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Guys, Why don’t men just go to hookers and instead chase one night stands?

I don’t understand why men go to clubs, in of search for sex - when it would be more cost and time efficient to just go to hookers vs buy drinks etc for women in the non guaranteed hope of sex?
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I must admit, I’m very confused-since if you look at men’s views regarding their one night stand women met in clubs, they are scathing/make it clear that they have no respect for them -yet were 1 track minded in the 1 st place when going to the club. So I don’t get why men would have any interest in the ‘sentimental’ side of the woman’s interest, that some of you have referred to (below). I had high end hookers in mind, vs meth addict hookers - the former are more the calibre, of clubbing women.
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I’m referring to countries such as the UK - where jokers are legal and some are high end (ie same look/calibre of one night stand women in clubs).
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  • Because you make the assumption we can just go to a bar or wherever and find a one night stand! And, even if we can find a woman willing to do this, do you think she's going to make it that easy? You have to find her first off (work in itself), then whatever it takes to make that happen. Work. Hooker = no work at ALL. There's no misunderstandings. All "expectations" are already made. It's like, are you going to go hunt for your food, or go to the grocery store and get it? Which is faster and easier?

    • I misread the question and had it reversed lol. So yeah like guys say, some refuse to pay for it. Some also just assume that hookers have sti's, even though the chances are actually higher with a one night stand because she likely hasn't tested herself regularly, like most hookers do.

    • Yep. So same perspective as me - hence why the topic perplexed me...

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  • In most parts of the U. S. it's illegal to hire a hooker. Plus most hookers are not that nice looking or clean. I think also the thrill of the chase plays into it. Finding a girl you can connect with and being able to take her home is something that takes some work and luck both.

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  • Because hookers are illegal and may carry STDs

    • Hookers legal in the UK where I live, and many other places - and also the random girls in the clubs may also have STDs...

    • You got a point but here where I live there illegal and clubs must be licensed to reduce the spread of STDs

  • Guys, Why don’t men just go to hookers and instead chase one night stands?

    Here's a clue.

    • Meth is a hell of a drug...

  • I prefer hookers

  • Because hookers are illegal. Also more likely to have stds and are difficult to find.

  • I'm guessing lots of men do, even some that are married.

  • I've never went out and said I'd have one nice stand just happens but personally don't like them.

  • Oh god! It’s so much more fun to have an ONS than a hooker. The whole uncertainty of meeting strangers, talking, being genuinely wanted and finally having sex is amazing, it’s a thrilling experience. and by the way, I’ve never slept with a hooker, but it sounds too boring and transactional. Besides, I need to be wanted to have sexy, otherwise I rather not do it.

  • Some guys like me want to feel attractive and wanted by a woman.
    When you pay her I imagine it to feel pathetic and desperate. Also, lots of prostitutes are drug addicts who suck and fuck as many different guys in a day as they can.
    It's not very enticing or attractive.

  • I never went to a hooker or neither had a one night stand
    BUT I think it's because of two reason
    1-that little bit of care that you two have going on during the session
    2-you can choose what girl you like and walk up to them

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