What if the man was raped, and had supernatural abilities attached to their virginity before he had sex like what happened to me?
I’m really sorry for what you’ve gone through, were you raped by a man or woman? I don’t think it counts because If a person have their first sex with someone they choose, wouldn’t think like the caption, but why don’t you sue the raper?
Because it happened over 10 years ago and they probably don't live in the same area as I was.
You are very right, women don't like unexperienced men in relationship, I lost my virginty at 16 but latter on I had sex with many girls, I got experience, so this experience helped me lot in my relationship and sex life
Everyone should be able to do whatever they want.
Girls who sleep around are going to offer a different kind of relationship to those who don't, same with men. But it doesn't mean one type of sex life is worse or better than the other. Except for girls who don't wear thongs. Those are the worst.
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Actually I had supernatural aspects and abilities attached to when I was a virgin until I got raped.
cultural pressure and lack of options tbh
@t-8900 Yeah, I know.
The first time you open your vulnerability up to someone is very sacred it will shape the rest of your sex life in my opinion.
... well, we have very different opinions then, and thats okay
If I were to be married to a man who waited until he knew me to be with me, honestly there is no greater gift he himself could give. Id be so happy.
No but women make a big deal about only wanting experienced men.
I know some people that had supernatural abilities because they were virgins. As soon as they had sex the first time, the abilities went away. I know this because I was one of them until I got raped.
I get that. I always wanted to keep my virginity so I could meet a unicorn or make a blood contract, but then I was raped too
It was beyond being a social construct for me because I had supernatural abilities attached to being a virgin until I got raped before I turned 21 back in 08.
Sorry for what happened, however you never had supernatural abilities.
Yes, I did, and people of mine will tell you the same thing, and there was no drugs either.
Actually there are some people who had supernatural abilities because they were virgins. I was one of them until I got raped.
*gay* not hey.
Unless they had supernatural abilities attached to their virginity that got taken away because they lost their virginity like I did before I was raped.
The funny thing is I actually wouldn't give 2 shits if a male rapist fuck my ass.. no I'm not gay... But it wouldn't traumatize me like all girls who have been raped say they have been "mentally scarred". I literally wouldn't give a shit and I'd jus Carry on my life like nothing happened since virginity has no value or importance to me... Girls put too much importance and value on something that really isn't that important and really doesn't matter... There's 7 billion people on earth... Most of us will lose virginity one day.. you really think your so special jus cos you did?
I really don't care
Exactly. It's not a big deal at all. I feel no different before and after... Exactly same person. It's not some kind of big life changing event... It's "meh" whatever
Exactly gal please go preach to all the other girls to stop pretending ot is sacred thank you… xoxo
Then there are people like me who had supernatural abilities because they were virgins, until I got raped.
I do believe in the aspect of if someone goes 7 years without sex that they are a virgin again as well.
I don't. That person will alwase know how sex feel
I had casual sex once, instant regret. Not telling you what to do just my experience with it. Felt cheap and dirty after. If I had been in love it would have been an amazing experience
@t-8900 yeah. Honestly, it's more to prove something to myself. That I was right about me preferring sex with someone I love. I've only ever had sex with one person so I'm not sure what other types of sex feels like
Follow your heart, not societal trends. I wish you happiness
@Gothrocker i support and admire every virgin girl who's waiting till marriage...These are the real ladies!The virginity of a girl is very important and not only because of that skin, it's because it shows the mentality of a girl and doesn't makes herself cheap...
@TonyMetal___86 personally, I waited until the right partner came along and gave him my virginity because I loved him. We've spilt up now but I don't regret him being my first
nor should you. it's not about that it's about being in love when you lose it, it's that simple. You made it meaningful and that's what is admirable about it.
@Gothrocker at least you did what must be done, we aren't god to know what's going to happen to us in the future...I had the same situation as yours and since we split and divorced i never had sex and won't have it till i get married again and that's IF i get married again...
@TonyMetal___86 mad respect. so many think all of us guys are just pigs and nothing more.
@t-8900 thanks bro, time for them to learn that we aren't... some men are just REAL MEN and these guys should be taken as an example to what men are and not bunch of stupid males who are like animals and buried our reputation under sh*t
Hello. I’m Rachel, nice to meet you and I do agree with you. As a Christian, I understand that my body is not my own. Purity seems like it holds you back but it’s there to protect you. Plus I’m so glad I have healthy boundaries for myself.
@Animefan94 good to hear...
