Why do people like anal sex?

What is a penis doing in there? And who invented this? How did it all begin?
Why do people like anal sex?
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Ahh now I understand why some heterosexual men have sex with other men... it's because of the tightness! So it's true that some men will literally stick their dick in anything that has a hole... that's absolutely disgusting! but please go on 🤔
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  • Oh my gosh I just read this question and I had to start laughing because I could just see a Disney movie being made already booked See Spot Run I have no clue on any of it but if a man can take it it's going to be done. And I agree what is it doing in there. That is one of my number one Hills if a girl ever wants to even stick your finger there it's off limits I will not allow that to happen now on the other hand I have done it to girls and there was two times that have totally freaked me out and that is because my first girlfriend and I were doing it she was on her stomach and I was doing it in slow slow slow slow slow motion and my hands my arms were up in front of her head kind of under her face and I kept feeling something wet hit my arm and I stopped and I looked and I looked over at the side of her face that I felt tears coming down can I stop this is why didn't you tell me it hurt I said I am so sorry and she said no no no don't stop these are happy tears and I kind of went what she said know they're happy tears I love it just don't stop please so I didn't stop a few months down the road I had a new girlfriend and we're doing the same thing we're doing everything the exact same way and I felt a tear drop onto my arm or something wet and I stopped and I said the same thing why didn't you tell me it hurt I would have stopped and she said the exact same words don't stop it's happy tears and I I rolled off of her because I was thinking myself what the hell am I doing what am I doing with her I thought it was the girl before this girlfriend for some reason I'm such in his own I thought it was her and I had to start laughing and realized it was my new girlfriend but they said the exact same thing that I cannot believe it I don't know all I know is that with both these girls they absolutely loved it and it would bring them to such an orgasm but I've never ever felt it I don't ever want to feel it I don't even like going to the doctors and taking a physical I want to turn around and punch the guy

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  • You seem very butt hurt (and ignorant) about anal sex. Pun intended. Are you insecure about having a loose vagina?

    Heterosexual anal sex has been going on for thousands of years, so it's impossible to say how and when it started.

    Why put a penis there? A better question is... why not? I'm betting you put a penis in your mouth, so what's the difference? Anal sex can feel great for both the man and the woman. I have dated women who loved anal sex and got their best orgasms that way. The pudendal nerve complex connects your clitoris and g-spot with your anus so it shouldn't be surprising that it gives you sexual pleasure. Some people just have an irrational mental aversion to it, which is fine, but don't judge those who don't.

    For the first woman I dated who loved anal, it was practically a deal breaker that I wasn't interested. It took me a while to warm up to the idea (because I had the same ignorant attitude about it that you do), but I did eventually and I'm glad I did. It was a very sensual and intimate experience for both of us. Since then I've done it with every woman I've had sex with and they all liked it and wanted it, not just to please me, but for their own pleasure.

    Look, I get that you don't like the idea, but your judgment of others who do is silly. You don't need to like it but suggesting men who do must be gay is childish and ignorant.

    • Um first of all you're the one who comes off as "butt hurt" everyone on this post answered my question withouth a problem but of course there's always that one looking for offense in everything. And no I'm not insecure about having "a loose vagina" I'm a virgin with no sexual experience so of course I'm ignorant when it comes to these things. Are you insecure about having dirty desires? Because you seem really upset for someone who claims to enjoy it. And I never suggested that men who do it must be gay I simply said men who fuck other men do it because of the tightness, your anger blinded your eyes to reason.

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  • "Space, the final frontier
    These are the voyages of the Starship Enterprise
    Its five year mission
    To explore strange new worlds
    To seek out new life
    And new civilizations
    To boldly go where no man has gone before"

    Why do people like anal sex?

    It's basically just this need to explore every... hole.

    • You are basically correct, and the fact that 'that hole' is kinda' hidden, and you have to look for it and it takes some doing to "go there"

    • @Bricealan It's not hard to find. It almost slips in by accident sometimes when the guy hits warp speed. Well, at least knockin' on the door. But that is a bad idea. It does take some prep... so I hear. Terrible things can happen, without. Those little brown spots didn't get onto the bdrm ceiling of the house I bought, any other way. (That was a joy cleaning off, even if the small spots did seem years old. I only told my husband about that after we, ourselves, sold the house and were outta there. He appreciated I left out that little piece of information. Two gay guys owned it right before us.) Let's be real. It's an exit hole. Pretending it's an entrance is playing a very messy game.

    • Yes, I understand that. I always proceeded on "impulse power' - and never dared to make the jump into hyper-space with the 'Warp Drive". We always were on the lookout for Clingons around Uranus, and then went on to explore strange new worlds.

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  • anal is my absolute favourite!!! especially if the guy is big and it barely fits in there. it gets so intense

    • But why? How does it feel?

    • it's so dominating like I can't resist because of the pain so I have to submit and take it until he finishes inside me <3 it always makes me scream

    • I see, thank you 😊

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  • Yep. That's what it's all about. Variety, adventure, a new place to be in!

