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Men are really all the same aren't they?

thought maybe I would find someone. I have learned quickly that men just want sex and that's all they care about. Social media, apps, and offline have made it easy for men to just want sex. And they don't seek relationships anymore, I unfortunately get to be aging in this generation full of idiots. Ones who would rather simp after only fan girls, or pay for p0rn when their girlfriend is seeking out their attention. These men would rather follow, make gross comments and be perverts online blasting their wieners all over the internet not caring how old or who the person is. I've seen plenty of predatory videos of men getting caught wanting to meet up with someone who was underage. Doesn't surprise me. I have beautiful women around me, my mom, sister, friends, mutual friends who are models and gorgeous with amazing bodies who have a line of guys waiting for them. I can barely get a drink bought for me, cause I am overweight and social media tells me everyday that I am worthless until I lose weight. That I will never be loved. The only type of guys I get are the meatheads wanting to settle for less for me. Guys are good at s3xualizing everything; example- a girl can't even eat a banana without guys thinking dirty thoughts. I am 24, and I have witnessed myself being ignored. Never approached, never taken out on a date. I take that back, yes I have been on 2 dates with two different guys. One was a mutual friend who worked his way down the line to my most attractive friend then to me. I caught on to it quickly. I have had a boyfriend, but it didn't feel like a relationship AND HE WAS A PERV. I've been used for n/u/des. You can say not all guys are like this, but they are. So I give up :) if you wanna deal with guys who follow half naked chicks on social media and you have to be okay with it then go for it. I am not gonna be treated like a damn joke. I see girls from my town getting cat calls from men. I just wanted someone whose decent. Why can't I find someone decent?
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  • Nope. Not all.

    Some of us just have different personalities.

    Maybe god willing you'll find someone who you click with instantly someday. Even if he's average or a nerd. Maybe even a buff nerd.

    And not buff guys are gay/bi. Buff nerds can be straight

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  • At your age especially that's a fair assumption, but no we aren't all the same. And sometimes it can seem that way, because yes every guy would like sex, but I think there's a lot of times where women will assume that's all a guy wants, without actually asking him. So many women think they know better (seriously). They don't even know the guy, but they know him! Sometimes women are too quick to judge also.

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  • Well in so many ways I agree with you 100% but you put the word all in there so now I can only agree with you maybe 90 2% out of 100 you do know what you're talking about and that really sucks

  • Plenty of guys want a relationship, and not all guys are just looking for sex.

  • Yes we're all the worst.

  • Where have you been looking? Would you consider a man who is also overweight?

  • Sometimes this site has the saddest tales. Men are not all the same. There are good guys out there. They are not hanging out in bars.

  • Yes. Except for me.

  • We don't all want sex but those that do are on those apps

    Those that don't have because of superior intelligence realised no-one wants them so have chosen to work more instead and are working 50, 70 or even 100 hours a week

  • Sounds like you look in the wrong places. Clearly not all men are the same or the human race would be declining in numbers.

    • I don't know where to look lol

    • My first girl was another student at college. My long time wife was house sharing a colleague. My new partner of 3 years was via PlentyOfFish... Lots of places to look.

  • I can't be trusted 😥

  • We're not all the same, but one thing we are, we're all very simple

  • If men are all the same why spend time looking for something different.

  • Okay, obviously that's not real. Next question.

  • It's not easy, but that's like saying all girls are the same too. There are lots of people like how you described but its probably more of younger guys.

  • Because all the men are the same, as long as you believe that all men are the same than you will never find one who is different..

  • I’m a perv in my opinion, but I actually really never hookup unless I want to be with that girl. Date her…. I’ve had a few exceptions but I don’t see myself as a guy just trying to score at all.

  • Well, education levels are diminishing as we speak. Social media causes us to be inundated with everything sexual.
    How many guys your age do you know that live a healthy well rounded life of working, spending time with family and the internet.
    Many guys your age still live at home with mommy and daddy. In fact, it’s at a 150 year old high. Either they’re playing video games or on the net surfing porn. Of course that’s all they want. My advice? Find an older man with values.

  • Don't lump us all together. That's like saying all women are gold diggers. Try to find a guy that's also wanting a relationship. We exist.

  • I am a decent guy. I am also taken and probably wouldn't date an obese girl who has absolutely no interest or no drive in losing weight. If a girl wants me she has to show dedication and weight is something that someone at your age can more easily change than at most other ages.

  • Im sorry you've had a shitty time of it and unfortunately a lot of men are like that. I don't agree with anyone being used for things and I also think you should be clear for instance if your just interested in sex. And no not all men are the same. I've been looking for someone to be in a relationship with and I care little for sex I want the companionship and love. Sex could only be a thing sometime into a relationship.

    • Sex is definitely important in a relationship and I never claimed it wasn't but people especially men obsess about it. I truly give up, and if that makes me an incel then so be it. Cause I'm tired of this bullshit. I don't even get approached, just on apps. But by disgusting men.

    • I understand it's important bit it's not important to me in the same way. That's not what a relationship is about to me. And yeah I know the feeling of never having anyone interested or shit times on dating apps it is what it is unfortunately.

    • Yeah it sucks, oh well. :) I'll be OK. I've learned to be alone all my life so it's no surprise to me anymore

  • No, we are not all the same. Look for DemiRomantics and demisexuals, they need to get to know someone before they can have any romantic or sexual attraction to a person. There are also some of us who are Asexual, who have no interest in sex whatsoever. I think the issue here is without realizing, you look for garbage &possibly abusive men, because you find them interesting

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