Can Bisexuals have friends?

Aiko_E_Lara Master

Ok this is for those who say men and women can't be friends because the cliche reasoning I've always got are "because they might fall in love, they might fantasize, they get the sexual urge or etc" which I've been debunking by the way. So with that logic, what about bisexuals then? Lets here those excuses or assumptions again.

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I really love not so much of those bigots are showing up in here. I guess this question just backfires their own logic.

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wonderfulstation404 Xper 4
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i can't answer this cause my knowledge and experience is little to zero so take it with a grain of salt.
i think they'll make great friends within the LGBTQ Community since they do go through common experiences so yeah they can make real friends within the LGBTQ Community and also since this is a thing you get later in life y'all can still be good buddies with your old homies before your transition or confession etc. they'll alway be exceptions to the rules aslo since in the lgbtq nothing is stable especially the "queers" one queer herself said her feelings towards a gender depends on her mood so yeah... thats my take on it
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Oh now I see, you're not gonna assume because you don't know anything about them. But guess who else you don't know about. That's right, other straight men out there who you've never met in your sad life. Welp with all those things you said, I can easily use that to explain how those straight men got female friends.
billluc69 Yoda
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i think they have more friends
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  But do you believe guys and girls can be friends?
- billluc69
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  just friend or maybe more if thats what they want

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IveGotNoName Yoda
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Well I do believe girls and guys can be friends. Guys aren't attracted to every girl and girls aren't attracted to every guy. Otherwise it's a matter of self control.
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hahahmm Guru
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The odds of someone who goes out of their way to tell you that they're bisexual not being a cheater is low. This friends stuff matters most in the context of cheating.
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Then same goes with straight guys being lower than you think. What your saying is basically that the sexuality has anything to do with cheaters which is really false. The only reason why it seems like straight people cheat more is because they're just abundant and of course people always like to react to negative news which is why you like to cherry pick.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Those true friendship that actually happened is basically either just downplayed, ignored or doubted because you just like to assume everyone are cheaters.
- hahahmm
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  The equivalent of a bisexual making a point of telling you that they're bi is a straight person making a point of telling you that they find lots of other women attractive while they're trying to get into a relationship with you. It's a red flag.
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- Aiko_E_Lara
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  It's more like straight people just telling anyone they're straight. Again with that no true Scotsman fallacy. Like saying "you're equivalent to Hitler because you like dogs and he likes dogs as well"
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Oh and you also wouldn't consider that it is a red flag to some people that someone who is bisexual haven't told him/her soon enough because lying is a red flag. So if telling anyone is a red flag, so I guess you wouldn't wanna know if your girlfriend is a transgender or not.
- hahahmm
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  It's simple math that if you have 2x the potential partners & you lack self control than you're twice as likely to have the opportunity & motive to cheat. Maybe you just suck at math.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Then you're talking about people who lack self control. So the real reason why you think men and women can't be friends is because you automatically assume they would lack self control. That's what I meant about your assumptions. It's no different if I assume bisexuals lack self control so they can't have friends. But yeah it's only because they're bi that's why you think it's low.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Straight men is not even equal to lack of self control. Also maybe you suck at analyzing. Because sure if he's a straight man and (times) 1, it wouldn't make a difference. If you wanna say "2x" then you're talking about those who lack self control.
- hahahmm
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  Around 20-25% of people admit to lacking self control. Smart people try to weed them out.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  Those people who "admits" can also be lying but you see, if people admits they don't, it's just like you wanna believe in something that favors your argument. But even if they say it's a 20-25 of people, that would mean they asked 950 million people which is the 25% of 3.8 billion assuming that's now many guys in the world are, that's still really a lot of anyone to actually ask. Also I did mention something in my mytake that those people who admits may only be talking about certain friends but not the rest which still may outweigh who they crush on. So yeah if you say you've met 950 million people and you're still alive, then you're lying.
- Aiko_E_Lara
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  And even if that 20-25% is actually true, just pretending for the sake of argument, 75-80% would mean they have self control. Or maybe 40% just don't really have the urge not even needing self control. So that still outweigh that 25% of yours before you can even generalize.