Is it a good thing or a bad thing if a woman is forward?

I've always been the type that if I see a guy I like and we start talking I'm very honest about what I feel. I will straight up tell them "I'm horny" 😂 or asking "what are you packing for me?" It usually throws them off for a second but its never been something that's put men off of me. Quite the opposite they say it's refreshing. I know it's a bit frowned on with women. I'm not the type to just sleep around or anything. I just like to get what I want and cut to the chase.
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  • You GO girl!

    I’ve ALWAYS favored a bold woman, and I’m old enough to remember President Eisenhower making a speech on our little black & white TV with a round picture tube the size of a small pie pan.

    If any guy Turns tail and runs from you because you’re ‘forward’ it just means that he’s afraid he isn’t going to be able to keep up with you.

    Think of it as a handy way to ‘pre-qualify’ the men in your life.

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  • It's unfortunate and it sucks that there is the double standard about slut-shaming, I'm against that and I love it when women are blunt or point blank about expressing interest with a guy, or just women making the first move or being the initiators but why do I get the feeling those type of women will always be rare

    • I think women are afraid to seem easy. I'm not easy I just see what I want and I go for it. I'd rather that then miss an opportunity as it has all blossomed into Kong term relationships so clearly these men didn't see me as disposable

    • I've always resented being the Hunter

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  • I've been hit on and picked up by women before. There's nothing wrong with it. A self confident women is almost always and independent career woman, which is exactly what I like.

  • That ol' saying: "Hey, little girl are there any more at home, like you?"
    You're a 'treasure'... don't EVER change~

  • I would enjoy that very much. Its better than trying to read your mind if you are interested in me at all

  • i see it as a very good thing

  • I like honesty like that. My big thing is taking about what’s going on in bed. I don’t want to be doing something you don’t like. I always ask how I’m doing, speed ok, do you like that? Tell me what you want…. I love being to the point.

  • considering there are so many men that can't read women very well
    it is very good thing

  • It's more than good... It's pivotal

  • I think it is fine. The guy knows where he stands and if they don't like it then you can move on and go for the next one without fluffing about

    • Exactly. Although if a man acted the same women would say they were a perv for sure.

    • Hahaha probably

  • It's a good thing

  • Bad!

  • Good

  • Depends on the situation.

  • It's good. Turns most men on. We should have more like you.

  • "I will straight up tell them "I'm horny" or asking "what are you packing for me?""

    "I'm not the type to just sleep around or anything."

    Ummmm... oh, never mind.

    • Problem? Al the men I've done this with I have been in long term committed relationships

    • So you're a homewrecker too.

    • Just to clarify I'm talking about men who I'm talking to who we are mutually interested in each other, are both single and I have ended up in committed relationships with

  • Ew that would put me off.

    • Why?

    • It weirds me out. I only like talking about sex when I'm not having it.