturbate tho?

    • Yes, he could. And he would probably love doing that with you watching him. Which would give you the benefit of learning how a guy masturbates and how it looks when he cums.

    • He would more likely let you masturbate him!! Sexier for him and a better experience for you.

  • I think some guys might, but make sure you trust them enough to wanna do that. But also be warned some guys will always want more

    • Well, I want more, just not right away lol

    • True but they may want the more then and there. But a few guys would probably be open to the idea

    • Okay, cool, I’ll have to find the right guy friend then

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  • Yes, but make sure to manage expectations and set clear boundaries. If you do not want it to be sexual let him know before you start. A good friend respects your boundaries, a bad one tries to push your limits.

    • It is exactly like that. Try someone you trust who is not trying to take advantage of you.

  • I don't know, would you be okay for a guy to explore your kitty if he had never seen one before? But as for your question, guys always like to show their dick judging by what I see on GaG.

    Would a guy be okay to simply let a female friend explore his penis?Would a guy be okay to simply let a female friend explore his penis?
    • I agree

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  • If they are a good friend I have known for a while sure if we just became friends no.

  • Sure I don't see many guys having a problem with it. If they are good friends and both understand where it is leading and both are ok with the boundries set.

  • It's a dick not Disneyland. It's not going to take long to explore.

    • Lol 😂

  • If you have trouble finding someone, I would help you out. I would just do it for your experience if course, I would not get any joy out of it. Ok that's a lie but I would be willing to help you out!

  • bad idea. Really bad idea... Either do it with someone you intend to have sexual relations with, and be honest about your own dilemma, or simply stop even considering it as an option.
    If you do not follow my counsel, well, expect that whomever says they are okay with it to try and move forward towards the next steps, they'll try to have sex with you, and if you deny them they'll hate you for it.

  • Probably but he’ll want to cum and try to get you to do it for him…explore a girl first 😉

    • Not when they look like you oh hell no

  • Of course as a matter fact I would encourage it I would love to know everything that you are thinking about what you would want to do I would let you do anything you wanted with it I would even real play with you pretend that I was asleep and put myself in the position to where you could use it like a dildo if you want it I would lay on my back and you can get on top of it and you could slip slide all around it if you wanted once again pretend like I'm sleeping and do whatever you want with it. Or you can tell me what you wanted and I would do that for you too

  • Yeah, though you have to find a guy you trust to be willing to stop when he’s ridiculously turned on (all guys can just make sure he’s respectful of boundaries).


    Most of us are pretty open to risk free play like that so finding a willing guy won’t be an issue.

  • Yes I think if he knows that he can trust you. Some guys have issues concerning their penis because they think it´s too short/ugly/useless. If you ever get a get a chance avoid using terms of cute or what ever because that can be seen as an insult. So maybe it helps to look for a rather introverted guy because chances are that he´s not making things very sexual right at the beginning.

  • Ask your friend if you can give him a hand & if he says yes have some fun.

  • I was OK when I let it happen.
    One of the best and most memorable times of my life...

  • It's maybe a bit different for me because I go to swingers clubs, but I'm always more than happy for anybody to touch or play with my penis that wants to.
    So if I had a female who wanted to touch it she'd definitely be more than welcome to.

  • Sounds fun. Would you return the favor?

    • At first, maybe just let him see and touch my boobs but the following time I’ll let him explore between my legs.

  • This is a new level of troll

    Would a guy be okay to simply let a female friend explore his penis?
  • I've never had one ask but aside from being a little self conscious maybe, I'd probably let her. But I do suggest being completely open and honest with him though before hand so he knows exactly what this is for you and what you want.

    I'm pretty sure I know the answer, but would a woman if it was reversed? lol

    • I personally would if I was really comfortable with a guy friend! As long as he didn't try to put his fingers in with no experience bc that shit hurts

  • I think a guy friend of yours would definitely be open to the idea. But you have to realize what would happen. He would get very, very aroused by you touching and exploring his penis. He might even ejaculate even if you weren't stroking it like a handjob.

  • My best friend set me up with one of her best guy friends for my first date.

    • How was the experience? Was it the first penis you saw?

    • He is picking me up for our date in 15 mins

    • Sorry, dumb question. Do you have the nervous system to enjoy that?

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  • Sure, but I would want to explore her too and show her a few things ;)

  • I can definitely say you betcha, explore away.

  • Hi there,
    A guy whose a friend will allow you to explore his penis
    but you got to know a head of the penis has a lot of nerves
    and most guys will get erections and hard, it will get
    shiny, red as it swells, as the size gets bigger if you
    don't want him cumming in your hand then have him
    masturbate for you but some guys can cum in secs

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