Why do girls write no hookup on their tinder bio?

[bestfriend69]

Like what else are you looking for on tinder?

[Slayerrrrrrr]

I don't know brother, I mean, they do know they can take their wholesome self righteous asses to eHarmony and date a chump or two who will waste money on dates for nothing, not me, not you.
But I ALWAYS swipe left on those. Like are we not adults? And wtf then am I having to look forward to? Holding hands and singing kum ba yah? Hell no.😔 I expect at least sloppy toppy on the first date... shiii if she's not tryna fck, I'm looking for that runner up ya feel?

But be patient though, there are definitely girls that are on there for the right reasons and believe me, they'll make it worth your time 😏

[jshm2]

The same reason parents put "baby on board" stickers on their cars.

Do they think they will avoid accidents by doing so?

All "no hookup," on Tinder means is the person isn't just putting themselves on for a quick beefing, at their first match.

[Anonymous]

Because they’re not looking for a hookup lol. Maybe Tinder has been popularized as a hook up app but at its core, Tinder is for dating. Another reason to add that to a bio is in hopes that the guy actually reads it and doesn’t dm us straight away with an unsolicited d**k pic or trying to initiate a hook up.

[bestfriend69]

Have you had a decent relationship because of tinder?

[Opinion Owner]

My current relationship didn’t happen through Tinder, however my cousin and a coworker of mine have both found their husband/wife through there. Not even just saying that, it’s true.

[bestfriend69]

Sweet! How old are they?

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely cool! My cousin is in his mid 30s and my coworker is 24

[juliammm]

Each time I use it, I am ending up in a bed...
Isn't it the point?

[bestfriend69]

Exactly! That's why we use tinder.

[Mary087]

An actual relationship😒

[DonkeyDan]

Tinder was never meant as a hook-up app, it's a dating app, but these days it just mainly hook-ups. I guess there are people that still believe dating apps are good to find a date.

[Miristheiss]

Obviously she is after a relationship and wants to prevent the guys solely after a hook up to not waste her time.

[Tiptoetamm]

Because they are looking for something real not a hookup as they have said

[Gwenhwyfar]

A relationship

[Wise4myage]

They must be confused, lol.

[Twalli]

A relationship

[Seppel]

Relationships

[Anonymous]

While it's considered by most a "hookup app", it's not only that. All different kinds of people on it. That wasn't the intention when it was created, that's just what others have turned it into. People love to make assumptions and believe it to be reality.

[bestfriend69]

You swipe right based on personality, right? 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

You can't really tell their personality from a profile (not just Tinder, but any site or app). And yes I do read them sometimes. But swiping right means there's initial interest, and even if it's only that you find them physically attractive, it doesn't automatically mean "hookup" is your intention. It means you'd be interested to know them more. You're making immature assumptions.

[bestfriend69]

In the end, you have sex. Tell me something. If she likes sex and she's butt naked in front of you asking you to fuck her but you don't know much about her or on a deeper level, will you not fuck her?

[Opinion Owner]

Even if I do, that doesn't mean that's all I was looking for. It means the opportunity was there (as it could be at any time anywhere). If she wants it to go beyond that, am I going to say no because we've had sex, no, I'm open for more than that. But you're also making the assumption people actually meet off of these apps lol. While some do, I think it's far more common that nobody ever meets anyone. Off Tinder especially. Between fake profiles etc. I've even had women admit that they only are on there for the attention, and NO intention of ever meeting any guy. I'd be willing to bet there are more women than not that are just on it for attention and nothing else.

[bestfriend69]

People are opportunistic. The girls who say they are just there for attention are looking for someone who's way above their league. They want what's best for themselves and if they get it, they'll be more than happy to spread legs. That's just how things are.

[Anonymous]

Lots are people are looking for real dating and a serious relationship on Tinder. It’s not just for hookups! And yes, I know about people who met their partner on Tinder.

[bestfriend69]

Real dating is also just a way to find sex buddy.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Well, that's interesting because I don't know too many relationships that last when going by pure looks, which is how Tinder is structured, because it's meant for hookups. Not saying you can't find a long lasting partner there but it's definitely geared towards a platform that can match potential hookup partners. by the way there's also Match. com, Bumble, & eHarmony that are purely dating & make match making. Imagine your parents telling you they met on Tinder 😂 what's society come to?

[Anonymous]

tinder is for hook ups lol

not dating

[Anonymous]

More accurately it's they'd like something serious and they like the *idea* that they're looking for something serious, but if a promising casual prospect comes along they'll take it.

But informing guys about the attention you get by listing "no hookups" is a good way to stop all the good guys from interacting with her. So it's a dumb thing to include.

[Anonymous]

A relationship. I mean, it's a dating app.