Why am I never good enough?

[btchyvegetarian]

I thought I would find someone. I have learned quickly that men just want sex and that's all they care about. Social media, apps, and offline have made it easy for men to just want sex. They don't seek relationships anymore, I unfortunately get to be aging in this generation full of idiots. Ones who would rather simp after only fan girls, or pay for p0rn when their girlfriend is seeking out their attention. These men would rather follow, make gross comments and be perverts online blasting their wieners all over the internet not caring how old or who the person is. I've seen plenty of predatory videos of men getting caught wanting to meet up with someone who was underage. Doesn't surprise me. I have beautiful women around me, my mom, sister, friends, mutual friends who are models and gorgeous with amazing bodies who have a line of guys waiting for them. I can barely get a drink bought for me, cause I am overweight and social media tells me everyday that I am worthless until I lose weight. That I will never be loved. The only type of guys I get are the meatheads wanting to settle for less for me. Guys are good at s3xualizing everything; example- a girl can't even eat a banana without guys thinking dirty thoughts. I am 24, and I have witnessed myself being ignored. Never approached, never taken out on a date. I take that back, yes I have been on 2 dates with two different guys. One was a mutual friend who worked his way down the line to my most attractive friend then to me. I caught on to it quickly. I have had a boyfriend, but it didn't feel like a relationship. I've been used for nudes. You can say not all guys are like this, but they are. if you wanna deal with guys who follow half naked chicks on social media and you have to be okay with it then go for it. I am not gonna be treated like a damn joke. I see girls from my town getting cat calls from men. I just wanted someone decent but it's too hard to ask nowadays. Why am I never good enough?

[charon142]

if you slightly change some of the sentences you see men have the same problem too
so don't feel bad, there are a lot more people just like you out there that eventually find someone like themselves

[bananathunder]

it will happen for you... there is someone out there for everyone. Maybe start looking at church or a club that shares your interests?

[bananathunder]

thanks for the MHO!

[In_Trance]

The reality is you're not good enough because you don't personally believe you're good enough. How can you expect others to believe a truth that you don't?

[Luckycharms12]

Guys want sex yet but not all just want sex