How do I accept that just seeing a cock turns me on?

I think ever since i was a teen (and was a virgin by the way) i was into this idea that liking the idea of bdsm made me cooler and edgier and badass. 50 shades of gray type stuff.

But if i stop being my pretentious wannabe sophisticated self i realize that i actally can get super satisfied from just basic stuff like seeing a weiner or whatever. I dont need some domination fantasy or edgy storyline like incest or whatever the hell.

Im overcomplicating my sex drive like that.

When i was a kid before i hit puberty i would masturbate a lot and i didn't know jackshit about bdsm LMFAO. I miss those days. It was all about the sensory experience.
I wanna go back!
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  • Are you trying to accept the fact that seeing a cock turns you on? Because I don't see why that would be hard to accept. It's like the way guys get turned on by the sight of women's bodies - boobs, butts, inner thighs and pussies. It's normal for someone with a healthy libido.

    Or... are you trying to accept that the simple sight of a cock is enough to turn you on and you don't actually need the kink to get your motor running? In that case, I think you are lucky for the same reason I mentioned above. It's GREAT that you love cock and have a strong libido. But you can also spice up your sex life on occasion by playing games and experimenting.

  • Enjoy the orgasm and relax.

    • I like u

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  • Sounds like your on your way to own your shit. You are a woman who is turned on by specific stuff, and you don’t need to be told what this stuff is by others. Why care how basic it is? That’s a judgment by others. What matters is that it’s good for you.

    By the way, not every straight woman is turned on by looking at a wiener. So maybe you have some unique traits? 😂

  • By just accepting it.

    what excites and turns us on often varies through life.

    last month it may have been smooth ripped guys, the next hairy chests.

    Also I believe we all have layers that we uncover at times, yes basic vanilla stuff is all we often need.

    now and then we do delve a bit deeper and put a bit of kink in to play, then back to vanilla.

    Just being vanilla is not a bad thing and it’s important to remember that.

    Your brain is what needs to be told to accept, it’s what generates the need for candy.

  • Well I think that's pretty hot and when you said you don't need all those things that you said LOL I think that you might because it's a form of role play as a form of fantasy I mean picture yourself in bed tied up and a guy in between your legs or straddling over your one leg and you feel the cut his cock light up your inner thigh a little bit of teasing here and they're all the way up your belly button the center of your breast around your neck to your cheeks just a slip slide across your lips your forehead to get back there you need a map you need a desire need a plan or you don't you just have to experience it

    • Forget the ties.

    • What ties

    • Ohhh lol ok what about everything else

  • You can only move forward not backwards.
    There’s nothing wrong with being visually stimulated and there are lots of exhibitionist men who will indulge your fantasy.


    You can also line more than one thing and that’s totally ok and normal.

  • It's natural? Why is it hard to accept.

  • Why do you need to accept anything? It turns you on... so what?

  • the answer is closer than you think my dear...😏

  • What's wrong with that?

  • Just accept it and have fun :)

  • Just embrace the idea and don't overthink it.

  • Your not alone, millions of others feel the same way.. lol

    • People act like getting sent dick pics is gross. Sure its mirally wrong but you can't pretend you didn't get wet.

    • That's true, each to their own, different things turn people on in different ways...

  • Never go back, you can't grow in the past.

    • So you mean to stop liking penises and only like hardcore bdsn?

  • Accept that you're heterosexual.

  • Use it to your advantage, makes your sex drive go up and keeps you aroused...

  • Sex is simple really mix of everything do same stuff all time gets boring and natural see a cock and he horny. Just like guy seeing pussy turns him on

    • I love penis

    • I love pussy its all good lol

  • Just accept it and start looking at more cocks :)

    • Where arr they

    • All over, loll Add me if you want to chat, you seem nice

  • pussies are enough for me too. i don't need any extras. I am completely satisfied with it.😁

  • It is so normal. Every woman can get wet. For example if i see good boobs i also can get wet

    • So what is your the biggest fantasy?

    • Just regular sex thats the most vabilla dumb stuff like mutual masturbation 😂 even kids do that

    • So what do you think about virtual sex? like Skype or g@g

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  • lol even guys can be turned on seeing an erect cock, you are basically every guy's dream, a girl who like seeing dicks and don't make a big deal of dick pics 😝

  • Accept that you are human 😊

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