I'll never be good enough?

[btchyvegetarian]

I have learned quickly that men just want sex and that's all they care about. Social media, apps, and offline have made it easy for men to just want sex. They don't seek relationships anymore, I unfortunately get to be aging in this generation full of idiots. Ones who would rather simp after only fan girls, or pay for p0rn when their girlfriend is seeking out their attention. These men would rather follow, make gross comments and be perverts online blasting their wieners all over the internet not caring how old or who the person is. I've seen plenty of predatory videos of men getting caught wanting to meet up with someone who was underage. Doesn't surprise me. I have beautiful women around me, my mom, sister, friends, mutual friends who are models and gorgeous with amazing bodies who have a line of guys waiting for them. I can barely get a drink bought for me, cause I am overweight and social media tells me everyday that I am worthless until I lose weight. That I will never be loved. The only type of guys I get are the meatheads wanting to settle for less for me. Guys are good at s3xualizing everything; example- a girl can't even eat a banana without guys thinking dirty thoughts. I am 24, and I have witnessed myself being ignored. Never approached, never taken out on a date. I take that back, yes I have been on 2 dates with two different guys. One was a mutual friend who worked his way down the line to my most attractive friend then to me. I caught on to it quickly. I have had a boyfriend, but it didn't feel like a relationship. I've been used for nudes. You can say not all guys are like this, but they are. if you wanna deal with guys who follow half naked chicks on social media and you have to be okay with it then go for it. I am not gonna be treated like a damn joke. I see girls from my town getting cat calls from men. I just wanted someone decent but it's too hard to ask nowadays. Why am I never good enough?

[Fireguy17]

Yes it does suck to be treated like that.
Unfortunately there are always 2 sides to technology advances, and social sites have made it easier than ever for hook ups.
My suggestion would be to look into some of the better dating sites, the ones that cost a few bucks to join, and quit looking at the free sites that are mainly used for hooking up.
E harmony, it's just lunch, sites like those.
That will help get rid of some or most of those that are just looking to hook up.
Dating, and finding the right person can be a lot of hard work.
It can be harder than finding a job.
Endless profiles to look at, communicating, it all takes time.
Hang in there, the right person is out there somewhere.
He is looking for you the same as you are looking for him.
Good luck, not all men are idiots.

[OnTheLevel]

What I see...

You have a lot of self-hatred that you are projecting onto others to absolve yourself of personal respinsibility. If you identified your weight as being the issue causing men to ignore you or treat you poorly, lose weight. That's within your control to fix.

I know you won't like what I've said and you'll probably block me, but I'm just telling you the hard truth.

[Koneko911]

Someone's bitter I see

[Spyre]

Yes, men are horny bastards who crave sex. Even ones who are kind, intelligent, empathetic, and loving. It's up to you to figure out what qualities you want in a man and then work on attracting them. Obviously this is harder for people who aren't as physically attractive, for any gender. Just as unattractive men need to work out, make money, learn skills, and constantly improve themselves for a chance at attracting a woman they like, you need to do better if you want better. It sucks and it's not fair, but complaining about it on the internet isn't gonna bring Prince Charming rushing to sweep you off your feet. I hope you find the willpower and self-esteem to attract someone you love.

[Ironic_Method]

You already won't be taken seriously if you say "I'm going to block anyone that disagrees with me" under a different guise. That's not a question and it's not a discussion if you aren't open to different viewpoints and it even may be why you are in the position you're complaining about.

Also, generalizations aren't good for anyone.

[TheFlak38]

women who complain about men asking for sex have nothing else to offer besides their vagina. You're just a sex object.

[FireFox001]

Well, in my experience, it is women who never talk to only one guy. Doesn't even matter of you start dating someone, they will have more options prepared.