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Do you think it sounds strange for a woman to have fantasies about being raped by a man they think is handsome or attractive?

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  • Do you think it sounds strange for a woman to have fantasies about being raped by a man they think is handsome or attractive?

    That lyric from Frank Zappa & the Mothers of Invention comes to mind: "If she was MY daughter I'd..." "What would you DO, Daddy?" "Cover dat girl with chocolate syrup and MAKE her do 'the nasty' on the White House lawn! "

    Let me STRESS upfront... the phenomena of REAL Rape is most often committed by someone who selfishly views their Victim as being of a status BEYOND their ability to negotiate with... or, to seduce within social norms; SO... they 'de-personalize' them by envisioning them as but an animate 'thing' and a means-to-THEIR-ends. The 'wants' of their intended Victim have NO bearing... except to hold out the possibly-false hope of SURVIVING this brutal encounter.

    There is ALWAYS the element of deception and a physical display of superior physical force to make a socially-prohibited intrusion upon the Victim's intimate personal space. Think of it like what YOU felt when as a child you'd get drawn into a merciless 'tickle fight' session.
    There comes a point wherein you beg them to STOP and... how much MORE you had no choice but to endure, was beyond YOUR control. "Stop.. STOP... STOP!" you piteously begged and cried---

    Often those dominant Abuser's hands surreptitiously wound up ALL OVER YOU despite your protests, until the atavistic perception of 'dominance' lust & desire they felt satisfied. THIS is a kind of JUVENILE 'sexual assault'.

    When it ceases, BOTH of you absolutely KNOW who's the 'Alpha'... we see this often demonstrated midst Natural fraternal puppies, kittens, foxes and the like.
    In truth, the 'end game' could be 'dominance copulation' as with our nearest genetic simian 'cousins' the Bonobo chimpanzees (humans share 98.7% the SAME DNA!) or even a life-ending blow... and BOTH intimately KNOW it!
    One Feminist-shunned strategy is the 1950's "If Rape is inevitable, ENJOY it" Like that childhood tickle fight the foremost agenda is to SURVIVE it and CONCLUDE it, as soon as within your control, sustaining as LITTLE physical trauma as your situation allows; even if it means YOU fake your responses to bouy their ego. Now, let's turn from 'reality' to the 'Fantasy'...

    The primary function of this roleplay is... to provide YOUR psyche an alibi, ... a rationalization that you were overpowered, ... FORCED to engage in behaviors your Pollyanna 'good girl' persona finds abhorrent (yet fascinating.) This tells you MUCH both of your Assailant and yourself!

    "What would it be like if I were FORCED to 'x'?"
    "But HE MADE ME DO THIS!" You half-heartedly protest.
    Knowing deep inside, a disavowed part of you LIKED it, 'got off' envisioning DOING/being DONE TO You. 'Got off' irrevocably KNOWING your Assailant
    found some aspect of your Persona, physique or behavior SO 'alluring' that he felt the need to 'have' you, ... to 'despoil' specifically YOUR innocence and HOPEFULLY
    if he's skilled enough... to FORCE You to surrender your resistance and
    become actively shamelessly concupiscently 'COMPLICIT'.
    Meeting his each thrust salaciously GRINDING and humping.
    Those vaginal kegel and anal muscles of Your's, clenching...
    YOUR nipples and Clit exquisitely erect and aching;
    ... lips and tongue hungrily 'devouring'...
    turning the tables on YOUR Attacker, placing him at YOUR mercies!
    He's NOT done with you until... YOU"RE DONE WITH HIM!

    Your 'conscience' uses the rationalization
    "I did WHAT I HAD TO DO... in order to 'survive'..."
    now... YOU more greatly experienced and jaded.
    He MAY HAVE 'raped' the lady but... he GOT the Tigeress~

    Do you think it sounds strange for a woman to have fantasies about being raped by a man they think is handsome or attractive?

Most Helpful Guy

  • It seems a lot of girls are turned on by that fantasy so yes it sounds fucked up but if it’s just a fantasy and it doesn’t really happen then so be it , I wouldn’t be happy to hear that a girl actually got raped against her will and I don’t think she would actually be happy about that either, if she did , then I don’t think it would be considered rape if she enjoyed it. I think it’s just the thought of it that turns her on , I have weird fantasies that turn me on but for some of them to really happen wouldn’t turn me on , it’s just the thought of it that does and I keep it to myself for the most part So it’s normal I guess to have those thoughts, we all have some type of weird fetish that gets us turned on
    Shit, one of them I am not nervous to admit , I love sexy girls that wear sexy shoes , just something about her wearing sexy shoes while I am drilling her that turns me on I guess her shoes and feet by my ears is what I picture and it’s sexy as fuck to me lol And if I see a beautiful girl wearing sexy shoes I instantly picture myself fucking her , it turns me on lol I don’t have any problem taking a girl shoe shopping if she will wear them for me , that’s a huge turn on to me , Why I am turned on by that is a mystery to me but it’s hot to me , Girl’s that love sex and stay loyal to me is a huge turn on as well a girl that is all about pleasing me and isn’t scared to get cum in her mouth is a huge turn on the me, But finding that girl is a struggle lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'd be really careful with this. Not because your weird or anything. But it's not what you want.
    You're craving a dominant man, maybe you'd enjoy being blindfolded, gagged and tied up. That's OK..
    Maybe you want a guy to slap you a little put you in a position and tell you not to move. That is OK. Maybe you want your hair pulled a little...

