Is there a sexual act that your family/friends look down on?

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Like my family does not believe in masturbation nor oral nor anal. They’ll joke about masturbation but dont expect the teen to ever do it. They think oral is degrading. Period sex is an absolute no-no (which i agree with bofh that one and anal). I love how they always told me “what not to do” but never told me what to do. I didn't get the sex talk til i was like 24 and it was like 10 years too late 🤣 My friends didn't believe in public sex yet they believed in secretly fcking their partner in Mom/Dads bed. Lmao the disrespect… And i remember when they shunned me for trying oral but now a days they eatin ass and all. Like nahh y'all on some next level shit. I ain't into rimming 😂

Is there a sexual act that your family/friends look down on?

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Citizenkirk · Accepted Answer

My parents forbid me too view any kind of porn. even medical books involving childbirth. They were fine with me seeing females topless and even touching and squeezing bare breast when giving a massage, which seems hypocritical of them too me too be alright with an 8 year old boy squeezing a topless grown woman's left boob while I held her right, at a motorcycle rally that my Aunt took us too, seeing nothing wrong with the kids accomadating a request from a nice, friendly housewife-motorcycle club supporter and enthusiast, too pose with her for a promotional picture layout of a calendar and poster promotion of bad ass, polite family motorclub living. It seemed reasonable at the moment, three nice people smiling politely, a family motorclub community rendition of Norman Rockwell Americana that made and 8 year old boy and a 16 year old boy dutifully holding a very large, heavy breast in their hands too support thier community mom-biker bitch role model, in unspoken solidarity if her right to be fondled and manhandled, by two half men biker boys.
It made less sense when mom saw the picture in a photo album years later, about too let my Aunt have a piece of her enraged, outraged, offended feminist movement mind when I asked her why she was going to verbally dress down and criticize her sister in-law after giving me an earful, about allowing a 16 year old boy too be made a part of this scandalous display of adult adolescent behavior, by this oversexed crude, rude female biker gang hoolagen, when I pointed out that she was the head of the PTA at her local elementary school that she was a respected clergy member of Georgia Baptist Church and that she was a supporting an active member of mad mothers against drunk drivers and that she had advocated awareness of breast cancer survivors and the need for preventive self-examination and information for education and better understanding of cancer prevention and men and women, not having to make reference that as a mom she herself would not hesitate to examine my testicles if I mentioned pain or discomfort for tumor or lump. That caught off guard but she said well you're my kids so that's okay and I said well she has a kid a daughter and she encourages responsible self-examination of breast and pelvic region for hygiene and cancer prevention is she being naughty because her daughters and under 18 and she doesn't wait till her daughter is an adult to make sure she's looking after her own health. My mom said yeah but this is different and I said yes different because you're okay with an 8 year old boy holding one breast but you have real problems with a 16 year old me holding the other. She sat down and asked me to refresh her vodka martinis for her, subject dropped.
Basically, enjoying the image of a woman's body when masterbating was taboo and morally wrong, butt therapudic papatation and examination of a real female's breast for her relaxation and medical benifit was not a problem, as far as thier morality social convention radar periphery was concerned.
"She can enjoy it, that's her entitlement, but don't you dare enjoy it with her."

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

THIS IS... the very hypocritical paradox of the Christian West!
A perennial bon mot is: "Monkey see, monkey do..."
and cuts to the quick of the covert desire to hasten the apocalyptic 'Second Coming'.

You would THINK as 'good Christians' that they would WANT to take their cues from the physical world and its paradigms as the HUMANLY-UNABRIDGED observable, MANIFEST will of the CREATOR!

Most EVERY 'sinless' animate lifeform's young act from innate onboard hereditary instinct abridged by the contextual circumstances and OBSERVANCE of their peer's consequential gains or losses relative to their peer's behaviors! Their 'successes' vs. those unfortunate 'failures'. Embracing... and espousing these 'hard won' wisdoms to One's peers anecdotally is the very 'CORE' of 'learning'.

The willingness to DO this constitutes 'teachability'. Yet, there exists this MASSIVE ground swell of prevailing 'culture' to promulgate... and perpetuate deliberate sensual & sexual naiveté' of One's young for as chronologically long as possible... WHILE simultaneously ridiculing that self-same gullibility and zealously socially-prosecuting any persons who seek to 'wisen' these cherished young as BEING 'pedophilic'! (And yet society preaches that sexual education is FIRST the pervue of 'parenting'... UNTIL You TRY to do this! ) THEN, you AS this 'educator'... society deems YOU to be deviant and 'pervy'.
THIS majority-view of 'Sex Education' IS OUTRAGEOUS!

SO, consider this phenomena FROM a naturally-curious child's life options.
Ham-handed self or peer experimentation, ...'trust but verify' acceptance
of One's peers hearsay or FAR less chosen research at your local library and
more-likely the 'lazy' convenience of surreptitious access to witness the distortions of internet erotica!

GAWD forbid that 'modern' society take its pragmatic 'cues' from that lack-of-privacy and 'personal space' which was typical of the 'more primative' tribal extended family's communal "long house" living. Incidentally witnessing "Mom and Dad" and their aunts and uncles expressing their affection bonding by physical intimacies.

