Why does my fuck buddy want talk about other thing besides sex?

[Anonymous]

What wrong with him is he not interested in sex no more.

[charon142]

what's bad about that?
maybe he's trying to know you better

[Asker]

But why it’s supposed to be just about sex at least that’s what you guys talk about

[charon142]

if you think that way then you know nothing about guys

[Asker]

No I don’t which is why I thought that’s what He wanted. Sex no questions that’s the hook up world that it is nowadays to want something more is sad.

[charon142]

so you don't know what is going on in the world around you either! there are a lot of things you should catch up to maybe start by talking with your fuck buddy

[Asker]

In my generation it is more socially acceptable to just fuck around then it is to be in a relationship or getting to know somebody. Oh yes I would want more but it’s just not simply possible he has no time and technically I thought it was just going to be a one night stand

[charon142]

if that's true, then what a sad generation you're where's the actual joy in that?

[Asker]

Yes it really is. I just don’t want to be hopeful for something that’s not going to happen.

[charon142]

hope is the reason we're alive it's the reason we do anything you should give it a try, and even if it fails then what? you're gonna die? no, you just learned a lesson that's it!

[Asker]

I want to but I’m scared. I like him from but I canceled it in my mind that it can be anything more when he said he didn’t want a relationship

[Asker]

“From the beginning “

[charon142]

does his behavior say the same thing? is he just the cold fuck buddy when he's around you or talking to you? have you tried to tease him?

[Asker]

No he’s not cold we haven’t hang out much. And I tease him plenty but here lately he has not beenAdhering to my sexual advances.

[NathanDavis]

what other things does he want to talk about?

[Asker]

Well we talked about his family my family

[NathanDavis]

and it's that so bad... ? or you just want to get down to business?

[Asker]

No I just don’t want to be hopeful for something that’s not going to happen

[NathanDavis]

many things can always happen, that's life

[Asker]

Not in the way I want it

[NathanDavis]

so, you're hoping for some feelings? and not just sex

[Asker]

Yes no maybe just a friendship but

[NathanDavis]

then just go for it... not like it's forbidden or something, just let things flow and whatever happens might happen

[Asker]

Wouldn’t that be force

[NathanDavis]

no, no need to force things... if he wants to talk about other stuff... you can do just that, it's fine

[Asker]

You’re right no harm

[Asker]

What would to talk to him about.

[NathanDavis]

which interests do the two of you have in common... you know, besides having sex together

[chrissykerdock]

when i had a fuck buddy i pretty much knew i was giving a blowjob in 10 minutes after his arrival... we might have a drink beforehand then it was time for me to give head.

[Wise4myage]

I bet he's falling for you.

[Asker]

Ha ha Doubt it