Jungle Juice destroyed our relationship. Is there hope?

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

Jungle juice is a sex enhancer. Usually used by the gay scene, but isn’t just for gays.

Marketed towards men, it gives you more powerful orgasms.

It’s also quite addicting and is classified as a drug. They’re also known as “poppers”.

One weekend, my ex who was my boyfriend at the time, comes back from a trip and is different. 2 weeks later, he pulls it out during sex and was finally able to orgasm. It broke my heart.

I can’t be with him anymore. It’s been almost a month and he still needs it. I was okay with it for a while, but it really turns sex into a mechanical- animalistic thing that you can’t remember later on. Well, you do remember the orgasm… which is why it’s so addicting 🥳😔

Anyway, I haven’t been able to connect to him the same and it’s just getting worse. He’s careless with it now and I can’t keep torturing myself sexually or emotionally.

So I broke it off..
just tell me I made the right choice 🤞👂

[MrOracle]

It's hardly a mystery that there's ALWAYS a very real cost to using drugs and other substances that provide temporary enhancements of things. We've seen this with drug after drug after drug.

You both had to pay a price for that. That's often how it works - people's loved ones also pay for an addict's addiction.

There's no free lunch. If people tell you otherwise, they usually want something from you, and they're hoping you are too distracted (or too stupid) to figure that out until after they've gotten what they wanted from you.

[Anonymous]

I mean, Yeah
I would do the same if I were you
although by what I learned from life, he's gonna become a successful person, and one day while you're making breakfast for your kids you'll see him on television, and your mouth would look like a cave

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

Interesting! All I want is a family and security. As long as he’s happy, he could shine all he wants 🙂 I genuinely loved him.

[Opinion Owner]

who doesn't want security and happiness but if you can, tell his family to take care of him before it gets worse you can give him some hope by telling him it's not too late I'm still single (so he try to get out of that mess, not to actually come back to you)

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

Fair enough.

[RobT312]

Oh noooo! You had to break things off because of poppers? That’s horrible and hope things are getting better. You really made the right choice however.
That stuff is nasty! At a party, another couple introduced jungle juice to us, gave us a bottle, and we gave it a try. Animal sex great, side effects, horrible.
i always felt like I woke up with a hangover x10, my girlfriend just didn’t like the feeling like you. after 3 tries, we never used it again.
you saved yourself health wise by walking away. If you are still friends , convince him to get some help. Hopefully you are meeting guys that are treating you better.

[DonkeyDan]

Yeah I think you did make the right decision, and quite possibly dodged a bullet. He's likely to only get worse with it, I hope he does seek help, but you don't need dragging down with him in the meantime.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I believe there is hope but it does seem that sex can ruin a relationship especially if it seems there is no love

[bowenw]

I'd encourage him to see his doctor to get help with his addition. If he refuses to go, you need to put yourself first and consider moving on.

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

He has a weird relationship with following through on things. It’s just so sad to see someone you love become controlled by something like drugs andor sex. I miss the old days. One thing I admire SO MUCH about men is their ability to move on. Sometimes I wish I had the emotional wiring of a man lol Thanks for your help!

[bowenw]

Try to get him to seek help before you do anything drastic like leaving him. It may also help to let him know that you enjoy your relationship more when it's not being influenced by the drug.

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

Seek help before leaving him? Yes, I can see why you say that. It’s just… We get into these stupid arguments. Because he defends it. The last time we had sex, I told him. I told him nicely and respectfully, “There’s YOU before and after Jungle Juice. It’s hard to be with the YOU post Jungle Juice. He listened. I can see the concern in his eyes. I went back to sucking and not even a minute goes by and he reached for it again. He was already high at this point so his brain probably wasn’t thinking clearly.. I should try talking to him when he’s clear minded, but that’s rare because he does it as soon as he wakes up now. Ugh! This is a shit show. I’ll give him another week and if no changes have taken place, I’m going to have to put myself first. *sigh of disappointment which happens to be the same sigh of relief* I want to be a good woman, not an enabler. That being said, I have no other choice. 😔😌 wouldn’t you agree?

[bowenw]

I agree you have to put yourself first. If it's clear he's not interested in life without the juice, I don't see any other option for you other than leaving him.

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

👂 Thank you.

[bowenw]

I wish you all the best. 🤗🤗

[DarkWinterNights]

It sounds like he got addicted to the organism it gave him. Sometimes animalistic sex can be fun. But if it’s all the time and emotionally disconnected I can relate to your reasoning. You did the right thing.

[Jamie05rhs]

Drugs are bad.

[joeldalton]

You made the right choice. He sounds like he's on the way to be an addict.

[Jerre]

You did make the right choice. Does the Jungle Juice help girls to cum harder? I could probably do without as I cum very hard. Can’t imagine what it would be like to cum harder.

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

Apparently to make yourself cum harder is fucking irresistible and irresponsible. Sorry for the strong language. I’m a bit hurt at how things transpired.

[Jerre]

Sure would like to cum hard with you.

[Anonymous]

Go see a doctor.

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

I’ve gotten tested. Everything negative. Thanks for the concern. Care to explain?