Should a man's virginity be considered just as sacred as a woman's virginity?

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Give me your own opinion that hopefully doesn't adhere to the patriarchal society clauses, and be respectful.

Citizenkirk · Accepted Answer

Too people who consider that sort of thing sacred, definitely. My circumstance of not putting my penis into a girl's vagina ended long before a girl tried wrapping her lips around my shaft, and even that wasn't such a significant milestone after all the attention my genitals received from eye's, fingers, and tender, playful, and sweet kisses applied to testicles, anus, ears, and exterior of penis in erected and flacid state's, too address owees, education, recreation, disciplinary actions, hygiene and developmental health care, and alterations of clothing and selection of new clothes at store.
The only thing that I can say is truly memorable about any of those milestones, was one of the first three girls too practice B. J. s on me chewing on my penis, not sure what was involved in the process of giving head. If beef jerky link's could talk, we could exchange horror stories about those experiences 🥺.
Losing my virginity only sucked because it was without my consent. Waking up to a naked girl that is impaled on your morning wood without asking first, will make most boys uncomfortable with being violated when unconscious, if they have any amount of self-respect to speak of. Other than her helping herself to my equipment without my knowledge before the fact, is the only significance I associate with that experience. I believe that when that happens to a woman she calls it rape and of courts generally agree.👨‍⚖️💥👩‍⚖️💥 The court is now in session.♂️⚖️♀️sexual milestone-violation💥
Issue 🤕♀️, or non-issue 🤕♂️? Gender specific criteria unequal and irrelevant for victims of♂️🤕 social status. Both applicable to review in sexual milestones loss of virginity vs. sexual assault nightmare of stolen virginity.
Illegally appropriated virginity status subject to 1950s and 1960s conventional authoritative wisdom of administrative review, where confirmation of modesty and safety entitlement status too gender specific qualifications must be met and acknowledged in spite of Bill of Rights requirements to the opposite being in effect until such constitutional amendments nullify void if relevance and authority too that effect of equality and fair, unbiased enterpretation and determination as written in legislation primary authority of THE LAW OF THE LAND🗽🤕🇱🇷?

TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

Well sacred is quite a strong word, but I do believe that just like women, men shouldn't toy with sex like that. I've made a the following take that explains why bodycount matters. And even though this is mostly written towards women, it actually applies to men to a degree aswel. The hard truth is that the effect of sex on a man is different than that of a woman. So sex has more effect on women than men in terms of psychology.

Pumpkinspice009 · Accepted Answer

Nope, men and women aren’t supposed to be alike in every aspect! As a woman I don’t like inexperienced men, they don’t appear manly and dominant to me, which is must for a man, on the other hand, women want the whole attention! They’d even get it from men in the streets if really want to, a woman who has had sex with countless men, how can be a good mom to their children? Also when women have sex they catch feelings for the man their having sex with, but men don’t, so see, just because women’s virginity is considered to be important doesn’t mean men’s should too.

hi_it_is_me123 · Accepted Answer

I personally prefere virgin men and male virginity is important for me.
I am done how manwhores try to justify their whorish behaviour with keys/locks and justify with this slut-shaming women too. Nothing wrong with being a hoe or a promiscuos person but it annoys me when these guys are so hypocritical and try to justify their bs with a bs metaphor about keys and locks lol. You ain't a key. By this retarded logic virgin men are like new fresh dildos or not used lollipop or candy and non virgin men are like second hand dildos or used up goods.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Guys should try and pick their first person carefully too.
They're often so frustrated, so curious, they're dying to 'get it over with', have the experience. But why not choose the person carefully and create better odds of it being a great experience?

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think it’s very attractive if a guy is inexperienced because I want a guy who appreciates me and does not compare me to others.

