As a woman is it unattractive to ask a guy for sex?

[smalls95]

So I hooked up with a guy from Tinder a couple weeks ago. We hooked up again last weekend. I was hoping he would reach out to hook up this weekend, but he didn't. He did send me some sexual messages on Friday, but never reached out to get together. I messaged him and said "What are the possibilities of me getting some dick this week?" Kind of a funny way of reaching out, but our relationship is purely sexual so I felt it may not be too forward. He hasn't responded yet (I sent a few minutes ago). Do you think this is unattractive or sexy for a girl to be this forward?

[Anonymous]

It’s hot, but your message seemed a little transactional. Maybe try making it more seem more sexual and enticing by saying something like you need to be filled up by his phat dick sooner than later. You could also bring up something hot from your past sex with him and say you wanna do that again.

[smalls95]

That’s a good suggestion! I’ll keep that in mind for next time…. If there is a next time haha. He had made a joke about losing his virginity to me the first time so a couple weeks ago I reached out and said “when can I take your virginity again?” And they got a fun response. We shall see.

[TheorionMage]

Speaking personally, I LOVE your straight forward 'candor'...
the possibility of YOU'RE 'getting some dick' are excellent; its only whether its FROM HIM is in question.

Its kind of "PORK me then NOW leave..." Dominatrix vibe is challenging and you NOT being 'needy'; just 'frank'.

[smalls95]

Thanks! I honestly think this guy gets too much pussy as is since he still hasn’t responded. Bummer but on to the next. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[GingerGuy]

No, it would be a big turn on. You are just feeling anxious I think. Any number of reasons he hasn't responded yet, be patient, he will lol

[smalls95]

I hate waiting! Lol. But I hope you’re right. First hookup since I got out of a long term relationship. Kind of just wanted a fuck buddy without having to be with multiple partners. We shall see.

[GingerGuy]

I hear you! lol I'm really impatient also. But he could be working, or phone turned off, or maybe figuring out a day/time he's available. I would be very surprised if he was turned off in any way by it. 99% of guys would be on their way over at that moment! LOL

[smalls95]

He responded with a dick pic and said “you mean this dick?” 😂😂 I guess it worked 🤷‍♀️

[doe9de]

No not at all i would find it rather attractive.

[InspecturGajit]

I think it's fine.

[Lynx122]

If you've already established this kind of relationship it's no problem. If you're looking for more then of course it can send the wrong message.

[smalls95]

Nope! Just sexual. Thanks!

[slatyb]

It's honest. If he doesn't like it then he's not the man you are looking for.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

We're not just pieces of meat ya know, some of us are intelligent beings capable of logical and rational thought & creativity...

[smalls95]

Haha if it’s a tinder situation and it’s just been sexual between us, I think it’s fine. Although I feel like you were being sarcastic 😉

[cmarrott]

I had a girl that would just send me a come now text when she was horny. Worked great.

[Wise4myage]

Only if I wasn't attracted to her.

[In_Trance]

no it's not

[NYlatefun]

I think it’s perfect, particularly when it’s a purely sexual relationship. Did he reply?

[Seppel]

I think it's very attractive but No one does it

[B4852]

It would definitely get my attention.

[Anonymous]

No, its a turn on.

[Anonymous]

It's a turn on. I'd be at your door in a few minutes if I received a text like that.

[smalls95]

Still no response :(

[Opinion Owner]

😡😡

[Anonymous]

Its ok but its more hot if you tell him how much you want his cock

[smalls95]

I was thinking that I wanted to come off as more casual so I didn't sound too desperate.

[Opinion Owner]

Why? Desperate is hot af