Would it be cheating if I purchased a dildo and didn't let my husband know about it?

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I am looking at buying a realistic one that is black. I don't think he would approve but I want one.

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

Wow really? I let my girl do all kinds of kinky shit. She can buy whatever dildo she wants wtf? It's not like you're sleeping around and I'd rather my girl used a dildo then another guy's dick like what? Your husband is way too damn controlling. Toys are literally harmless and a way for a woman to get whatever else she needs out of her. Is your husband giving you sex everyday? If not he can most certainly start contributing more to this relationship! What a ridiculous thing to have to ask. Truly, I'm sorry for you.

Glenn603 · Accepted Answer

No it's not cheating at all, If you want one just buy one. Although you're married you still have every right to buy something to play with yourself with while he's not about or whatever.
If you told him that you've bought one or planning on doing I bet he wouldn't mind at all.

Jessica405 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say it was cheating. It would be more like being deceitful. Keeping secrets is NOT part of the recipe for a good and lasting relationship.

If you want one, ask him. If he says no, either accept it or go behind his back. Whether you do ask or not, if he finds out, the shit will certainly be in the fan!

casserolie · Answer

thats not cheating, you just want to have fun when he can't provide it for you

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Why is it considered cheating? You’re a grown woman and able to make her own choices.

Hiponit · Answer

You know your husband better than the rest of us. I would still bring it up and see what his thoughts were. If you feel like you’re not getting enough sex, perhaps that can change. If you want something larger than what he has to offer, perhaps he will understand.

Questionsweask · Answer

Its not cheating. It is your right to have some you time. Just dont let it take over your time for each other.

Roah_Boat · Answer

Maybe if it is bigger than his own penis.

Caunsos · Answer

Not cheat buy might create more issues.

Stevefiveo · Answer

You should be comfortable enough to tell your husband.

CubaPirate · Answer

No he might enjoy the show

lycanthrope3 · Answer

Get a green one then he can't say anything

jackinoff · Answer

Get it

whatfor84 · Answer

no its not

Anonymous · Answer

Why don't you take him to a sex shop and tell him to pick out some toys he'd enjoy and get yourself some too including the dildo you want. Get some to use together as well.