It's good if a man never had sex before marriage but surely it ain't important or even compared to a woman's virginity because being a virgin is more for a woman than a man...
I disagree, Tony. Sorry
@Jamie05rhs it's okay no worries 😊
I hate to break this to you, but some people have supernatural abilities because of being a virgin. I was one of them until I got raped.
I lost too much of my spiritual being because I didn't have sex with someone that I wanted to be with the rest of my life. They took way too much from me. I can attest that supernatural aspects can be tied to virginity because some of my greatest supernatural qualities went away when I was raped.
Actually it is sacred for the ones with supernatural abilities attached to their virginity like I had until I got raped in 2008.
drugs are bad mkay
There was no drugs
But what if one side had their virginity stolen from them like what happened to me back in 2008 just before I turned 21 when I got raped by a woman?
First of all I am extremely sorry and empathize with you that you had to go through such an experience if it's real that is. I think a person has the right to seek a virgin partner as long as that person doesn't have any problem with your non virginity. If the other person knows about your not being a virgin and is okay with it, I think that solves the problem. If that person is okay with it, who are we to say anything. I third person doesn't have any say on this matter. However I think being honest I important before getting involved with anyone. That's it
My virginity feels sacred to me... then again im not a slut who lets every man inside her so maybe thats where our differences stand.
@spookywashere women who sleep around don't allow you to value your virginity. How dare you value it.
I am proud of you Spooky chan, you are a treasure that needs to be preserved.
@marish01 This comment made no sense at all. I value my body, and I value my virginity. I choose to not sleep around because it's dirty. Do as you wish, your body your choice... mess it up all youd like.
@spookywashere I was mocking sluts
@marish01 ohh i see!
There are multiple people that had supernatural abilities because they were virgins, until they had sex and lost their abilities on the spot. I know this because I was one of them until I got raped.
Sorry to hear about that but i didn't understand what does having super abilities have to do with being a virgin 🤔
Uhm... what? "her pussy is still closed" ... like... what? It's not a sewn shut part of the body, you don't rip it open... And please tell me what sort of transformation is it you think a woman's body goes through after sex?
@Little_Bumblebee by that i meant about the vagina's hymen...Now about the transformations, just google it...If your going to argue with me, please spare yourself cause you can do what ever you want and i don't actually care, it's just my opinion and i'm too tired today for an argument!
Not every woman even has a hymen and those that have, differs how it is. The transformations are more like her system awakening.
@Little_Bumblebee the majority of girls have this hymen which proves that a girl is virgin but in the end of she doesn't have it, she knows if she had sex or not...The virginity of a woman means that no men had touched her or penetrated her before...
The hymen can break before she has sex due to sports activities or other things.I do know what virginity means
@Little_Bumblebee like i said if it breaks but the girl is still a virgin, the man can feel it and notice it...Also if the girl is honest she will tell her man that no saw her body naked before and surely no one had sex with her before...She must tell him these things so that her husband becomes aware in honeymoon what to do and to be gentle on her and make sure that she's feeling good and he have to assure the warmth, protection and lots of love mood before taking her virginity so she won't be scared or hurt...Anyways a wife losing her virginity to her husband is easy cause she knows that she's on safe hands and that the man who's there with her is her husband and family 😊
The Madonna whore complex doesn’t apply here.And no one thinks sexual defines your whole personality, but there are such things as dealbreakers.
@AllThatSweetJazz The madonna-whore dichotomy is the same thing as 'sacred as a woman's virginity' ofcourse it applies
It refers specifically to not being sexually aroused by a committed partner, which doesn't apply.
@AllThatSweetJazz Thats the madonna part, the whore part is judging women for having sex. The whole idea is that there is a double standard that weather women loose or keep their virginity we can be criticised. Its not that men never get criticised like this but its pretty uncommon, and I think if we encouraged men to keep their virginity it would lead to that double standard for men as well
"the whore part is judging women for having sex."No, it's not."The whole idea is that there is a double standard that weather women loose or keep their virginity we can be criticised."It's not a double standard, it's two different standards for two different things.The "whore" part refers to being attracted to the degraded woman. Which is the opposite of what's being talked about here. The inexperienced girl is the subject of attraction -- the opposite of what's asserted by the "whore" component of the complex. But not only that, she's also the subject of love. Being subject of both love and attraction breaks apart the entire idea of the complex.What you're really talking about is discrimination myths, not the Madonna-whore complex -- it's just a buzzword people throw in to make it sound well thought-out. Best not to parrot them.