PenkWing · Answer

Virginity is a completely irrelevant notion. It’s only “sacred” as a cultural measure to exert control on the bodies of women, and to ascertain paternity. If you want to get rid of patriarchal principles, forget about the whole thing.

charlean · Answer

No it shouldn’t be, because a woman’s virginity shouldn’t be viewed as this sacred thing either 🤨. Sure, it’s an important event to lose ur virginity but calling it sacred just doesn’t feel right

JennyDunne · Answer

Defiantly no. The madonna-whore dichotomy is so harmful, I don't think men should have to deal with that as well.  I like sex as much as anyone, but it doesn't decide someones whole personality

OrallyFixated · Answer

If women fantasized about taking a man’s virginity like men fantasize about taking a woman’s, then it would be considered just as valuable.  As a woman, deflowering a man was never a goal for me.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I don't think either one should be considered "sacred".

Honestly, not doing something isn't really a cause for celebration, and being a virgin/non-virgin shouldn't really have any effect on a person's potential value. You're not "used" if you've had sex, so conversely, you're not "pristine" if you've never had sex.

It's simply an outdated measure of a woman's worth, from back when women were considered little more than property, and it's far, far past time for people to stop using it as a measure of a person's value.

Mollynotgemma · Answer

Yes! How many people have had sex with a virgin and never known? The man I lost my virginity too would not have known I was a virgin. Shame. I think it would be amazing to be able to announce you are a virgin the first time you have sex

Esten · Answer

Virginity is old dumb concept, nobody should care if you had sex or not. Nothing sacred about it, when in reality, many people have sex pretty young, quick and bad. So I do not see anything "holy" or "sacred" in that.

kqueen · Answer

I don't think virginity should be considered sacred for anyone. It doesn't really make sense in the world we live in

SnakeBoop · Answer

Neither should be considered "sacred"

Tyrael · Answer

Nope. It's not even sacred for women.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Both are just social constructs and no one can really provide if someone is or not.

For examples 2 lesbians, 2 Gay Guys.

Both those groups can decide they are no longer virgins without a penis going anywhere near a vagina.

a guy or girl could turn round to each new partner and say they are a virgin, no one apart from themselves would know.

the entire concept is down to putting worth on someone, which is wrong.

InventorofWarp · Answer

I hope so, I've guarded myself carefully and value it a lot. I want to give my woman everything including knowing that only she gets to see and feel me and I'm loyal even when she's not in my life. I want it to be something that matters to her as much as it does to me.

Nightless · Answer

Some men do. But to answer your question, yes.
Or at the very least, it shouldn't be shunned for doing so. Hell, both men and women and often shunned for doing so nowadays. It's rather sad honestly.

But naturally, being one of the few men who do so, of course I would say that right? I'm honestly much more curious about those who have not and wished they had. But I suppose that's a topic for another time

NewgodX · Answer

Are you from earth?
You don't seems to be from earth?
Only female rights and lives matters nothing else

You should check the tweet allmenmustdie or something like that you will get a good clear picture of reality
Or you can check the laws perhaps men actually don't have much safety when it comes to laws too

Shizunk · Answer

There are biological reasons behind it, so no, it's not the same. I personally do not care about virginity per se, but I do think a low number of different sexual partners is desirable in both sexes. If for no other reason then because statistics show a significantly lower chance of a successful marriage for promiscuous people. That includes men. So unless you want to die alone, you better keep an eye on that, regardless of who you are.
The next time you see the statistic saying 50% of marriages fail, remember that number is much, much lower among people with restraint. Its all the other losers who make the average what it is.

15_Debo · Answer

Of course... both the genders are human... and there are gods of both genders  if they are considered sacred then of course Virgin people of both the genders are also sacred...

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Completely. If the means of losing it indicate the worst about a woman's character, then the same should be understood for men. It's asinine that we have traces remaining today of the Caesarian double standard. This is also the reason we still have railways that are the same width, which puts limits on NASA engineering due to the need to transport parts by train: because for all our modernization, we still base most of our standards on the Roman Empire.

rachel776 · Answer

i like guys who know how to fuck

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