Is sending a nude to the guy I’m dating for his birthday slutty?

I’ve been dating this guy for a month and A half now and we see each other frequently and we have had sex like 3 times. Anyways it’s his birthday tomorrow, is a nice message and like a sexual photo too much? I don’t want him to take it as slutty? I do trust him so that’s not like a big deal for me. But I’m worried he’d find this a turn off in case he’d think it’s too much?
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  • Yes.
    Are you going to marry this guy? Is he your one and only?

    OR

    Is he a random boyfriend... you'll date 5 to 10 more guys over the next 5 years and ALLLLL of them are going to get nude pictures of you?

    Hey... if you are going to marry this guy and he is the last guy you'll ever date I guess it isn't slutty you are just giving your special guy a treat.

    If he is just the guy you are dating now but you'll date others down the road... sending every guy you date nudes is slutty. We'll be looking for your pics on the internet soon!

    • Oh... I kind of skimmed past the 45 days of dating part. One and a half months? OF COURSE THAT IS SLUTTY. What character level of person does that after a month?

Most Helpful Guy

  • For me that would tell me how much you like me that would actually turn me on even more because well just because I think it's cool I think you should do it I also think if you do it that you don't need to be 100% naked for me anyway I don't like to see a full naked body I want to see Sebastian I'd rather see you instead of panties to fit tight you sitting back on the chair with your legs for a little bit and it's just your panties have a grip on you that's me is hot sexy agenda naked photo

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don’t recommend it. Just based on the fact that you don’t know if you will be with him for the rest of your life. Where might those photos end up if you have a bad breakup?

    He can see you nude in person. Better than a photo. 😊

    • @PrettyPriya Absolutely right on both points.

    • @B4852 Just go to his house wearing coat. Nothing more. Knock on door. When opens, take coat off. Hope no neighbors around 😂

    • @PrettyPriya So much better than a photo!😊

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  • Is it a tutn on? YES,!
    Should you do it? NO!
    In my opinion, dating someone 1.5 months is way to early to trust someone enough to send him nudes.
    If you still want to do it, consider sending him pics that do not show your face or any other things like tattos that make you easily recognisable.
    If you have birthmarks, photoshop them.
    Now you might think I'm paranoid, but I just saw too much shit on the internet.

  • I think he will like it. It will give him something to look at when he masturbates (yes all guys masturbate.. but most will never admit it)

  • He's already seen you naked and enjoyed it.
    A little flash of flesh is always welcomed.
    Maybe some titty and a thong would be be appropriate

  • If you're dating him then no that's great, not slutty, and happy birthday to him 😁

  • It's not slutty at all!!! Shoot, you could send one to me just to check!!!

  • You have already had sex, so no.

  • These photos have a tendency to never go away once they hit the internet. If you don’t want people in corporate boardrooms who are determining your future career to see that photo, I wouldn’t send it

  • No, slutty is sending nudes to more than 1 guy.

    Why only on his bday though?

    • I would send them him whenever rrally I just thought it was a good treat for his birthday

    • fair enough

  • Yes, that's too soon, and why the rush?

    • He's likely to lose respect for you if you send nudes so soon.

    • Do you think so? Yeahh I guess it is quite soon I just wanted to do it since I didn’t exactly get him a gift lol

    • But we have had sex a few times

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  • Do it. Lol no worries on the slut thing. Everyone does it

  • Nope.. its ok

  • Don't do anything you can't take back.
    Guys have an ego as fragile as an egg.

  • I think he'll enjoy it. Although he may begin to want nudes on other days than just his birthday

  • Not slutty but if that's all he's gonna get thatskinda poor choice in gift giving

  • I think it would be fine in done tactfully. I mean if the pic of you is with another guy then yes that wound be slutty... lol

  • You might be taking a risk. How much can you know a person after a month? I personally would love it, you can trust me. But I know a lot of people aren't trustworthy.

  • Very

  • Es but being slutty is a good thing

  • Even if you trust him I don't recommend sending nudes. Too many hackers anymore.

  • I'm sure he would appreciate it

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