If you have to ask if you're gay (or queer), then yes, it means you're gay. You're not genuinely attracted to men. If a woman is what you want and you're afraid to just come out of the closet, then you need to just wait for the right time to do so. But literally NO heterosexual person, even women, wants to have sex with the same gender. Straight people would be grossed out by having sex with the same gender.
You're a woman who "desperately" wants to sleep with women. You're gay/queer. Part of the Alphabet people. End of story. Good luck with your new lesbian lifestyle. I'd suggest don't keep using and abusing men though, since women are what you truly desire. It's not right to use and gaslight men like that.
Not directed at you but sometimes, sometimes I've read that bisexuals or lesbians may have personality disorders not all of them just some who were more uhh heterosexual attracted.
Not a rule of thumb. Just a suggestion. But you know. Maybe see a shrink or a doctor. But all in all I'd say it's easy to think the hormones are flooding but you know. If you like guys you like guys. or maybe your bored and want to date more feminine men.
Like nerds. Or other feminine men who do non traditional jobs 🙂
If you kiss a feminine or nerdy geeky dorky guy, then you'll know perhaps for sure when you compare it your memory of your said woman's kiss and your other previous man dates
Especially if the nerdy guy in question has long hair or just has a rather feminine face but is 100 percent a man 😎
Lesbian would be only interested in females.
At minimum you'd be bisexual.
Seems like you’re bisexual, but more attracted to females.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What you are describing is bisexuality / bi curious
if you like both guys and girls you are bisexual.
@chrismaster69 "Have your cake and eat it to" is the expression I have heard before. Nothing wrong with that.
you're probably bisexual.
Either bi-curious or bisexual, not lesbian though.
You are attracted to men and women..
You are bisexual.. And an amazing women
You're bi curious.
Lots of girls go both ways. Like half of my good female friends have been with girls. Go with it. You are not a lesbian in my opinion
I have no idea what is going on in your head.
And that is your personal business anyway.
Since you are attracted to men you can't be a lesbian
You may be bisexual though
You're probably Bi
you are weird
Sounds like you are bi
No its name is bisexualty.
You are bisexual
I think that's how us humans are.
Maybe you're bi
But, you don't "become gay". You're born "gay", just like you're born "bi" or born "straight"
Only YOU know this
Well you just need to go the extra mile to find out if you are or not but your probably just bi
Babbbyyyy you sound very much bisexual
And that’s okay
you're bisexual or bicurious
Your future wife should be coming soon
It sounds like you are bisexual, like the vast majority of women.
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