@AllThatSweetJazz Thats wrong. Thats not what that means and I would encourage you to at least look up the wikipedia page of someone before trying to act the intellectual superior
Okay, fine."In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna-whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship... Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)."--Wikipedia, The Free EncyclopediaSo, we good now?
@AllThatSweetJazz The Madonna-whore complex is not Madonna-whore dichotomy. Read the page on Madonna-whore dichotomy, its a sociology term not a psychoanalytic one
The dichotomy version is a feminists term, not an academic one.Like I said, it's still just a buzzword people throw in to make it sound well thought-out.As with most feminist ideas, the buzzwords are a mechanism to add pretense as a mask for being wrong. It's just them complaining and being resentful about nature.Please, don't give me the business about looking up Wikipedia when you're acting like feminist buzzwords are more substantive.
@AllThatSweetJazz I think given your trying to claim what I'm saying is fundamentally wrong its up to you to prove thatIts not very academic of you to make a claim without evidence
Technically, I have the null hypothesis. So no, I don't have anything to prove.The claim in the *affirmative* requires evidence. If you're the one claiming something exists.
I think whats more common is a man waiting for his wife, rather than a girlfriend.
You watch too many movies no man cares about that shit. Only women care about wanting men who fucked with as much women as humanly possible. They love that.
@Hallo626262 preeeetty sure it's only immature bathroom jocks and virgins who think that's something to brag about. I've never heard a girl say "yeah my new boyfriend, he's slept with so many girls its so hot!"
@Hallo626262 Ahhh…. well…. history is full of things that show men’s obsession with female virginity. Your choice to ignore it does not mean it doesn’t exist.
@OrallyFixated Well the current situation doesn't seem to be that way.
I do, i support and admire every girl who is virgin and waiting for marriage, these girls are golden 😊
@TonyMetal___86 yes it’s a great thing but it would nice If the guy who wanted virgin women were also virgin too then there marriage would be pure
That's true, i did that already but unfortunatly it didn't last, been alone since 7 years...At least i waited till marriage and i'm a man too! Never had sex since 7 years and will never have it again unless i marry a wonderful a lady...
@TonyMetal___86 that is beautiful thing I don’t see too many men do that
Yep it's very rare, it's just my choice, it's because i want love before sex, cause sex alone makes someone feels like an animal, only sex with love is what makes things amazing and this relation in my opinion should only be done between a husband and a wife, i just feel comfortable like that...It's because after sex i would love that we cuddle and wake up the 2nd day glued to each other, i want the whole package and not only sex...This person should be my wife and a part of my family and not any random girl...
I like your belief
Can you explain more about why you say that?
I just don't see why some label on if you've had sex or not should hold anything over your value as a person. Half of people's problems seem to stem from "losing it" too early, too late etc and over romanticised notions on what a first time should be like, or other unrealistic expectations.
Some people have supernatural aspects and abilities because of being a virgin is why I mentioned what I mentioned.
XD XD supernatural? riiigght
I know this because I was one of them until I got raped and it went away.
I disagree :) But I can still respect your opinion! I love sharing different perspectives
There are some people who had supernatural abilities because they were virgins, until they had sex, and those abilities went away. I know this because I was one of them until I got raped.
Uhhh... like what...
@SenseiSeptrad What kind of drugs are you on?
No drugs Rachel chan, and if you want people to take you seriously, then you need to spell people's names right and use suffixes on the end of people's names like an etiquette based person that people need to be.
My bad on the spelling error, I released it only after I sent my message... But you're saying you had powers just because you were a virgin? 🙃 Boy I sure wish I had powers before I lost my virginity. 🤣 I woulda never lost it lmao.
It is also something that you have to cultivate along the way too.
This is like some 4chan wizard stuff man... like how 4chan peeps say you become a wizard when you were a virgin for 30 years or something
I know some people who had supernatural abilities because they were virgins. When they had sex the first time, the abilities went away. I know this because I was one of them.
Unless you don't believe in Jesus, everything stolen or lost can be restored.I never wanted to have sex with anyone but my wife. I didn't calculate for girls who initiate sex. I imagined only guys did, so I built up walls for just me and my weakness was a girl who initiates it.After the sexcapades, God's mercy restored everything I lost or could lose in a greater fashion.
Actually, some people had supernatural abilities because they were virgins. When they had sex, the abilities went away. I know this because I was one of those types of people.
Exactly ikr i think I’m in love… ?
Let’s meet up and prove to them it’s not that sacred gal