Well yea it's cheating. Did you go looking for a happy ending or did she just start and you let it happen? Either way you look at it, you got sexually off by someone other than your significant other. I'm not against them though. I'm single and have been looking for a legit spot in my area that has the young Asian girls and not the old Asian grannies.
I’m 68. I’d much RATHER have one of those Asian ‘grannies’ spanking my Yankee monkey. Given the places I’ve been, people I’ve met and things I’ve done, she might be giving me a long delayed encore performance.
Cheating means something different depending on the relationship. I define cheating as a break of the mutually agreed upon boundaries. However, for me personally, I wouldn't consider it cheating if it was a rub and tug only. Same for my partner if it was fingering only.
Yes... it's a sexual act that your partner would more than likely not codfish l condone...
I'm sure my partner would be pissed of O fit a happy ending in a massage.
Would you be mad if your partner got one?
I wouldn’t mind if my wife copulated with him, never mind let him tickle her monkey. I’m not a monogamous person and I don’t expect her to be.
Well your expectations of her could be different than her expectations of you. If she doesn't feel the same way as you, then it's absolutely cheating.
It DOES make a difference. You’re right. It’s perfectly OK for even just one member of a pair to call it cheating. And it’s perfectly OK for both members of a pair to consider it a nothingburger.
Yes it is the only guy I’d let touch me is my boyfriend or husband I wouldn’t want any other guy touching me also getting someone to jack you off could lead to more
... could lead to more... I don’t suppose that you realize what a compliment that is to a nearly 70 year old, skinny old man with a 4 1/2” pecker. More? I’m not going to hold my breath waiting for *that* to happen. Thanks.
Since I would never have a desire for another man to touch me besides my boyfriend I expect the same thing from him because I am not in an open relationship
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, I see that as cheating. It's a sexual act.
I wouldn't be okay with it.
I don't think a guy would appreciate their girlfriend/wife/SO to get a yoni massage either.
I wouldn’t mind at all if my wife did. I’m all about her exploring her sexuality. Now if she went out and found a guy who wasn’t a professional without talking to me it would be a problem.
It is a sexual activity with another woman. Of course it is cheating. How would he feel if I was giving some guy a handjob behind his back?
This should not be done during a relationship.
I would for 100% see this as cheating, unless you've talked about it and made some sort of agreement.
oh for crying out loud. You're married ffs! And pushing 70!
... Married:... yeah, I’ve got a wife around here somewhere... ... Pushing 70... And still a tomcat when I wanna be.
Yeps
Yes, absolutely. Maybe you'll get balloons and confetti instead - 'happy' ending. LOL
Haha !
Yeah thats cheating.
Absolutely!
I do, but others don't. Therefore, it's up to the couple or group.
Yes, because I am being physically pleasured by someone that is neither my girlfriend nor me.
years it is
I would be fine with it as long as he doesn’t mind my masseuse fucking my ass. Because you know, it’s not sex and there was only contact with one part of the body.
Haha yeah it is grandpa
Yes it's cheating unless you go with your girlfriend/wife and she gets a massage at the same time with a happy ending where her masseur gives her an orgasm.
Of course it is but that adds to the thrill
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