I am 27 and I am virgin, but almost all people I know don’t believe me?

They always like you don’t look like a virgin
But they think that a particular woman could be a virgin, even if she’s actually not
So is it all about appearance
I am 27 and I am virgin, but almost all people I know don’t believe me?
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  • I can look into your eyes and tell you that you are a virgin did you get that grumpy look lol you're absolutely beautiful first of all and who cares what other people think as long as you know the truth that's all that matters and I'm willing to percent sure you have a reason for still being a virgin it's not because you can't get dates that's for sure and I say more power to you I think that's awesome I think that little girl she look up to you because you do believe in something I can say this you were 10 times stronger than me because I didn't last I lost my virginity at 15 and a half 16 years old in my mind I look into your eyes you have a very beautiful heart even though you're grumpy sometimes you're probably almost like a single child. Do you have a very beautiful heart you're very smart very intelligent very wise you are passionate down deep you really do care even though sometimes you act like you don't you are a good friend you will be a very good lover and like I said to the whole inside of you is beautiful person The Outsiders just extra bonus

    • But, is that pic really her or just an illustration?

    • It's probably an illustration because I think I've seen that picture before somewhere

Most Helpful Guy

  • I've heard that before. If it's from men, take it as a left-handed compliment. What a guy is really saying, if I may translate...

    To himself, "Holy -- I wanna fuck her so bad—I thought I'd be at least her 10th... and I will probably not be her last, but maybe... maybe I could try to get to her!" and then the translation comes out, "With your beauty, Babe, you should be on every guy's list!"

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  • In all honesty I really think you need to have more conviction and confidence in the fact that you're a virgin. It's easy to sleep with someone just because.

    But ultimately it doesn't really matter.

    Maybe if you stopped telling people you'd realise that your sexual encounters are your personal business.
    Unless your putting this out there to get help to find someone.

    Right now, you are learning about yourself, trying to become the best version of you. If your already with someone and waiting your seeing how you two fit.
    That's a good thing.

    Have fun 😊

  • No, also a lot about personality. Like if you are outgoing and flirty, then less would believe it.
    I look pretty average but I can be very flirty (flirting is not a move to get sex for me) and people often thought I had fucked different guys, which I felt I just got along with.. some I granted also made out with, but took me long to get to wanting sex, was not until I was 25.

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  • I didn't believe one of my friends either when she said she was a virgin, this was a long time ago and it's the way she comes off. Very friendly and outspoken.

  • This has happened to me many of times especially when they find out I will be 30 soon and still a virgin, yes I dated guys and was in relationships with then. Just never had sex with them. Didn't feel ready. I started to not care if anyone believes me, I guess I got tired of explaining.

    • And they don’t believe you because they think you are good-looking You can be a virgin but no one will ever think that

    • I don't see myself as good-looking but I think it's more like they will automatically assume I'm in my late teens because of how I look, dress, and my aura a lot of people think I'm really young. So when someone finds out I'm a virgin and almost 30 that's what they don't believe because they always thought I was in my late teens.

    • It’s easier for guys to be virgins cause we have to work for pussy so we most likely wouldn’t turn it down, girls get offers all there life so it makes sense why there less virgin girls than boys

  • I don't believe you either. Didn't you just ask a question on losing your virginity? Everyone seems to be asking if it is weird they are still a virgin which means they probably aren't and are just curious if any are at that age.

    I am 27 and I am virgin, but almost all people I know don’t believe me?
  • I would tell them, not to judge the book by its cover.

  • You don’t “look” like a virgin is a very stupid and ignorant thing to say. Sorry you’re having to go through that. If it was me, I would just stop telling people that fact about myself, unless it was someone I was planning to be intimate with soon. People are always trying to put everyone into a box or a category, which can get VERY annoying.

  • The truth hurts but yeah
    most people say things their eyes see
    you should just ignore them since they have nothing to do with your life

    • also, why did you post a random picture of someone?

  • Why does "almost all the people you know" need to know if you're a virgin or not?

  • The reason is a change in societal norms. It's got nothing to do with you so don't feel bad.

  • You're saying you look too good for people to think you're a virgin? Don't indirectly fish for compliments, just post a how do I look instead.

  • Have you showed them your hymen?

  • Is that you? Why do you care if they believe you or not? You're are upset about being a virgin?

  • It’s uncommon in modern culture. Having said that, you’re going to make your future spouse really happy when he finds out you’ve been abstinent.

  • Maybe you're too attractive? Sometimes people have a hard time believing that an attractive woman could ever struggle to find a good partner.

  • ehh... is that ur picture?

  • I am 23 and still a virgin. When a guy says he is a virgin amongst other guys he usually gets laughed at or clowned on.

  • I am 23 who is a virgin, you don't have to defend your own body and position from ignorant people. Keep living your own life girl

  • Some hot people are virgins, have met a few, most were religous, but there are some who have other reasons.

    Don't see it as a negative thing in my potential partner.

  • I don't know, I'm 26 and a virgin. I think people would believe me because I'm a short nerd, but I like going out drinking

  • So what their perception have to do with your reality.

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