Invest in some decent lube, if you are just thinking of using fingers, then a decent silicone based lube is best.
if moving to toys then hybrid or water based, basically a silicone friendly lube.
The other bit is dilation and not forcing it, learn to tease it and let it gradually relax, applying lube is part of the teasing, be slow and gentle don’t rush it.
make sure you follow hygiene rules and carry out a good clean.
Some like the feeling of entrance teases, some it opened wider, others penetration or a mix of it all.
try different positions see what works best for vaginal and anal play, especially if using toys and penetrating.
after that have fun, it’s your body explore it.
Lots of lube to start! Also, plugs (small to start) to get your ass used to it helps. Start slow and work your way up to more speed and more fingers.
As for the pleasure part, everyone's body works a bit different so you'll have to discover what works for you. I would masturbate like you do normally and then add anal fingering as a catalyst or amplifier rather than the sole source of pleasure.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Get some lube and a silicone butt plug and try inserting it, then masturbating. Maybe it will work for you, maybe it won't.
I mean... if you don't enjoy it don't do it. Anal stimulation feels better for guys.
I use an anal douche and Lube Life lube, and I have a couple dildos
I love it I wear plugs often
Clean yourself out with an anal douche first and get a small vibrator and use lube. That will get you started until you want something bigger up there when you're horny. The vibrator will help you to dilate :)
Start by just rubbing your butthole for a while and then lube up and rub around the area then slowly insert your finger, relaxation is the key, it feels great once relaxed and in the mood, then work your way up to toys
You need to rub your clit at the same time during anal masturbation. Many women get their strongest orgasms that way and that's how they learn to enjoy anal sex.
Start it after you are already aroused from clitoral stimulation. Use lots of lube, and try a small vibrator at a slow speed setting.
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