If your friend suggested a "sex" secret Santa for Christmas, would you be down?

I have a group of friends with whom I did that for the last 3 years. Basically, we register on a website and add restrictions like guys can't pick guys, etc. Our wish lists are sexual acts and on the day we meet, we have 30 minutes each to give our "gifts". For example, whoever I get, I will permormed one, some or all sexual acts from their wish list for 30 minutes. Then I will be receiving from whoever got me, etc.
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Superb Opinion

  • If you view sex as a recreational activity, I suspect that would be an exciting event in which to participate. But if you were a potential dating partner for me and I learned that about you, I would not pursue you at all. For me, sex should not be a casual activity; it should be an expression of love in a relationship.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Overall it is an interesting idea and I could see it getting traction in the fet/bdsm lifestyles but for most people it might be weird, more awkward then spin the bottle in 8th grade. So it's always going to be up to the rules and from person to person.

Most Helpful Girls

  • When I was single this couple have been fun. Not we do just use blowup dolls and board games for goofy games and rules.

    • Thanks for MHO

  • Sounds like a game I would have had fun with when I was younger and single.

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  • I'd probably end up with the ugly one so no

  • Sounds like fun.. and yes I would be going down

  • That'll certainly spice up the office secret Santa this year, where do I sign up 😂

  • Never done or heard about it before, but it sounds absolutely lovely. Thanks for the idea, I will totally be borrowing this one!

  • That sounds super hot. Sign me up

    • Yeah Sarah I agree I so wanna sign up for that too fucking hot

  • Omg how creative! That would be great with the right group of people

    • Honestly its really fun with people that respect boundaries, I learned some stuff about myself too

    • Good for you hon!

  • That's actually a interesting idea. Maybe

  • So where’s the sign up sheet

  • Interesting

  • That sounds like fun.
    I bet swingers do that.

  • Sounds like fun. Why not. 🤣

  • Sounds like a fun time

  • I’m too nervous to do something like that

  • Only if they understand I don't like men , and have sex with women then sure. Only if they are single as most people are married.

    • @sandoncheeks did this last year with a group of friends sincewe were single and wanted to try somethingnew, it was honestly really fun. Everyone respected everyone's boundaries if there was penetrative sex they wore condoms. The person I got was the "nerd" of thr group I guess you could say and I gave him his first blowjob he was really respectful and nervous, he's my roommate now. And the person who got me was my first lesbian experience and it was amazing.

  • Sure, sounds like a lot of fun to me.

  • That could get really wild, really quickly.

  • Sounds like fun.

  • I’d be down. Lol

  • Nooo

  • That a super cool idea! Have you enjoyed it for the last 3 years? Are you thinking you change it up?

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