Why do guys take a longer time to finish with me?

[Anonymous]

During my first time having sex wirh different guys. I’m not really into it. But I’ll moan and say things but I’m not really loving it. Is that the reason can they tell? I’ll moan loads and say dirty things. And try to make faces which seem like I’m enjoying it.

Then over time when I do genuinely enjoy it they last so much less. When I’m genuinely making faces that I love it and saying things and meaning it.

Or are they just not attracted to me? And then just get used to me,

[ohshee]

I'm not sure what I know for me the reason why I take so long is because I want to please her I want her to feel it deep and I want that intense beautiful hot wet passion to last for a long time to not until I please her is when I'll come but who knows I'm single been that way for about a year-and-a-half so it might even take me 20 seconds LOL know for some reason there's something about your words the way you said I can feel your passion your desire I think I would try to take a long time with you too

[Slayerrrrrrr]

They aren't exciting you enough, foreplay isn't entirely just physical, it's mental too. These fellas need to really step up their game if they wish to one day become men😔

[Asker]

Definitely but somehow girls before me enjoyed sex with them..

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Did you watch?😏

[Anonymous]

They can probably pick up on you being fake vs genuine. I mean, would it be a turn on for you if the guy you’re with is obviously faking his pleasure with you? I think not. Stop that bs. And moaning a lot and saying dirty things can come across as very fake and porn-like.

[FilmGuy93]

It's really obvious when a woman is faking it, if you're paying attention. It's honestly a pretty degrading and crappy feeling

[Wise4myage]

Your lucky, better enjoy it while it lasts.

[noohair]

Every guy is different just like every gal.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Exactly because they like it and are attracted to you they cum faster. No matter how good actress you are if you are doing it for real we will notice the difference.

[Asker]

So you think it’s lack of attraction

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

They are more attracted now. That's why they cum faster.

[Asker]

So they had to get used to how I looked?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

More a less yes.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

You want an advice? Stop pretending if you are not enjoying tell them and make sure you both have fun

[Asker]

So you think initially they didn’t find me attractive?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

They always have. But we cum faster if we know our partner is enjoying herself.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Good stamina. Has nothing to do with you

[Seppel]

Why do you have Sex with Guys If you don't enjoy it?

[Asker]

I only don’t enjoy the first few times

[Jmmmfi4]

Never heard this one before

[MasterKS]

long lasting is really good isn't it?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should have stayed with only one man who would have shared your approach and understand your feelings instead of trying bunch of different guys.

[Asker]

I have stayed with a guy for 6 years and now it’s done. I moved on to someone new and the same thing that used to happen years ago when I’d not enjoy it and they’d take 10-15 mins happened again. I don’t get why it’s so bad for me and clearly them

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you unconsciously expect them to break your trust and so it takes a while for you to develop some levels of trust (aka you don't enjoy it initially). And maybe those guys are registering those unconscious signals and it makes them slowly to stop enjoy it. And unfortunately those two curves (your rising enjoyment and their decreasing enjoyment) meet when it is already too late?

[Opinion Owner]

What about taking it slow next time for the trust and excitement to build up over time?

[Anonymous]

They can probably sense that you're "faking" and not genuinely into it. I know if it were me I would and it would be a turn off for sure.