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Did you ever have same gender sexual experience during your teens, and do you think it changed the way you look at sex now as an adult?

I had same gender experience during my teens, not penetration though. Neither of us were gay and both liked women and lost our virginity to girls during our nid teens. But I think it made me look at sex in a more adventurous way, and definitely more open minded about sex now and made me far more confident about sex and my sexuality. I never viewed it as a bad thing and still don't, it was experimentation and adventure back then when we are all discovering ourselves and exploring our bodies. The person I did it with is still my best friend and we've had healthy relationships with women our entire lives.
Did you have an experience like this and how do you think it affected your view of sex as an adult?
Oh by the way I'm really not interested in the homophobic simps opinions on this one, you can keep your opinions in your mom's basement!
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  • I did have a few same sex experiences in my teens. I didn’t realize the significance until years later but one of my friends and I went through a phase where he would penetrate me without a condom (I know, it was a really dumb idea) and then he would finish inside me. We didn’t think much of it at the time but it was, of course, about as far as I could possibly go with a guy. We just thought of it like masturbation where I was just helping out a friend. We did this maybe 5 or 6 times and we just got tired of it. I was definitely more attracted to girls and I think he was too but we remained friends for several years after and never really talked about our full on sexual experiences. I didn’t think it was that big of a deal until years later a girl I was seeing was talking about how she used to experiment with girls in high school and college and asked if I had done the same thing and was shocked when I told her all the things I did in my teens. As for now, it doesn’t really affect my sex life now. I have a long term girlfriend, who doesn’t know about my past, and we have great sex. I have no desire to redo those same sex experiences. I crave sex with women much more.

  • I was in my early twenties. Yes it changed my views.

    • I'm guessing you're hung well.

    • Not particularly but I'm too end of average.

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  • i had same sex experience when i was very young like 13-15 and that was letting other girls eat my pussy but never theirs... then when i was 30 i met a woman she was actually my doctor... she gave me a check up asked me to get nude and wear that filmsy paper robe... i didn't mean to set her on fire but i said she has nice eyes then we made out... gave me her number... eventually i had sex with her 20 times and we went all the way and i did everything a girl could give... meaning i'm attracted to women to a point but i always pursued men... i think the teen experience helped me with this woman... and i knowthe difference but i loved the sex with her... i definitely had feelings and definitely felt great... most things are different with the same sex but it's exciting and sexy as well... i only had one adult experience... tried another but it just didn't click... so i got off that... i mean i'll never go to a gay bar or lesbain bar.

  • I did and it helped me become more open minded. I learned in high school I was bi curious. I prefer men but i do love my women

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  • I mean... yeah. I wouldn't have things done to me, but I did do things to them (mostly fingering). It didn't change anything for me, I'm just into other women.

    Now in my case, I did try kissing a guy once but it felt all kinds of wrong. He was a really close friend and I thought it would maybe help me be ok being ok with guys instead so I'd be "normal" (way before I just accepted that being a lesbian isn't wrong). I even went as far as to try to give him head, but that lasted all of maybe a minute before I had a panic attack and had to stop. I have an intense fear of being penetrated and that experience reconfirmed it for me that it wasn't ever going to be for me.

    I can pretend to be ok with it over the phone with a guy, but irl, just no. Not a chance.

  • That is one experience I never had. Except for one time in college when I made out with a friend for money. Lol. I didn’t feel anything. I have no desire to be sexually active with women.

    • Oh, but according to pink and blue anon accounts on here all women are bi or lesbian 😂😂😂 Have people been lying to us all this time 🤣

    • I know. Blows the mind. Sometimes things on the internet are false. 🤯🤯🤯

    • No way, seriously? So not everything I see online is true? 🤣

  • Never. I remember being in the Boy Scouts when one of the other scouts (I still remember his name) said, "I'll show you mine of you show me yours."

    I switched tents.

  • Yeah I had some lesbian experiences but not sure it really changed much. Thought I was Bi then and know I'm Bi now

  • I had some same sex exoeriences when I was younger, and as an adult I've come to realize that I am bisexual as a result. While I'll always prefer women over men, there is something different and enjoyable about messing around with another man.

    Subsequently as time passed it was because of those encounters and later my willingness to spend as much time nude as possible that I ultimately became comfortable in my own skin.

    • Yeah it didn't make me bisexual not that I wouldn't be open to experiences still now but I'm not seeking then out, but I am more open to sexual encounters around other guys like dps swinging, and guys cumming near me etc, just way more comfortable with it than most.

  • Nope.

  • Yes, I had exactly those type of experiences as an adolescent. Not because of homosexual feelings or a preference for the same sex, but because of the lack of willingness or availability of the opposite sex. Also, those 2 boys were young enough to not yet have any puberty-inducing body hair, which would have caused me NOT to be sexual with them.

  • I never had a homoerotic encounter, but I did have two gay guys make a pass at me. 😬

    And once, I made a pass at a girl, who turned out to be a guy!😳😖 That was awkward, but he was kewl about it. 🤣 I swear he was a gorgeous girl! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • Yeah, tried stuff. Didn’t care for it. I’m confidently straight.

  • one time I swallowed my own head

    • As in your own dick?

    • Naw, the head on my shoulders

    • LMAO

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  • Nope

  • Yeah, it did change things for me. I am not gay because of it, but it made me less hesitant to try things with guys later in life. I am not actually attracted to guys, but it can be exciting to fool around with them. I'd never consider a gay serious relationship, but a little fun was fine when I was single.

  • My first sexual relationship was same sex. I was the fuck toy of an older teenager. I loved it back then but left it behind when he joined the Army. I have been with women only until recently. I decided to find some guys to do that to me again and was surprised that I still love it. I was also surprised how easy it is to find guys to pound me. I'm having a lot of fun but being safe too.

  • Nope

  • As weird as this is gonna sound, I masturbated one boy in high school to torture and humiliate him.

    I never knew someone could cum in 20 seconds LOL.

    But the real torture was after he had cum I kept the tight visegrip and kept at it which made him squirm and squeal like a pig.

    Let's just say he was rather humiliated because he came so soon, his dick was barely 4" and he didn't ejaculate a lot.

    Oh yes it was done in front of several girls and 2 other boys who held him down.

    • Your parents must be SO PROUD of you.

  • When I was in 9th grade I was jacking off with a friend and we ended up exchanging blowjobs (we were both a little high and inexperienced with that as well). While it was a little awkward at the time I did enjoy the sensation of his mouth on me and I was excited to bring him off with mine. I consider myself to have bi leanings and I'm still open to the possibility of oral with guys, though not into them dating wise

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