Is genital compatibility more important than penis size?

Question

Penises come in all shapes and sizes and although vaginas can adjust it's no secret some adjust better than others. I'm sure you average guys out there feel your rattling around in an empty bucket one day and the next another girl is screaming your too big.

So should guys stop whinging about their tiny dicks and girls stop moaning he's too big it hurts and just pair up with a compatible sized partner?

Is genital compatibility more important than penis size?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As one with a rather large sized one that has appeared in films that are "adult" in nature, I've come to realize there are several types of vaginas.

1.) Accommodates mine well as she is built that way. She isn't a size queen by any means though.

2.) She'll accommodate mine for as long as she is adequately aroused, might hurt a bit in the beginning or if we don't do it for a while but usually she'll be willing to overlook it as everything else felt really good.

3.) She will feel that even when fully aroused I'm big for her but because she loved me for everything else a sore vagina once or twice per week was something she accepted as the norm for as long as before it happened I did all I could to minimize and after it is over she gets the pampering she deserved.

4) Similar to (3) even if it was bearable it wasn't something she enjoyed and didn't feel there was anything that could make it worth it... welll it was her vagina and it was her choice.

5) There's the one that fit is fine but due to it being bigger than what she had been used to previously she chose to not like it for other reasons such as how dominant a big one feels in her or she simply didn't enjoy that feeling of me taking ownership of her when I did deeper penetrations.

My personal view is penis size is definitely important as in life I've gotten to know many men that have low self esteem and low self confidence stemming from a small penis, however if you happen to be big then it isn't a necessity that every woman will like it in her vagina... and never take a woman's word that she likes big at face or more importantly at screen value because I've had it before that a married woman told me she wanted a guy with a big one, even can show her pics of it prior to meeting up only to be rejected because when she meant big it was closer to 7x5.5 not 8.5x6.5

Barry88 · Accepted Answer

My penis is only a bit longer than average (6.5") and a bit thicker than average, but I've been with a girl who found it too big and too painful. She felt very tight for me. Even inserting two fingers was already quite a lot for her, three fingers was too much. Even after trying multiple times, it didn't really work. On the other hands, other girls were very happy with my dick. Size isn't important, genital compatibility is definitely more important. Sex should be enjoyable for both parties.

Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Accepted Answer

Penis size is more important than genital compatibility for a few reasons.

For one, vagina size is much less straightforward compared to penis size. While penises are consistently the same size whenever they become erect, vaginas can stretch and expand to different lengths based on arousal level and/or to accommodate the size of whatever frequently penetrated the vagina. For example, a woman accustomed to her vagina expanding up to 5 inches when aroused could potentially have it expand much deeper when she experiences a stronger level of arousal. Her vagina could also expand much larger if she prefers to masturbate using larger dildos. Thus, preferring a penis size that could cover all potential bases when the vagina expands beyond its known limits is the wisest option.

Two, other events could change vagina size and, therefore, render a once "compatible" penis size incompatible. For example, women that are older and/or giving birth to many kids are likely to end up with a much bigger vagina than before. Thus, if a woman wants to maintain the same level of sexual pleasure with the same man, she would be wise to choose a man with a penis size big enough to still provide pleasure as her body changes.

Three, some genitals are simply not compatible at all. Unfortunately, some men have micropenises that can barely reach the pussy in any position. Unless the man is a pedophile that prefers having sex with toddlers, which I strongly hope not, he would not provide any level of pleasure to an adult woman with his penis, per se. Therefore, women should be encouraged to pursue men with larger penises, enjoy the pleasure larger penises provide, and not worry about "compatibility." If the penis feels "too big" and painful, the vagina would grow accustomed to the penis over time.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Maybe

Lliam · Answer

Absolutely true.

MTC29 · Answer

"... guys out there feel you're rattling around in an empty bucket." That's a visualization I can't get out of my mind! You have a way with words, Poppy.

summiter · Answer

Good point purple. Everyone should stop worrying about penis size and vagina tightness and just enjoy the sex and great orgasms.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Thankfully I've never rattled around in an empty bucket as you so eloquently put it 😂 I wonder how you'd calculate genital compatibility?

20yearsolder · Answer

I love your questions. So is everybody going to get measured, well your dick is 5 in long and 3 in around, now Julie come over here and let me measure your coochie. Nope you two are incompatible. I'm just being a smart-ass. I guarantee you that a 4-in dick can satisfy you, it doesn't have to hit the bottom. At the right angle that 4-in dick can be rubbing on your g-spot the whole time and it'll drive you crazy

bean2k21 · Answer

It fell from your pillow in bed The little screw screwed in your head

exitseven · Answer

If only it is that easy.

Johnagain · Answer

Yes.

Andres77 · Answer

Do you know why women are usually so bad at judging distance?

K-I-S-S · Answer

Whatever the case, it goes both ways.  Some compromises have to be made on all sides.

DaveToo · Answer

Once a woman has had a horse cock, would she ever go back to human dingaling?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

THANK YOU. 💯

Caliguy88 · Answer

Lol. I’ve certainly been with extremes on both sides with girls. I’m good with either. I know I’m a tab bigger than average and I’m good with that. Lol. Never had complaints.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

It’s not like everyone is pulling down their pants finding matches. I’m really big myself and only had one that felt like a bottomless pit and a few virgins that were really tight, but for the most part it’s been fine. Just take it slow and ease into it.

Pete671 · Answer

I'm pretty small but actually prefer loose vaginas,

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Because larger dicks are compatible with all pussy sizes. Even if she's still huge that no dick is big enough bigger is better. And I've fucked a girl who was so tiny i could only put half my dick in and had to be gentle about it and it was highly pleasurable for both of us... although not the sex im accustomed to.

KingofCups · Answer

Lol this reminds me of the lock and key metaphor they use to describe chemical reactions. But tbh if you want to figure shit out about your sexual compatability, you just need to have sex with a lot of different people. And well im open to it. It's just been a difficult past two years. I'm a fit attactive guy, dont have tons of disposable income to buy bullshit status symbols. But hey convince some your friends to drop their pantiez and I'll help through the process of self-discovery.