What do you think of girls that like their hands being tied up/handcuffed during sex?

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I'm curious of what people generally think about it 🤷‍♀️

Massageman · Accepted Answer

They have a good grasp some techniques that can heighten the enjoyment and intensity of their orgasm.

During orgasm, her body will make involuntary contractions, every 0.8 seconds. It's fine if there is no resistance and her body just makes the movements with isotonic contractions- it's very pleasurable. If her body is pressing against some resistance- we call it "counterpressure"- her muscles will be strained a bit more with what is now both isotonic AND isometric contractions making the feedback response to her senses even stronger! And for most women, that equates into SUPER-pleasureable! I was working with one lady who wanted a series of erotic massages. I have a length of soft rope , looped around her hands/arms to hold her down a bit. After that session as she left, she just quietly whispered, "That rope was hot!". (Safety first, people - - - - It was looped in such as way that I had to be pulling on it at all times. If anything happened to me, the rope would fall from my hands- she would be instantly "freed". )

And - Here's a quick note about "counterpressure". When you go to the doctor and he/she listens to your heartbeat with a stethoscope, the odds are strong that they put their other hand on your shoulder so that you do not feel as though you are being knocked over when they press the scope to the chest. That is an example of counterpressure.

BlueWalker · Accepted Answer

I get it, but I'm not into bondage. Me personally, I find it very boring. With her tied up she's (obviously) unable to move, which takes away all the other hot things about sex and intimacy that I love. Things like her having the ability to clutch the sheets in a fit of passion; the unhindered, random and uncontrollable gyrations and/or shaking of her body as she's in ecstasy; her wrapping her legs around me or grabbing my arm, leg, ass or side - sometimes leaving unintended marks of passion my body, which can be hot in itself. Sex is highly sensuous and physical, and the shared interaction of touch only heightens the level of ecstasy for me. Her own input and touch is as arousing as any other part of sex, and without her ability to share that in the moment (because she's tied up) takes away that sense of touch which is so important for me.

Love and sex is a language all its own. It involves every one of our body's senses and by tying her up it takes away so many of the random queues of sex that can be so incredibly hot. I prefer her completely free and unhindered so she can share all the subtle nuances of her own passion and ecstasy in the moment. It only adds to the experience and magnifies it to another level. I need that physical interaction.

19magic · Accepted Answer

I like it but only with the leather type cuffs I like to play wrestle a bit and being over powered by a guy is hot and then comes the teasing

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Doesn't seem like they would be enjoying themselves, depending on how tight the bonds are.

MrOracle · Answer

I'm a dominant and participate (less recently, due to COVID) in the BDSM world, so this is kind of the norm for me. Obviously I enjoy girls who like this stuff.

SISWITHBROTHER2 · Answer

I would say to each their own way for their enjoyment.

ScoobyNECBir · Answer

Don’t mind that but I do find it creepy dildos and stuff.

MTC29 · Answer

I've never had that request. Even so, I stand by my three rules: no pain, no humiliation, and no men... ever.

TheorionMage · Answer

Elective restraints provide a sense of danger as well as 'submitting' to the wants of their partner.

IF they survive (some mistakes you only get to make ONCE) they can rationalize that they had but no choice to 'endure' whatever they've experienced and can subsequently come to terms with how they TRULY felt while undergoing whatever. "Its only 'kinky' the FIRST time, thereafter its a conscious choice!"

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

That it’s fairly normal, it’s her kink and that I would be her safe space to live out her needs and desires connected with it.

I would however try and persuade her from handcuffs to other types of restraint as they tend to distract, hurt or bruise, mark bed frames etc.

I would also explore what limits are, is it simply just her hands or is the feeling of being helpless or that of being restrained in general, the lack of control etc.

it’s often that one thing leads to another and different doors open.

Shizunk · Answer

I do like it when a girl knows what she likes and is willing to tell me. This is easy enough to arrange and making the girl happy is a big part of sex for me, so it is a good preference to have.
I do like to be generally in control, though whether that includes handcuffs or not is not important to me.

jshm2 · Answer

Been with a couple of girls into BDSM and kink. It's really not as far out as you think.

buddysboy16 · Answer

Kinda hot. I've tried it before with the girl tied up and I liked it a lot

Miristheiss · Answer

She's been around and slept around a lot with a lot of guys into porn.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

It’s fine

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

If I trust and love the woman in question, it can be really hot.

Somegirl408 · Answer

i dont think anything, because i like the idea myself

SillybrokenPanda · Answer

Reviews from my last few partners say it is fantastic 🤌

silkjames · Answer

At first I was like 😮wtf then I'm like my turn 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥it's Fun fun yum yum, bum bum, rub rub, drip drip , moan moan u get my point point lol cuff up😋🔥🤣🤣🤣!