What would you do if your boyfriend told you sometimes uses a dildo on himself?

What would you do if your boyfriend ain't confidence told you that he masturbates with a dildo sometimes and that he likes the feeling but he isn't gay.
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  • I guess it would be time to sever the relation with this guy.

    Somebody that talks like that cannot be a serious person and therefore more of a toxic person to me than someone I can trust.

    He may not be gay according to your question but he surely does have some unhealthy tendencies. I would have none of that nonsense and rather than to wonder if that person is the right one, I would much prefer to stop the relation while it did not harm me too much.

    Sometimes, a hint can reveal a lot about the deep psychological issues of that person.

    • That's what I figured. Lol. It seems like it would be either a difinitive "fuck off weirdo" or "can I fuck you with a strap on" are the only two answers. Lol. Thanks. I could never tell a girl this, but I always feel like I'm hiding something from her by not telling her. But I'm not gay. Don't like men AT ALL. and would never do anything with a guy. I don't know why I would have a psychological issue. I don't think I do.

    • You know, your sexual tendencies may not be as obvious as you might think. You may only realize later in life that you have a liking for another gender; something you totally deny right now. But you should talk to your girlfriend about it and see how she reacts. She may be open to your wish. I know I would not but this is me...

    • Well I do understand what you're saying and I'm not just blowing it off nonchalantly and trying to convince myself of something that I want to hear but I have delved into this and thought about this for multiple angles for a while and I'm not convincing myself that I'm not gay or I don't have a secret thing for guys I'm not suppressing or closeting anything of that nature. Not attracted to men and I can 100% promise that with all of my heart. If a guy ever made a move on me I'll busting squaring the teeth knock him out cold like it's not even a maybe when it comes to that. I'm pretty picky when it comes to women but I don't know why I'm picky because I don't really have many women to choose from. And the whole girlfriend thing was hypothetical I'm single and I have been single for 5 years and I haven't had sex in that long either:/ but as a result of that I've had to use masturbation to hold myself over and that gets pretty boring pretty quick. I mean I wouldn't like the feeling of it if anal penetration didn't feel good so I can't control the fact that it is pleasure some and I'm pretty certain that I'm not the only guy who's ever been through this dilemma. I mean some women like anal and some women don't but that doesn't make them a lesbian or not but at the same time I do understand your point and that's why this is something that I'm kind of not very adamant to be outspoken about. But yeah if I ever do find a girlfriend this is something that I will most likely not ever bring up to her but if I am with a girl that is like friends with benefits or one night stand or something like that I probably still won't bring it up but it'll be more of a possibility. Maybe I just really need to have some sex that bad that I forgot tired of just regular masturbation

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  • Hmm maybe talk to him about whether pegging might be something to try out.

    • Would a woman not find pegging as a turn off? Like from a guys perspective asking to be pegged is something that we're terrified of being laughed at and our girl thinging we're gay or something. And we're almost certain it will freak her out and she will tell all her friends her boyfriend likes it in the ass. Lol

    • Just like everything else, it depends on the person. Some might be freaked out while others are interested and some are really into it. A few years ago I would definitely not be into it. But I'm starting to be a bit curious.

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  • Just knowing him as well as I do, I would be shocked.

  • Good for him. His P spot (bit like women's g spot) is up there, so some dudes do enjoy the butt stimulation