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Does humping on a pillow closely resemble sex in the cowgirl/riding position?

I’m sexually inexperienced and tried simulating the cowgirl position like in porn with women sitting on top of her guy and going up and down/ front and back.
The problem is that my clit didn’t quite get stimulated with the pillow when I was doing the motions I’m wondering if this means that I won’t be able to cum in the cowgirl position irl? I’m worried now 😢
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  • Stop worrying, not everyone's bodies are the same.

    Learn how to make yourself cum, then be willing to show your man how you like to be touched. If he is good, he will know what to do.

    I've taken a woman who had difficulty getting off and made her cum 40 times in 24 hours. It's not as hard as most people make it out to be, and much of it is about driving head space.

    • Can you elaborate? Can you stimulate her clit during cowgirl?

    • I can drive head space. I can observe what works on her body. That is the secret sauce, much of it is mental.

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  • You may have to adjust the position so you get the proper stimulation to make you cum. Having a dick inside you will help too. I've found some women can't cum in cowgirl but still enjoy it, then switch to a different position, like doggy style, to cum.

    • Is there a difference between the edge of a pillow versus the guy’s pelvic bone when riding his dick? I know that in porn girls could cum by riding as she sits up, but the only stimulation I felt was by laying on my stomach as I humped on the pillow. Could it just be the pillow?

    • I'm not sure what you are using for a pillow, but I believe a guy's pelvic bone is much more solid than any pillow, so you can really rub your clit into it without much give. Some women I've been with like to finger themselves in the cowgirl position to help them cum. Some do it in other positions too like missionary and doggy style. If you have a lot of money to spend you would probably enjoy a Sybian machine.

    • I want the real thing though. I want to cum in the cowgirl position without having to touch myself.

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  • A pillow doesn't have a penis to simulate the vagina correctly. When a male using a pillow to simulate his penis would work and rubbing the penis feels heavenly good. 💞

  • No I don’t understand why girls do that stuff

    • I just wanted to see how to cum in cowgirl position. How do clits get stimulated in cowgirl position? It concerns me that the pillow did nothing for me.

    • That’s not a problem you don’t need The pillow besides if you get caught it’s awfully embarrassing and people on here have told other people that they have been caught doing that

    • I know lol but why didn’t I cum with the pillow? I’m worried that it means I can’t cum when riding someone...

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  • You were furiously rubbing the edge of the pillow on your clit? The pillow cannot go in you right? Or don’t you cum from penetration? Try humping the corner of a counter or practice riding a dildo.

    • Yeah, I was rubbing the edge of the pillow on my clit and it just wasn’t stimulating me enough. I can’t cum from penetration alone, I need clit stimulation. So the edge of a pillow doesn’t compare to cowgirl in how the clit is stimulated? Why though?

    • No, it does compare. I didn’t know you needed clit stimulation too. Some are able to climax from penetration alone. It helps if you got a long thick penis. You can take it out and rub it between your lips and hit your clit often. A lot of it depends on your psych state too. You have to be interested and in the mood.

    • Can it be done simultaneously? Was wondering if the pelvic bone can stimulate a clit while his penis is going in and out.

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  • lol no

  • Clits are not just the tip they extend around the vagina hole as well, a cock will better stimulate than a pillow obviously. Try riding cowgirl on a suction cup dildo my friend

    • Also i hope those pillows belong to you it would be awkward to sleep on a pillow that had scent of female loin juice

    • Yes, they are mine lol i used the edge of the pillow. Is there a difference between the edge of a pillow versus stimulating your clit on the guy’s pelvic bone when riding his dick? I know that in porn girls could cum by riding as she sits up, but the only stimulation I felt was by laying on my stomach as I humped on the pillow. Could it just be the pillow then?

    • Pillow might stimulate a body but definitely not a cock. Why dont you have a sex toy

  • Pm me and we can chat

    • What for?

  • Are you saying that you have not had sex that much time in your life or you have not experimented with all sex positions yet?

    • Both.

  • It can’t hurt, but moo eats the real deal.

    • I’m being serious though. It’s not a troll question.

    • Sorry for the lame response, auto correct got me. Nothing beats experience, period.

    • I see. Can clits get stimulated in cowgirl position? It concerns me that the pillow did nothing for me.

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  • Not really

    • Why is that?

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