Anyone able to give me advice on my first time having sex?

[Victoria2003]

I’m very nervous yet excited at the same time. I just need some questions to be answered

[SunnyFlorida]

First of all, make sure it is with the right person and for the right reason.

Second, make sure it is a place where the two of you will have complete privacy for an hour. (not the back seat of a car, etc.)

Third, give your body time to "warm up", which is lubrication that will naturally form. Otherwise sex will be painful. You could also buy a bottle of personal lubricant and put it on your partner's penis to ensure lots of lubrication.

Fourth, use a condom. If your hymen is intact, it will probably break, causing a small amount of blood. But that tear in your body will make you very susceptible to STD's, so use a condom.

Fifth, the first time for most people sucks. So manage your expectations with knowledge that future encounters will be better because you will be more relaxed. Do not expect to have an orgasm, the penis is not the best thing for creating orgasms in women.

[ZackBan]

The advice is "sex is different from porn" so don't go in there with those expectations

Now if you're boyfriend has had sex before he'll know what to do, it's like riding a bike, you learn fast and never forget. So just keep communicating to him not to rush things and remind him it's your first time. If he's a gentleman he'll ease you into it.
If not you shouldn't have sex with him to begin with.

And don't be so worried, billions of people are having sex on the regular and it goes well for the vast majority.
(Also use protection, no matter what arguments he makes about not doing that)

[LadyCroft]

Have anal. If you start with the extremes everything else will be easy. ;)

[purplepoppy]

Don't over think it and let nature take it's course

[doe9de]

Just be yourself tell your partner what you want.

[MrKinktastic]

Take it slow, it’s probably better if you’re on too for the first penetration so he doesn’t push in too fast snd cause a muscle cramp. Make sure to take time for foreplay and getting warmed up first, having him go down on you is a great way to get started.


Above all no pressure, the first time is a lot of fun and any awkwardness will fade as you practice more.

[Glenn603]

Feel free to ask me any questions if you want to

[buddysboy16]

I'm more than willing to answer any questions you have. Feel free to ask here or send me a dm if you wanna ask more privately

[scuff1986]

Happy to help if I can. What do you wanna ask?

[bowenw]

What questions?

[Renegade_Sailor]

Be careful who you have sex with.

The more men you have sex with statistically the less likely you are able to pair bond and find a long term relationship.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, engage in lots of foreplay and make sure you're really wet. And try not to have expectations.

[clampfan101]

My advice is to wait awhile longer, but you’re probably not going to listen to that… At the very least focus on communication.

[Twalli]

What questions?

[FireFox001]

Go ahead. Ask.

[Seppel]

Wich questions do you want to be answered?

[jjj101010]

Don’t worry. Ur first time won’t be ur best but enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

best advice is to tell him to do a lot of foreplay and warm up
also before you sleep with him find the tune of your body by masturbating and finding what works the best for you, then when you're in bed guide him through and let him know how he can please you the best
P. S if you never had anything in your vagina have some towel ready in case things come out
P. P. S Make Sure he has a condom on!!! you don't want your first experience to be the last one