How do I make myself attractive to girls?

Simpletonmyself1996 Xper 1

I am a very shy quiet person but I do see girls looking at me sometime but just a glance. Am I doing something which is maybe repelling them from speaking to me

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Anonymous
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yes there's something you're doing that really makes them lose hope in you
Being SHY
maybe some of them are into shy guys but most of them need someone that could protect them and be the strong arm for them, and if you can't do a simple talk they know you can't do any of that stuff
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RolandCuthbert Editor
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Confidence, confidence, confidence.

You might ask how do you gain confidence?

Practice, practice, practice.
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loves2learn Master
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1. Avoid speedos
2. Avoid cutting off all blood supply to your penis with a belt
3. Avoid posting pics of 1 & 2 on the internet
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You are welcome. :)
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- Bricealan
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  Loves, you just kill me !!! LOLOLOL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 That about covers it !!!
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Why should I avoid speedos. Let the world know what I have. Belt will remain. Pics will appear for sluts and horny girls to see. You are free to ban me...
- loves2learn
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  Please don’t 🥴
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- Simpletonmyself1996
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  I remember you had calledy tiny dick right😏
dustybiker Master
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Have you tried smiling back at them? You want to be confident, but not cocky. Just be true to you. Relax.
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PrettyPriya Master
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Biggest thing is a personality that shines through everything. 😊
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- Simpletonmyself1996
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  What's the definition of personality. I am always soft spoken I do not disrespect anyone. I am not jealous of anyone
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 "the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual's distinctive character" That is quite literally the definition. It is what makes you, you. That is the simpler version. Now, I like someone who is a gentleman, caring, outgoing and funny. Those to me make a person attractive. While physical attraction is important, personality trumps that. Could be the best looking guy in the world, and also a complete ass. Don't want to date that.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Hmm agreed. Tbh I always see girls meeting eyes with me but m the one who doesn't do anything or they feel he is too simple
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- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 What is your approach to approaching girls? Best way is to keep it simple and casual. Don't need to be super smooth or anything. Be REAL. Be nice and be genuine. To another point, I wish more girls would approach guys, as maybe they have missed out on an opportunity waiting. I have said this many times on this site. 🤷‍♀️ And, as a matter of fact, I was the one who asked out my current boyfriend.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Wow exactly agreed. There's nothing more exciting when a girl approaches.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Would you find me attractive if you saw me and approach me
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 From your profile picture, yes. 👍
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  So sweet thank you..
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 You’re welcome! 😊
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Your boyfriend has no problem if you are here?
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 Lol, Nope! Why would he? He actively helps me sometimes. 😊 Wonderful guy. 🥰
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Ok. But dont you find people here who are more attractive than your boyfriend?
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 Many don’t use pictures. Take me for example, I used to and then it became a hassle. People only wanted to respond because of my looks not my content. So, did away with that bad distraction. Of course there are attractive users, but I am very much happy and in love with my SO.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Pretty priya i am the speedo boy. Finally you saw how cute I am
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 Ok, so look at something too here. Do you see how we had a normal, productive conversation? Imagine that. Don’t have to make it about weird bikini fetishes, right? We can talk like normal, which I enjoyed. So, lesson to be learned maybe…
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Yes I have no problem with decent girls like you. You are extremely sweet and caring but trust me there are girls on Instagram who wear bikinis for the wrong reasons. You are not one of them but I have really experienced.
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 Oh YES! There are many of those on Insta. Don’t get me wrong. I know it is true. They want attention. But, at a beach or pool, perfectly normal. I don’t do it to really show off. I mean, what does a one piece really not show other than my midsection? Right? But, again, you are not wrong that many do it to get Insta followers.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Yes but it's tough to really differentiate. I wear speedos coz I get a confidence boost for being so bare in front of a girl as I lack few things sexually so I get that kick. I am least interested in sex or anything.
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 Easy to spot really. I don’t post such things on social media. Those that do all the time are in it for attention. And good on you for confidence. Whatever works, right? Now, don’t you wish our relationship started out here like this a while ago? 😊
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  I never had a issue with you. I would never want to offend you.. You are the only few sweet people here
- PrettyPriya
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  @simpletonmyself1996 There are. A lot here to argue. A lot angry for whatever reason. A lot come/go.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  My bikini fetish is. In India girls appear in bra and panties only to your husband or boyfriend so when I see a girl in bikini in public I feel how shameless she is but that shamelessness or boldness is sexy in a way and turns me on. It's not about the body it's about the bold sexy slutty way to appear so bare in public. Just to know how a girl feels in bikini I started wearing speedo but I got a instant erection so I thought maybe even girls get aroused but they lie
- PrettyPriya
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  I’m going to venture a guess here. You are from a very traditional family, yes? You also don’t live in big city. By that I mean in a metropolis.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Yes right
- PrettyPriya
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  Thought as much. Things change my friend. Visit Delhi, Mumbai, etc. Whole other world. 😊
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  I have visited delhi and I have met girls on tinder who wear bikinis for the wrong reasons and u have had physical also. So I have a different opinion
- PrettyPriya
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  Fair enough.
- PrettyPriya
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  Ok, you know I have to remove that as a mod, right? Lol English only as they are strict with that. Sorry ❤️
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  Ohhhhhh ok dint know that. it's ok. Goodnight
- loves2learn
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  Speedoboy!!! I was worried something terrible had happened to you after the penis in belt incident. Glad to hear you are doing well and have calmed down your profile pics.
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  @loves2learn ha ha funny if I can't use my dick for sex let me at least punish it. Don't worry m used to pain. It's a fetish can't be cured. Keep your eyes open I might start again🧐
- loves2learn
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  Got it. Eyes wide SHUT! 🤦🏻‍♀️
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  People think being impotent is a fetish 🤣 on this site. I swear I am I can't get it up and girls are size queen I have faced all these in person which has turned into a obsession. I am quite attractive. Girls in my country even list over me in speedo but once they see me naked their whole behaviour attitude changes and becomes arrogant I have seen it all which itself has turned into a fetish. So that dicks going to be punished hard
- loves2learn
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  There are meds to help with that
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  @loves2learn I have tried them they do not work on me including viagra. They sugest surgery or shock therapy. Which I am not ready. Surgery is painful humiliating and reduces size and shock no ways even though they say it's not very painful.
- loves2learn
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  I’m sorry to hear about your plight.
TheBigGuy9 Yoda
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It’s in our nature. Women like a man to come over and say hi. It shows courage, confidence, etc. I know you said you’re shy, but do it. It feels great once you do. Don’t be afraid of rejection either.
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In_Trance Master
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It's really as simple as being yourself
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- Simpletonmyself1996
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  It's not working
- In_Trance
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  Yes it is. The problem is your desperation is what's prominent to everyone around you and that's a complete turnoff to potential women. Stop trying so hard
- Simpletonmyself1996
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  But I think I have a good face which maybe girls might like
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- In_Trance
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  Clearly that's not enough to do it