Now, you see the unspoken underlying reasons urging the dissuading of permitting children from sleeping in the parent's beds. Once again, we're reminded of the 1995 Kent State University Psych study in which over 800 heterosexual males participated whose irrefutable biological responses disclosed 89% of those male's subconscious biological tumescent erectile arousal to featured visual juvenile erotica.
Humanity's "dirty little secret"~ Calls to mind the Hollywood promotional still photographs for that Jodie Foster period piece 'Pretty Baby'

SISWITHBROTHER2 · Accepted Answer

My mom did not want me to have sex ! She kept a very close eye on me, My boyfriend could come over but we could not go any place in his car. So we went walking around town, I took him straight to the old football field, and up in the announcers booth [[[[ crows nest as we call it ]]]] we went and we had sex their. And a few weeks later having to walk around town to be alone , straight to the old football field for sex. We heard a car and peaked out, it was my brother. Mom had sent him looking for us. He said I am not going top tell mom he told us. He left and we hurried up and went up town and set on a bench and it was a half hour and here came mom. So we walked back home, she wanted us to ride but we didn't. That night after bed time I went across the upstairs hall to my brothers room. We talked and he told me mom had been out driving around looking for us and couldn't find us. He said after I seen you I told mom you were uptown. And she went right up their and then was mad because you walked home and didn't ride with her. My brother told me she don't want you to have sex. Fuck her I said. I told my brother we do a lot of things during the week don't we? YES. Why? You might hate me after I say this. What tell me? MOM would lay golden eggs if I fucked in this house. YES but how you going to get him up here, mom won't let him come up. I smiled and pointed. SIS,, no. Oh come on, please. I finally talked him into it. We undressed and got in bed, and OMG, he was so much better than my boy friend. I had to bite my cheek and tongue to keep from squealing. And then we were done. We laid side by side talking, he said this isn't really right. Yeah but got by with out mom knowing anything. Talking more, I said to hell with it, I am going to sleep here tonight. SIS, we shouldn't. I said we are. I told him to give me a kiss good night and a hug. I sighed, you are still up. Want me take me. He did again. Mom would have shot us both if she knew.

yup_its_me · Accepted Answer

Definitely one night stands, both my parents strongly oppose the idea.
Apart from that, both my family and friends are quite open and accepting about all the usual ones (masturbation, oral, anal, mutual masturbation, or just sex in general lol).

Emii_Urashima · Answer

No, not one that I can think of. My culture is very open-minded and non-judgmental. My mother and I are very close, and I tell her everything I do. She has even bought "toys" for me.

BlueWalker · Answer

My family (including my brother) are a bunch of prudes, so I'm pretty sure they would disapprove of anything more than vanilla sex. lol I'm much more adventurous and couldn't care less.

loves2learn · Answer

Man. They sound like fun haters. My parents ordered me to not have sex before marriage. Fuck that. I did what I wanted. I am a free spirit. I prefer to not have inhibitions and try new things and have fun.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Necrophilia. I was told to stop digging up Aunt Matilda and shaking her bones.

lilyanony1 · Answer

Threesomes, one night stands I wouldn't dream of discussing more, and it wouldn't come up. But my family are Christian so this is a pretty obvious nono and probably anal...

NathanDavis · Answer

My family doesn't know a thing about my sex life, other than I'm straight... lmao

and I don't care about theirs either, I don't need to know... they make their choices in this life, and so do I... no room for criticizing one another on these subjects, lol

DarkCarousel · Answer

I honestly have no idea.

Purplemonkey242 · Answer

Period and anal

Finchie40 · Answer

All that matters is you and your partner do what you both enjoy doing , fuck peoples opinion on things not everyone is going to agree , you like what you like and do what you do is all that matters , people will always try to rub their 2 cents into things and try to ruin your parade , My parents have always been cool as hell when it came down to sex and sex talk , My Dad busted me having sex with girls in the hot tub a few times and all he say was don’t knock her up and shut the lights off when you are done , on his way to bed , All I would say is , You Got it pops I will and then wait for him to walk away and then continue banging her , The next day when I saw my parents again my Dad would say where did you meet that one she had a nice set of jugs on her and I would laugh my ass off and say yea that’s why I brought her home lol My Mom would just laugh as well so that’s what I grew up with pretty much lol My parents were laid back like that , So that’s pretty much the parent I have become with my kids , My kids tell me everything and I love that about my relationship with my kids , as long as they aren’t doing stupid shit is all that matters to me , we are all human and we all do stupid shit but it’s not bad if you are smart about it , I say the same shit my parents said, Don’t have babies , get your shit together first , wear protection I am to young to be a grandfather lol Everyone has their own kinks and what turns them on if you find someone that fulfills those kinks then you can’t complain and that’s all that matters

Titli1995 · Answer

No I don't

Agape93 · Answer

Family, oh yeah. Friends, not really unless its anything unwanted.

t-8900 · Answer

Sodomy and cunnilingus

humpbackjack · Answer

My dad didn’t talk about anything like that he didn’t even cuss and my mom didn’t really talk about sex all she would say was that my peanut was gonna fall off if I didn’t quit messing with all those girls so really they probably looked down on all of it just would never say anything

talka20 · Answer

All those u mentioned... n sex before marrying

exitseven · Answer

Probably anything involving farm animals.

JosyJosy · Answer

I never shared anything about it with them My dad would probably highfive me, he's a very chill dude :p Mom already jugdes people based on how they look, I wouldn't dare to even mention sex