I’m on my period soon but the guy I’m seeing is asking to see me?

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This might be confusing but I’ve been seeing a guy for 2 months and we talk everyday. I mean like all day everyday and he always says sorry if he takes long and he says how he wants to get to know me more. Although I’ve noticed when we meet we always go to his house and have sex. He lived by himself. We don’t just have sex we talk and chill but I’m afraid that if I’m on my period he won’t wanna see me? I might be overthinking as it’s because all boys I’ve been with have treated me like a toy. Shall I ask him if he minds? I don’t really know how to go about it, I’m scared that I’ll go and let him down since I’m on my period. Shall I try and hint us going on a actual date instead? I don’t wanna scare him off. We haven’t been on a date again yet apart from when we first met.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Doesn't he know that girls have periods?
If I were you, I get together with him. It would be great to just go on a date. Go out, do something together and have fun. If not, you can still go to his house.
If he starts looking to have sex, just tell him flat out that you're on your period. No big deal. If he still wants to have sex (some guys don't mind period sex) but you don't want to, just say that you don't feel comfortable doing that. You can always give him a BJ.

If he is turned off by the fact that you are on your period and aren't available for sex, he's immature and may not be worth pursuing.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Go on an actual date. If he wants sex afterwards just explain to him you're on your period. A decent guy will understand and you deserve someone like that. If he's upset it's a good time to ghost him. He may ask for a hand job or blowjob. You could do it if he promises to eat you next time.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have fairly light ones. I’ve only been sleeping with this guy for a couple of months. He asked to get together I said I was on it. But I offered to blow him. So the night we had planned came along he asked if I wanted to be fucked knowing I had my period. I said he’ll ya. Was cool he was cool with it. It feels better when on my period anyways. So soothing lolol

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

You are way overthinking this. Period or not, you don't have to have sex to enjoy time together. Just be honest. Tell him your period came. That is hint enough that maybe a date night with just dinner and movie is in order.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Just tell him you are on your period. it’s about time he got used to what happens with girls and periods.

Lynx122 · Answer

You're scared he doesn't really wanna be with you so maybe you should listen to that voice.

TurningGraves · Answer

He’ll be fine with it. He knows u can still suck him off.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

Just tell him it's that time of the month. If he loves you, it won't matter.

LadyCroft · Answer

you still have a mouth and an ass

noohair · Answer

This is something that you should be discussing with him. It does not matter to anyone else.

Twalli · Answer

Bo halfway decent guy will. dump you because it's your period this week. Let's say he doesn't want to have sex during your period, then you won't have sex. The thing is that he needs to know why you may not have sex with him this week.