Am I weird to want a British dom husband?

I am Indian and I don't want someone I can see as an equal. I want someone who dominates me and I am also into raceplay, BDSM etc. I try imagining an Indian husband and it doesn't feel the same as I can't see him as a dom.
I want a tall, blue-eyed man to be my dom. Is it messed up that I think this way?
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  • No not at all. I just can't imagine an Englishman being dominant. They're just so damn polite. Like they'd say "Madam if you please I'd like to gag you with your under-trousers" or "I've got heaps of lube back at my flat, fancy you'd come take a look?" Men from the US or Aussies would better fit the bill.

    • I want the colonizer.

  • Not messed up. You are a high value woman.

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  • Not at all. I have a brown eyed, tall English guy that happens to be my dom. Colour, race, nationality has little to do with it except where you have a preference.

  • Possibly yeah.

    Race play.

    is that like 5km and 10km runs and see who wins?

    • No it's about sex.

    • Oh like sex marathons

    • Raceplay: "a sexual practice where the either imagined or real racial background of one or more of the participants is used to create this power-imbalance in a BDSM-scene, through the use of slurs, narratives and objects laden with racial history."

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  • I guess that's just your kink

  • You like what you like. Everyone likes something different. Nothing wrong with that at all.

  • So you wanna be colonised?
    It's weird especially with those specifics. But hey always fun to read your questions on white man fetish. Keep em coming😂

  • no im British and would love to get married im kind old school at heart

  • Seems a bit messed up, you might be insecure about your ethnicity or that you've grown up with a lot of privilege to actively want to be racially degraded.

  • You said this already. Whatever you are in too

  • No you Just read too much 50 Shades of Grey 😂

    • I didn't read the book but I watched the movie and I think it was good.

    • Nothing wrong with that but it's a trend and girls tend to think they have to be like that. I hope some day there is a book that is for Girls wanting to get dominant so the trend goes in a good direktion

  • Ahhhh... someone still stuck in the colonial era.

  • I think it’s messed up.

    • Are you British?

    • No I’m American

    • Are you into raceplay?

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