Men, does it bother you if you dont do a lot of foreplay before sex?

[Anonymous]

And how important is it to recieve a good blow job?

[Anonymous]

This is an excellent question! Here is what I think about the importance of foreplay or getting a blowjob. I believe that more women would be sexually satisfied if foreplay was a given when we become intimate.

Blowjobs, as far as I'm concerned, is all up to her. If she wants to go down on me… yes, please and thank you. It's just the same with me going down on her… If I feel like doing, so I will head on down there… trust me, if you give me static when I attempt to go down there… Well, what would you be thinking if a man gave you static when trying to do the same?

You would think the same thing that I would: “Why, what is wrong down there?” I, personally, would be wondering if I had brought enough condoms with me to even feel comfortable in going on with this.

Sorry, I digressed a bit there. It is interesting to note that the percentage of women who state that they don't normally achieve orgasm when they have sex with their long-term male partner.

I can mitigate that in the simple fact that during work days when we wake up all aroused and yet have to quickly get ready to go to work. Most of our girlfriends/wives don't like us to take care of ourselves and insist on being part of anything we sexually do.

Thus, there is no foreplay and this experience for you is most definitely not going to satisfy you. Still, you count that BS in the total number of times that you could not get an orgasm with a man. Seriously? Let's get real here!

[Rixon]

Yes it is bothersome. Foreplay is very important before sex but just spare a moment of thought out for those guys who never receive a blowjob from their partners before sex. Imagine the tough time they have to get it up without their partner's support and they still expect a good fuck from them. Seriously!!

[MrOracle]

I enjoy foreplay a lot, and I prefer to have it most of the time, but I'm not against a quickie or a "go straight to sex" session if she really needs it right now.

[ChrisMaster69]

Foreplay to me is getting the girl up and running do sex, it’s about her, not me getting a blow job.

it’s making sure she has had orgasms before we get down to the sex.

[Red_Arrow]

Of course it bothers me. Eating her out is about half the enjoyment of sex.

[MrKinktastic]

Yes, but a blowjob isn’t the main thing. I want to work her up and get her off first so I can focus on enjoying myself when it’s time for sex rather than making sure I last long enough she gets off first

[DonkeyDan]

Foreplay is pretty important and a good blowjob is always appreciated.

[Browneye57]

Are you really trying to decide?

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah, it actually does

[cmarrott]

Foreplay is important unless it’s a quicky. Blowjobs are important to me but some guys can live without them. If your guy says he loves them expect to give at least a couple a month.

[Ironic_Method]

I dont care about foreplay, but good blowjobs are super important.

[Wise4myage]

It would bother me.