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How do you deal with a woman who has "Small ass energy"?

I'm dating a woman with no ass basically and she gets so insecure about it. She's always asking if it's attractive and she gets really self-conscious whenever there's women who have bigger butts around.
How do you deal with a woman who has Small ass energy?
In the past when I dated women with big butts they never get jealous if I notice another woman with a bigger butt, some of them will even point her out to me.
How do you deal with a woman who has Small ass energy?
My current girlfriend gets upset if I look at other women and even if I don't, she thinks I am. She doesn't want me watching any porn either because she feels inadequate.
How do you deal with a woman who has "Small ass energy" ?
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I showed my girlfriend this question. At first she stormed off into my bedroom and she slammed the door. After a while she came out and said, "Sorry for having small ass energy." hopefully she learned her lesson and our relationship can be better.
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  • She has insecurity issues and that will bring you nothing but trouble throughout your relationship. You will always be wrong in her mind.

  • She has to be able to solve her own problems and tell her to stop complaining about it because it’s not annoying to you

    • She is annoying me though. I can't even look out the window of my house without her accusing me of checking out the women going by. She's go small ass energy an she's too insecure.

    • I can’t stand a woman like that give her one last chance and be serious and If she does it again then leave. But give her one last good talking to and you’ll have to warn her this is the last chance

    • I'll try. She usually just starts crying and telling me that I'm probably cheating on her.

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  • I think there are men and women that like big butts, and there are men and women that like little tight butts. We all worry that we aren't what the other must want, and don't believe it when we're told otherwise. Men and women both do it.

    How to deal with it? Understanding and time I guess.

    • She knows that I like big butts though, I just try to keep my mouth shut about it. It's her pretty face that I love the most about her and I tell her she's beautiful. If she catches me glancing at hot ass going by she hits me and won't even have sex with me until she calms down about it. Small ass energy is stressful.

    • Kinda left that part out there chief... If she knows you like big butts and then it's definitely playing in to her insecurity. It's like if she is definitely a size queen and you're sitting there average and insecure when Mr. Big Bulge walks by. Just learn to like that tight little ass of hers that makes your dick look bigger and if all else goes smoothly, she'll get comfortable in time and know you won't stray for a big booty. (PS:.. Sorry if I'm not taking this as seriously as it could be taken, but the "Small ass energy" does have me still giggling.)

    • I do like her butt just fine, I tend to do more missionary or cowgirl positions with her because I want to kiss her or see her pretty face more. She knows my previous girlfriends were more well endowed in the booty department and I like to watch big butt Latinas in porn, so that's why she knows that I'm an ass man. Of course she won't let me watch any porn now. I'm thankful she's so cute or she might have Ugly face energy and Small ass energy. I would probably be locked in the house.

  • There's nothing you can do about that unless she was to change her shape through diet, exercise, or surgery.

    • Yeah, she told me that she used to binge eat cheeseburgers and ice cream when she was in high school trying to get a bigger butt. She said that nothing works and now she's difficult to be around especially if we're in a shopping mall or something. It's like I might as well walk staring at the floor because I just know she's going to see a woman with a great ass. Then she's basically gonna interrogate me while eat lunch to see if I liked it better something? She's just obsessed. Small ass energy is real and she gets on my nerves to be honest.

  • No porn is fair if she is available a lot, but this level of insecurity is one of the few things I personally wouldn't have much patience with. I would probably try to proactively compliment her for a while before she even manages to ask, to the point that it becomes so ridiculous that she asks me to tone it down a little. And if she dares to accuse me of checking someone out even if I make an effort not to, I would let her know quite firmly that she needs to top doing that. If gentle pressure doesn't help after a while, I honestly wouldn't wait more than a few months for her to slowly lose the insecurity. If seventeen well meant compliments a day is seriously all she needed, that's something that can be provided. But somehow I doubt that would help at all...

  • Well, how much energy does an ass need? It just sits there while the rest of the body does everything!

    • I just mean her insecurity basically. She's much more controlling and she's always irritated when I look at other women. My past girlfriends were never like that and I think it's because they all had big butts, and nothing to be worried about.

    • I don't understand the link or the attraction to a big ass. My ex-fiance had a normal-sized ass and NEVER had such issues over the 10 years we were together!! My first girlfriend had a fat ass and with her, it was the other way around, SHE was always chasing after other guys!!

    • I think she grew up in a time when Jennifer Lopez and Britney Spears were very popular and round butts were the height of sexiness for women. She said that her best friend got so much attention for her big butt and she got teased for having no ass. Then she noticed that I watch porn stars with round asses and my exes had booties. She's just insecure.

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  • Bro.. Tomorrow take her to do something sporty..
    If she has average or small titties...
    Play lawn tennis with her or take her on a hike..
    Do Something that she would enjoy with her..
    Physical work..
    And after when you are done and She is having great time..

    Tell her.. "I wanted to show you the stuff that girls with Huge ass are missing out of.. They cannot do such things with me.. An that's why I am with you."

    @imthequeen remind me if we are having a summer together... I would totally like to see you in action playing badminton or tennis with me..

  • I’d eat that brunettes ass all night long and twice for breakfast.

    • I definitely have, but it's her own psychological problems. It's similar to women who want breast implants. No matter how many times you tell her that you prefer natural, she's gonna do it anyway because she wants them.

  • Her insecurities have NOTHING to do with her butt.

    • She's a very beautiful woman, but she only gets insecure about attractive women with bigger butts. She's scared that she's not enough, so she seems to lash out at me and fears getting cheated on.

  • Assure her that I love it the way it is and am not even attracted to big butts in the first place.

    • She'll know I'm lying about not being attracted to big butts. I do tell her that her butt is fine and I'm not going anywhere.

    • Sorry, I don’t know what to do about that. I’m just talking about what my situation would be.

    • Update: I hope she’s actually feeling more secure about her butt, as apposed to just guilt for letting you down.

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  • Simple, I don't date small ass women. Just not my type.

    Also, your update is fake.

  • There are ways to get her ass bigger if she's willing to do it.

    • Fake asses never look natural though.

    • Natrually. Peyton Roi List did

    • It's more about her attitude. Small ass energy is hard on a relationship.

  • Try to convince her that I am perfectly fine without a lot of junk in the trunk.

    • I try to always reassure her that she's great and has nothing to worry about. I sometimes think it's her own insecurity from a lifetime of admiring her friend's nicer, rounder butts.

  • Always asking?

    Fuck that... I'll tell her once and once only. After that it's annoying for both of us

  • Bend her over and beat that ass up right

  • I don’t date girls with small butts so I wouldn’t know

  • Small ass is best ass

  • Live it love it love it

  • Marry her. I love a small butt.

  • She needs to work out her glutes. There's plenty of excersizes to do to tone that booty and make it look more round. Keep assuring her that she doesn't need to change for you and that you like her the way she is BUT that if she really does want improvements so she can feel better about herself (and do it purely for herself) there is a way trough excersized to get a nicer shape.

    • She says it's hopeless because her whole family is skinny, with flat asses. She can't gain weight, and if she does it just turns into a pot belly.

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