When's the right time to have the talk about anal sex?

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ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

With any relationship no matter the gender or sexuality, it’s important to have clear communication.

Both should be able without judgement to discuss sex.

@purplepoppy says, as soon as it heads towards a sexual relationship, then you discuss boundaries, limits, likes don’t likes, also importantly consent.

just because on Tuesday your partner said yeah okay will try anal sex, the next weekend, does not mean they are still up for it.

the other bit about anal, is actually knowing how to do it right and not just like happens in porn movies lol, doing it as in porn will instantly put your partner off for life.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you haven't already had that talk, when you are doing 69, you can start fondling her butt and working closer to her butthole. She'll let you know if that's off limits.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

As soon as you get sexual with someone you should make your dos and don'ts clear and that includes anal

LiamSawyer · Answer

When you start having sex.

t-8900 · Answer

@Funnygirl1500 how many days in were we? Like 2? 🤭😂

Jlegacy · Answer

Anal sex is not natural and the best sex is natural. Used to have the appetite for it but I lost it when I read what real sex is all about in Romans1.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Right before you accidentally insert.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

gross.

Slayerrrrrrr · Answer

At dinner with her family is acceptable

dudeinohio · Answer

Once you start having sex.

noohair · Answer

If it is a deal breaker, sooner is better. I actually don't need it, but I am weird.

Twalli · Answer

My girlfriend and I did about 6 months after having sex, both the talk and the sex.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

In the bathroom stall an hour after you met her in the bar.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I don't know most of my girlfriends have been cool with it I just ask them if they would like to do it and that’s probably after like a week of having sec