What is it like to have a penis?

[Anonymous]

I am female to male transgender and considering getting one

[ohshee]

Okay so I have this beautiful friend going to transformation from female to male we have hung out many many times and we've had many discussions and she is let me in or he has let me in to her deepest darkest secrets. She wanted to know the same thing every time we talked we talked about it it was really affecting her she was getting ready to move go live with her dad because she just went through a breakup and before she left she came by to say goodbye we talked and we talked and she was obsessed with this and I told her look I don't even know what to say to you anymore but I want to do something for you and she said what can I said you trust me and she said with my life I said okay come on we are sitting at my kitchen table and I took her hand that I took her into my bedroom I told her to get undressed and she started laughing and said why I said I want to do something for you she goes you're not going to try to have sex with me I said no. I said just go with me on this so she said okay and of course me being a smart-ass we're in bed and I rolled over and I tell her I would just love to fuck the fuck out of you right now and she said she I told you she started to get up and I grabbed a hold of her and I said wait this is not what this is about. I said sit up and turn around because I'll start laughing and she said and do what she said I'm not giving you a blowjob and I said no I know that. Choose what do you want me to do I said I want you to sit on my hips and just sit there for a few minutes so she said okay she was don't try to fuck me I said I'm not I grabbed a hold of her hips I pulled her backwards and sled her forward I did this three or four times I was already getting turned on the moment she straddled me I said there you go push your pussy all the way up against it holding up in the air and do whatever you want with it she was shaking already and she did this a few times and stroked it up and down a few times and she stood up on the bed she turned around and faced me sat back down and slid up to it courtesy was writing Institute and she picks it up in the air and she's stroking on it she was this is what I've always wanted this is what I've always wished for as she stroking it and she's asking me what does it feel like and I just looked at her I said this isn't about me about you she started rubbing up against it I mean she grabbed hold of my balls and she stroke my cock with one hand and she said I love you she asked me can she do something that I said what she said I want you to come I want to stroke you up and you come and I said are you sure and she said yes well she stroked me up and I shot come everywhere she was so turned on and she sat on me until I went soft and she tried to get me up again and she did it and she said I want to call Stacy that's her ex girlfriend I said what for and she said because I want her to come over here cuz I want to fuck her with your cock and I just started laughing I said now this is for you nobody else and she started begging me anyway needless to say I created a monster girl boy guy whatever my friend the next morning I had to go to work for a couple hours when I got back her friend Stacy was there and I just looked at her and I said no and she tried to talk me into so many things I just kept telling her no I wish I could have would have done it but I think maybe you ought to try that if that's what you want I'm not telling you it's the right thing or the wrong thing to do I shouldn't even then what I did but I did it and she did cuz never ever forgotten it and whatever she comes into town I'm the first person that she comes over to see she's a true friend and I feel bad for her so I tried to help her

[PenkWing]

Oh I wouldn’t know where to start because I have always had one. I guess it’s nice that you can touch it as a thing, that you can hold in your hand. And it’s still part of you, and you can feel it during penetrative sex for example, like you are actually inside of someone else. I’m told that using a strap-on gives a similar feeling, so maybe it’s not that special. It’s always in the way, even when you don’t want it to be. Could be trouble when you are sleeping or you are wearing something tight. Erections are crazy. They happen. Something with a reason, sometimes not so much. They take a lot of your mental energy, when it’s all engorged and taking space and asking for attention. Controlling the flow and the direction while you pee, that’s high-tech shit. Ejaculations, every single time. Balls are part of the package, and they’re nice but meh too many downsides, need to keep them cool, vulnerable to hits, taking even more space, get in the way during hygiene routine. Can live without. Easily accessible prostate, that’s a nice-to-have, but not sure how it compares to what you already have. Bulges, well, they are a thing, and if you’re like most transmasc people I know you probably wished you had one to show or wear a packer sometimes. I mean, sure, but what about I can wear whatever swimwear without people thinking I’m a sleaze. Hit me for more questions 🤣

[Asker]

I unfortunately won't be able to have erections after surgery

[PenkWing]

Good point. I was sharing my own experience with a penis, not suggesting what it would be like for you. But I think it will be worth it!

[Asker]

I hope so too I can't wait until I look in my pants and see a penis instead of a vagina

[Asker]

I just wanna have my surgery and then be able to shower in communal showers with men

[buddysboy16]

It gets hard sometimes

[Bricealan]

I don't know what happens with a transgender -female-to-male when it comes to the penis. I don't know what they do, I don't know if you would have testicles, or any thing like that. I can't imagine not being able to get an erection, so I don't know how that happens in your case.

If you have a penis, and can get an erection, you could fuck another women, and feel the sensation that a man feels, but don't know the possibilities of that happening

[johnnygodeep]

One word, AMAZING… 🖤☠️🖤

[Asker]

I sure hope so

[Mangospacho]

It’s great. It’s comfortable to have. It’s fun to make it get big or have someone make it big for me. Plus it’s fun to be the dominant one in sex with it.

[FreeOhSeven]

I had a ftm friend who had a prosthetic before fully transitioning, might want to give that a try.

[Seppel]

I would rather be a Girle. Lets swap

[Badrhasan]

I am man but like be girequired so wear girly dress more time and hope to left mjyou cock out like shemale all to fuck me any time can help me my girls

[Anonymous]

Is there a penis shop near you?

[Anonymous]

Depends on the penis I guess. It's been pretty great having mine. But torture at times too.
But it could be horrible I'm sure

[Anonymous]

Do you get to pick what size?
Get a big one or else most women will treat you badly.

[Asker]

The bigger it is the more complicated it will be

[Opinion Owner]

Are you going to be hooking up with women once you're a guy?

[Asker]

I'm into both

[Opinion Owner]

The doctor's probably lying, he just doesn't want you to have one bigger than his.

[Opinion Owner]

Once you're a guy everyone will treat you differently. Women won't pay any attention to you unless you're hot and other guys see you as competition.

[Asker]

Like I've heard that guys compare dick sizes in locker rooms

[Opinion Owner]

They don't, and don't ever look at another man's dick when you're standing at the urinals either. Most guys change with their backs turned to each other and they don't usually talk openly about sex and their personal relationships like women do. Straight guys basically hate each other most of the time. We just want to get changed and get going. We're gross to each other.

[Asker]

Wow I didn't know that especially since I heard most men's locker room showers don't have stalls

[Opinion Owner]

Some guys will shower out in the open, most guys go home to shower. The only guys who really stand around naked talking for a while in public are old guys, predators and the occasional exhibitionist and maybe a gay voyeur. Most guys just want to get changed and get out of there. If it was men and women changing together it would be different. Straight guys would be standing around naked all day and showering 10 times with the women.

[Asker]

I'm learning a lot about what being a guy is like I can't wait to have my surgery

[Opinion Owner]

It can be a colder world as a guy. Nobody is going to comfort you or go out of their way to help you because you're pretty. Nobody will care about your feelings and you will be seen as bad until proven otherwise. Unlike women who are generally seen as innocent until proven guilty. It will be interesting for you. Hope you like rejection.