That's an interesting take like I can agree with a lot that you said. I don't know though like the guys I've done it with really love it maybe I should have asked them why so I could give you a good answer to compare with. It's also not to say that this is the only way I like having sex either.
@zaharuh Oh, I didn't mean to imply that people don't like it. I know it's not uncommon at all. It's just not for me. 😊
@BlueWalker Yeah I'm more vanilla like you dude this isn't really my thing either but would I give it a try? Damn right I would.
@Adagio Oh, I'm far from vanilla. lol It's just not my cup of tea. I tried it in the past (wasn't my idea, but tried it anyway) and, meh. 🤷🏼♂️
@BlueWalker I feel like it's pretty uncommon but I think people kind of like it overall. And yeah that's fine not everything is for everyone!
@zaharuh I get a sense it's one of those things that's more common than people realize, but still not super common on the list of stuff people do. lol I'd say it's probably one of the most common kinks there is though. And yeah, to each their own! 😊 For me, as long as it's done with consent and in a way that leaves room for her dignity, it's all good.
I didn't know there was like an actual thing to it, that definitely plays a part in why I like it so much! Thanks for explaining.
Yup- it's an actual thing, all right! : - ). Here's another one - You have a better response when HE touches you rather than when you touch yourSELF, because when you touch yourself, it's what we call a "closed loop". This is why you can't really tickle yourself- closed loop. If someone ELSE touches you, it's an open loop- your body is NOT expecting it. Add a blindfold and that boosts the surprise even more. And be sure to take plenty of "foreplay" time. Personally, my right inner rear thigh gives an instant "lift" to my spirits. But, the thighs, perineum, the WHOLE clit (a wishbone on either side of the vagina, with the bud as the joint of the wishbone, are all loaded with loads of nerve endings just begging to be stimulated. Have him give them 10-15 minutes of undivided attention and you will both be happy campers.
I knew that was a thing but I never thought of doing as like foreplay in way lolm I'm going to screenshot this so I dont forget to try it
Yeah that's the best part lol
Some like force.
@FactualMatters Yeah and some people are just weird.
People are into it for a reason lol
@zaharuh exactly. Do you like it?
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Yeah people are starting to make me think it's a little more normal lol. Personally for me I think it's kind of the helpless/lack of control that I like.
That’s one of main things a Dom sub relationship explores, it builds up trust and gradually explores the psychology behind the kink, there is often more to be found and some can be surprising.Being tied can be a number of things and reasons.The important thing it’s the persons who’s desires who is in control and not the other person.The other person is simply there for being a safe secure space to explore the kink, to see where it leads, it’s boundaries and limits.For example, lack of control and helplessness can also be achieved without the sex and can be more intense.
Hmm maybe I'll have to look into the psychology of it more sounds kind of interesting. Like what do you mean in the last part? What would some examples of that be
There is a thing called Consensual Non Consent This is where the sub gives informed consent one time maybe for a month.Over that month it’s accepted anything goes at anytime.This means 24/7 they have no control as anything can happen (within pre agreed limits and boundaries).
That's interesting lol it would definitely have to be someone I really trust
It really depends on the guy you're with I'd say, they can make it feel like the first time all over again.
Yeah I feel like a problem with a lot of people is that they aren't open about what they like. And yeah I like it when a guy is in control too.
Just say what's on your mind lol but why wouldn't you date someone like that?
I know that feeling 😂
It doesn't always have to be painful or humiliating though.
Lmao that's one way to put it
I'm not sure what you mean lol
I think it’s fine if a women wants to be handcuffed and tied up I used to go out with a girl who liked that lol. But another girl in university, she wanted to get kinky and for me to use dildos on her and I thought it was kind of weird and put me off lol.
Oh okay that makes sense and like I can see why people wouldn't like that.
This is funny 😂
@zaharuh if this the stuff u be talkin about I wonder what stuff u keep a secret 😋🤐
Okay so what if I'm into it and like why do you always make it weird lol
u the one askin the weird questions 💀 dont be blaming me I know you a good girl tho
Yeah it's something I like.
Hmm it's surprising to see someone your age that's into it, naughty little girl 😅
I would think that a lot of girls get into it around this age
Did you ask the question becz u secretely like it or are you just asking for a friend
Yeah I like it.
You probably like to get chocked as well
I do 😂
Love that, do you like to get spanked untill your ass becomes red
i bet she's into more then just that 🤐💀
This girl is amazing
Like maybe I care a little bit but I'm just curious to see like a general opinion on it I guess. And I think you would like it, why not give it a try?
I like this answer lol
Do you have a rape fetish too?
Oh nice! Can you DM me? I have questions on that
I know it is and yeah definitely agree.
Yeah it isn't for everyone
Lmao just because I'm into it doesn't mean im open for every man
I didn't mean you specifically just being general. If a girl is into the bondage then yea I'm into it too let's do it.
Oh okay I thought you were talking to me
@zaharuh well if your into I could be talking to you, I'm rather good at it! 🤭😉
Yeah I can understand why people wouldn't be into it
Don't worry plenty of guys are or at least open to trying it. Just be honest with your partners and it work out eventually
Yeah I'm pretty much always open about it with whoever I decide to hookup with. I really don't like when people aren't open about those things it doesn't make sense to me.
That's good honesty goes a long way
damn I need to find me a girl like this
One of the first things
What does this have to do with rape 🤨 I'm literally consenting
Wrong post my bad (but what I said stands
What you said does not stand lmao and what's wrong with eye contact during sex
Okay well let your rapist get away then
Yeah I guess consenting to being tied up = rape.. 🤦♀️
So explain how what you said still stands then.
So you don’t want to know who raped you
I'm not hooking up with a complete stranger lmao
Rape aside why not
Okay like I've been with people I dont know but I'm not going to get tied up with those people
I don't trust them
What does that have to do with sex
Nothing I said I'm fine with the sex part
You like being tied up too? lol
Yeah softcore bondage is fun and intimate
That's interesting I've never met a guy like that but tbh I think I wouldn't be as into doing that with a guy
Try sensation play. Different textures and materials can be super nice and intimate, feeling along your partner body, teasing the sensitive parts. Hot scented body wax, plush gloves, leather gloves, body oil, running fingernails softly along the skin. There's many to try
How do you feel about it?
I like it