My boyfriend gives my head maybe once a month or every 2 month. How can I get him to do it regularly?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years and intimacy is very important. And I have a higher sex drive than him, I crave it constantly and it’s always on my mind. There have been times where 2-2.5 months he would not go down on me. And I would make sure I was waxed very clean and he would jump right into intercourse. And I’d get up and go to the bathroom to cry. Because why not? I give oral sex to him almost every time and if I’m on my period I would give him oral multiple times. I get so angry I want to refuse pleasing him but I can’t I enjoy it too much and sometimes that’s the only way we’ll end up having sex. I communicate how badly I want it. I communicate how I can orgasm so quickly from getting eaten out and he’s very good at it (I know my boyfriend loves to be praised) side note I consider myself to have psychic abilities and I cannot figure out why he won’t do it as much as I’d like or even a little more. Do I stop being so generous do I just ask him after I finish him off?

[NamerOfStars]

You COULD just stop, but you'd do better to try and find another way to get your point across; it sounds like words aren't working. Here are some ideas; take, leave, or modify to your situation as you see fit.
-If your sex drive really is stronger than his (not that I think you're lying, but if you're not getting satisfied and he is, it can feel that way even if it isn't), then it's not unreasonable to ask him to cut back on masturbation. Not to stop it entirely- it serves other important purposes beyond sexual relief- but to dial it back so he's saving the majority of his sexual energy for you.
-Come up with some specific, detailed plans of what you'd like him to do, and tell him "there's something I'd like to try tonight". Or take it a step further and ask him to come up with some new ideas too, then trade off.
-Find a website with a list of positions (https://sexinfo101.com/positions , for example), and work your way through the list- have each of you pick a position, and alternate.
-Combine the first two ideas: ask him to promise you not to masturbate for the next X days, then tease the everloving SNOT out of him. When your libido reaches boiling point, everything even REMOTELY sexual becomes even more so, and much more alluring- keep it up for a while, and he may ASK to go down on you, just to get some stimulation. When you do get him off afterwards, though, make it fantastic: the glass of water that's merely passable under normal circumstances is AMAZING when you're really thirsty; orgasms are much the same. The goal is intensity, not cruelty.
-Make it its own thing, separate from sex as it's usually understood. Come home after a difficult, stressful day, clearly miserable? Ask him to go down on you. Use the puppy dog eyes if you have to. When he does, feel the stress melt away, and (I cannot stress this point enough) LET HIM SEE THAT. One of the most enjoyable moments of my life (and I don't just mean my sexual life) came from such an occasion (though it was my idea; not sure how much of a difference that makes). The feeling of so strongly driving away the misery of someone you care about; of blasting that suffering out of their head and seeing their sated, sleepy smile as they beam down at you and gently run their fingers through your hair, is an amazing thing, even without the sexual elements.

[GingerGuy]

You talk to him and tell him what you want. If he cares about you, he'll want to please you more. If he still doesn't do it, ask him why and don't let him brush the question off by saying "I don't know" or something like that. Does he not enjoy it? Smell or taste? What's the issue for him? And don't get angry when talking to him, it will only get his defenses up and you won't get anywhere. It's in a loving/caring tone, you are wondering what's going on and trying to make the sex better. Something he should want also.

[boggboss]

Like most problems in a relationship communicate with him openly not in the middle of sex but whilst both of you have a clear mind do u know why he dont do it is it something u can compromise on as sure u can stop giving him head but it won't make him do it to you lol

[bubbakong2006]

Well just tell him. if it were me you wouldn’t have to ask I love eating and licking pussy

[PhxBB13]

Have a conversation with him let him know your needs and see where it goes from there

[Browneye57]

I think your relationship is a failure. NEXT!

[karaspara]

Maybe you aren't sexually compatible

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Tl;dr

[Seppel]

Because he has a lower Sex drive

[Anonymous]

Continue to ask for it if he doesn't do it, but do it in a sex way. You could say something like, "I can't wait to feel your tongue between my legs." Also consider making it a game. For example say, "Let's flip a coin to decide who goes down on who first." If he's not interested in that, make 69 the only option available to him where you'll suck his dick. Again try making it a game. Tell him if he can make you cum you'll swallow his load. If he doesn't, don't finish him.

[Anonymous]

make it more enjoyable for him, like using some spray to smell better, wash the outside part and keep it as a fresh fruit
in a sense make him fall in love with it
if you know anything that he likes, do it during that time if you can, be ideal for him
maybe that helps