    Maybe you want to be taken a little rougher than usual...

    But I can assure you, you do not want to be raped fantasy or not.
    (I say this because you can still be raped by a guy you want to sleep with)

    It's important to separate what turns you on in the fantasy rather than calling out "rape fantasy".
    This is the only way you can ensure you get the pleasurable experience versus the trauma.

    I'm sure you'll say "it's really not that big a deal" but if you really want an experience think on what things excite you about that scenario. And I believe you'll quickly realise not very much.

  • I mean yeah I think it’s weird. However it’s actually a very common fantasy among women from what I’ve heard and read. It’s not really usually about the rape in itself though, but more about being dominated and desired. In fantasies that can come out in an extreme way, such as rape I guess. Obviously doesn’t mean the women with these sorts of fantasies actually want to get raped for real.

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  • No, I've heard that quite a few times. Remember that fantasy is fantasy, though; the reality would probably be a LOT more horrifying. Arranging some sort of fantasy-fulfillment with a sexy dude you know and like and trust (that's the big one) might work out okay, though.

  • You can't rape the willing. It's more likely she wants to cheat and divert the blame

  • Not any more I used to THINK
    WTF but there's another app that I'm on and there's a lot of role-playing going on there and a lot of girls request that it doesn't mean that that's what they want or they wish that upon anybody it's just a fantasy of force that they want to feel are you experienced and what using your words you can do it pretty good and they get off pretty well a couple times and you should want you to do it again

  • If you run a search on DuckDuckGo, turn off the filter, there is a lot of information about this written by actual dr’s.

  • Its common. Women are told from a very early age not to want sex. But they do want it. So naturally they fantasize situations where they get sex without wanting it.

    Plus there is the expectations. Even invited, a hard cock is a threat of pain. Women imagine that pain turning to a pleasure that wrests control of their own dignity and prose from them. And without shame because the man was too preoccupied with his own indulgences. But when women actually have sex the pain is seldom paced in such a way that it lasts long enough to wrest anything at all. The disappointment drives some, particularly the attractive girls, into fearing they'll never get fucked properly. Fantasies of being forced tend to mitigate that because the guy is driven by need and has no reservations or nervousness. Plus there can be like 300 guys, as it is a fantasy..

    • What are you reading… ha

    • Claiming the Prince by Cora Avery, but that's not the point, lol 😅

  • That’s one of the most common fantasies.

  • I've heard that these fantasies are quite common. Doesn't mean that women want to experience this for real. A fantasy is a fantasy, and some fantasies are best kept a fantasy.

  • I have those fantasys sometimes. But my boyfriend is a sub so it's usually about my boss at work.

  • It's not rape if you want it. That's why rape fantasies do not exist.

  • No, happens quite a lot. Some actually act it out! she's in bed, alone, he gets dressed like a robber and "breaks in" through her bedroom window and has his way with her while she pretends he's attacking her.

  • It's actually incredibly common.

    Also it's not the rape itself that they fantasize about it's elements of it such as having control taken away from them, to be dominated and to be in a position seemingly dangerous but has no real danger to it (illusionary danger)

    I find it both funny and ridiculous.

  • It is but it happens

  • Nah not really.
    It makes life less complicated for the victimn in the fantasy.

    It's like a guy fantasizing about being "raped" by a hot woman giving him a blowjob "against his will". (ofcourse he wants it)

  • I'm over it. I don't want to hear any more of this stuff and I want no part of it. Life is too dark and depressing as it is.

  • Actually no, this is evolutionary psychology, as a woman you have a predisposition to be conqured by a strong man.

    This is why Stockholm syndrome exists, and predominantly effects women.

    Humanity has a long history of taking war brides.

    All it means is that you know this man is more desirable, stronger and more capable than all of the men in your sphere.

  • its a fairly common fantasy

  • I would say yes, but I've heard a lot stranger than that.

  • No, I would also like being raped by me.

  • No. This is a very common fantasy.

  • It is a common fantasy. Totally not strange. I like helping her act out that fantasy.

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