    However, there's some variety that's not so interesting for the receiver. They can keep this one. Not to say I haven't tried it once. Did. That was enough.

  • Probably for the tightness. But i still see that shit as disgusting and slick closeted if the guy is into it

    exit only
    exit only
  • I don't get it either. Packing poop isn't appealing. I think it was popularized by porn. And of course, there are bisexual guys who love butt fucking.

    I'd much rather churn a warm, wet, slippery, responsive, self lubricating, pink pussy. I want to push through her yielding vaginal folds and feel them embrace my entire cock. I want to flick and rub her cervix with my tip as I bottom out inside her. Instead lube and poop residue, I want her cum all over me.

  • Not exactly true no all girls like it and not all guys.

    If done correctly yes it can be good.

    unfortunately a lot of guys watch porn and just drill for oil, turning everyone they come in to contact against anal.

    Who invented it, Cavemen.

    Sexuality was never really a big thing before main stream religion.

    Also these days being a virgin is very important, so quite a few girls seem to offer the tradesman up instead of loosing virginity.

  • They're f*cked up in the head and perverted. It's as simple as that. At least in the past, people used to be ashamed of being such sickos, though. But we live in a age where being a whore (or stoner trash, or a drug addict, or a simp) is celebrated and shame no longer exists.

  • I love anal sex

    • Why?

    • I like how its different from the vagina and it just gives me the tingles every time it goes in

    • You are a queen kelsey 👏👏👏

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  • It feels different in a good way, and it feels good for the person being fucked in the ass to when done right, if it hurt you that sucks but it's just cause you or him didn't know what you were doing.

    Like really every time I here this question "why do people have anal sex? " my first thought is always why the hell not?

    • Umm maybe because you're sticking your phallus in a place where the stool passes out of the body? 😅

    • I'm not a germaphobe, om not a clean freak, I dont see it as any nastier than sticking it in the vagina, vaginas are prone to yeast infections and they bleed once a month, plus pee comes out near there, and if you or her make a mistake a baby falls out too lol. Anal has plenty of pros.

  • I have absolutely no idea. It’s disgusting. And honestly, for me, I think natural sex is disgusting even though I know it’s obviously natural or else the human race wouldn’t exist. But that doesn’t change the fact that I still find sec revolting 🤢

  • Okay, "Sweetener" you asked for it ! For one thing, it is a social Taboo ! For me, I was asked by a pretty woman, if I wanted to try her asshole ! It wasn't my idea.

    Most of the time, men don't even see a woman's ass hole unless you are fucking her from the rear, and spread her butt cheeks. The reason for the fascination, of penetrating it, IS for one, it is "hidden", recessed inside the butt crack, and it IS very tight, (for a while, until the sphincter stretches out) and then we want the pussy again.

    Tightness, taboo, difficult to penetrate, and the guy get to see just how hard his penis really is, by seeing if he can get it in there.

    Well, is that graphic and explanatory enough for ya? 🤷‍♂️😂😂😂

  • I think it emerged as a contraceptive. I think most women do not like it.

  • I have a slightly larger than average dick so I'm not a big fan as almost every girl is already tight but some girls I've been with absolutely love it. I forgot the numbers but something like one to give percent of babes orgasm from anal.

  • No pun intended, but different strokes for different people.
    Sex is one of those activities that there are so many ways to achieve an orgasm, and how one goes about getting there, it is not at all uncommon that there will be things that one does not want to do.
    Some people do not like giving or receiving oral, some love it.
    Not into bondage, no tying you to the bed.
    As to who invented it, I'm sure that happened a long time ago.
    It could of been accidental, and someone said that feels good, or on purpose and the same thing happened.
    Then they told someone else and for some they tried it and liked it, and for others were don't ever do that again.
    I have been with a few women that loved it, some that wanted to try it with mixed results.
    Me I can take it or leave it, but I aim to please, and aim is important and greatly appreciated when in that area.
    My favorite area is further south, for what ever reason I like feet.
    But that can be a whole other post.

  • Do this first
    Do this first
    • DAMN, 'anon' where did you get that picture? I would want you to do that b4 I stuck my tongue in there though !

    • Roger that

  • I would assume like most things it was not intended... ouch.

  • So the ass is actually a well known pleasure spot for both men and women, and in fact when stimulated can lead to even more intense orgasms for both. That said it's not for everyone, simply because of well, we all know what comes out of there lol.


  • Pleasing all your girls holes showing her she can have orgasms in all

  • I have no idea who invented it but i definitely love it though

    • Why?

    • Maybe coz its a little kinky or maybe coz its just another way of playing with those cocks plus keeps u filled all the way i mean if u r into group sex n all

  • Anus is much tighter, so way more intense pressure squeezing the dick.

  • Gay? No, it's Because it's garunteed to not get you pregnant.

  • I love doing her butt because it’s very tight, she loves it and there is still a taboo aspect.

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