Why does my boyfriend ejaculate so fast?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

How fast is fast? If he does it in 3-5 minutes, then it's actually normal and you guys just need to do more for you before getting there. Maybe play around more. I mean, I'd he is turned on by you a lot, then he will do it in about that time. Time it and see how long it takes. If it's like 1-2 minutes, he can go see a professional.

If you wanna prolong it, have a few drinks and he will go longer. The more drinks, the longer it should take normally.

Although, chances are, he finds you hot and it takes him around 5 mins because of that (it's a compliment). Women neutrally take longer. Those men who can go longer, either trained for it (which could be bad) or have a condition which benefits the woman but could also be an issue. Some men can just go longer for no reason but most men won't and I hope you can instead talk to him about it and figure out a plan on how to make it more fun so you don't feel like it's not enough. Good luck!

Tamera952 · Accepted Answer

Cause he needs practice, or is too worked up. Get him a fleshlight to practice stamina & control. Tell him to masturbate more frequently in between as well.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Go on line, get of tube of 'benzocaine' "Play Longer" and put a light coating around the "rim' of the head of his penis. That will dementalize the head, and allow him to 'keep on pumpin' for a long time, without shooting his wad.

LiamSawyer · Accepted Answer

Premature ejaculation is usually a sign on inexperience. 5o ensure your enjoyment does he give you enough foreplay? It should include him going down on you during foreplay.

chrissykerdock · Answer

generally it may be a good thing because he's attracted to you... you may want to start off with a blowjob let him cum in your mouth then start again after a break... i guess you haven't been together too long?>

katiesmuff · Answer

If he is making sure you are getting off I don't see an issue.

loves2learn · Answer

How many times have you had sex? Men always go shorter the first few times with a new partner.

Buckzor · Answer

Because we're biologically programmed to for reproductive purposes.  He could also be inexperienced.  Do you use a condom?

buddysboy16 · Answer

Try using a For her condom. Slows him down and speeds you up

JosyJosy · Answer

He just lacks the self control and/or he's selfish

Browneye57 · Answer

Cuz he's a noob, and he jerks off to porn way too much.  You two will have to work on it together.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Because taking a long time is a thing guys learn. In nature, you are either fast, or you get eaten while busy trying to fuck.  It's not natural for a guy to take a while to cum, its a developed skill.

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

A few reasons, actually. -you just feel too good for him! -he hasn’t been intimate in a while. -he’s selfish and doesn’t care if you get yours or not. -he’s a premature ejaculator.

kellytheman · Answer

Maybe not and bcause your really tight and wet or he dosent care about you getting pleasure.

Morgador · Answer

Because your gorgeous and you know how to please your man. Start edging him and don't let him cum unless you want him to. This will teach him how to control his evacuation. This will also make his loads huge and he will climax harder